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married 7 1/2 years, became amazing companions instead of keeping up the love and intimacy...how long should u wait(don't want to be a rebound) and how long til it gets easier???
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Just dont rush into anything with anyone. That is the best advice I know.
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good luck
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there is no one answer
good luck though |
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married 7 1/2 years, became amazing companions instead of keeping up the love and intimacy...how long should u wait(don't want to be a rebound) and how long til it gets easier??? I think that each person is different. Everybody needs a different amount of time to heal. But..a divorce is a good place to start, IMO. Welcome to Mingle. 
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thanks mike...couldnt even think of doing that right now
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You can wait until hell freezes over, and it won't help...if you're separated.
It's like advertising that there's a Lien against your car and trying to interest a buyer; or that you don't have the title free and clear. It's the land of "Buyer Beware"...just sayin' 
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married 7 1/2 years, became amazing companions instead of keeping up the love and intimacy...how long should u wait(don't want to be a rebound) and how long til it gets easier??? Well are you seperated and filed for divorce or just seperated? If you are going to date, be honest up front. |
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thanks Winx...u made me laugh
divorce is the next step, friends have been helping me heal, so no set time frame? |
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DATE...are u serious...its been a month...looking for friendship and advice
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thanks Winx...u made me laugh divorce is the next step, friends have been helping me heal, so no set time frame? No set time frame. 
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Edited by
Jill298
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Wed 01/28/09 09:47 PM
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No, there's really not a set time frame... Only you know when you're ready. If you go out to soon, it could be disasterous
 You will know. I promise.
I wouldn't start until after you're divorced tho. |
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the separation will go fine, we've talked more in the last month than in the last 2 years...u can still be friends and reasonable if u loved each other enough
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how long does a divorce take? Neither one of us would contest it (we are in toronto, Canada) so i only have one fried who got divorced and it took 6 years...can't wait that long...don't want anything soon, but is 6 months too soon?
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1 question, and not to be a prick, is she sleeping with someone else?
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how long does a divorce take? Neither one of us would contest it (we are in toronto, Canada) so i only have one fried who got divorced and it took 6 years...can't wait that long...don't want anything soon, but is 6 months too soon? |
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still heard possibly a year...but who knows? may be quicker..haven't looked into it as much as her
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I know some people in my state that didn't contest it and it took only a couple of months, if that.
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if she's looking into it, it's over and you should move on. it seems she has.
you can still be friends, but i'd be out on the prowl. |
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cool...because we've talked so much...we've realized what we've done wrong, we each take 50/50 responsibility....but we waited to late to try to fix it...as my friends say, "thats life" or "everything happens for a reason"///standard friend talk for I'm sorry it didn't work out
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