Topic: what have you learned...
Italy0219's photo
Wed 01/28/09 06:04 PM
Be brutally honest, ask for what you want, don't put up with things you won't want to in the long run...........

Derekkye's photo
Wed 01/28/09 06:07 PM
Edited by Derekkye on Wed 01/28/09 06:08 PM
although important to love the person you are with, it is also equally important to be aware of whether or not that person feels loved by you

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 01/28/09 06:55 PM

from past relationships that you think may help you in future relationships?




Take nothing at face value.

no photo
Wed 01/28/09 07:38 PM
When one becomes the "silent" partner. It is pretty much over.

msmyka's photo
Wed 01/28/09 07:41 PM
If it feels like someone is using you, they probably are. Trust your gut!

hotmommy07's photo
Wed 01/28/09 07:42 PM
Save the drama for your mama...


eunice49508's photo
Wed 01/28/09 07:43 PM
You cannot change another person.

joshyfox's photo
Wed 01/28/09 07:43 PM

Trust no one


Dated a lot of Spies, have you? "Trust No One" Is a classic number-one rule for any experienced Spy.

I have nothing else to contribute to this topic but snarky comments since I've never had a relationship... not really... I've gotten close a few times though.

no photo
Wed 01/28/09 07:45 PM
I learned to never pee on an electric fence

don't ask...

JoeW99's photo
Wed 01/28/09 07:46 PM
Don't sweat the little Sh!t.

Spending your time making mountains out of mole hills, just wastes time you can spend with the person you love.


wmb07's photo
Wed 01/28/09 07:46 PM
Compromise is important, as long as you don't compromise what is important to you.

Roco's photo
Wed 01/28/09 07:50 PM
that if there's an imbalance of power...that its usually not going to work out..

roco

Roco's photo
Wed 01/28/09 07:54 PM


Trust no one


Dated a lot of Spies, have you? "Trust No One" Is a classic number-one rule for any experienced Spy.

I have nothing else to contribute to this topic but snarky comments since I've never had a relationship... not really... I've gotten close a few times though.


you know..its quite the opposite for me..that is to say..easy to get into relationships..but getting close is the tough part..

roco

no photo
Wed 01/28/09 08:04 PM
That you cannot get what your partner cannot offer, if you expect the impossible you are sure not to get it.

hotmommy07's photo
Wed 01/28/09 08:08 PM
Never make someone a priority if they only make you an option

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 01/28/09 08:11 PM
That if people think their haveing heartaches in common will make you closer they are wrong.

hotmommy07's photo
Wed 01/28/09 08:12 PM
Get over your past relationships before getting involved with someone else. A lot of people think that if you move on right away it helps you get over it, but it usually causes unnecessary arguing, and constant comparisons that aren't fair.

no photo
Wed 01/28/09 08:12 PM

from past relationships that you think may help you in future relationships?




Whoever said "it's better to have loved-and-lost than to never loved at all" seriously had his head up his ass.

LilOlMeFromSD's photo
Wed 01/28/09 08:31 PM

to forgive and forget.


I used to think this way. Then one morning I woke up and realized if I continued to "forget" I wasn't getting any wiser.

Now, I forgive but I do not forget.

alightinthedark's photo
Wed 01/28/09 09:33 PM
I learned that it's NEVER a good idea to let your husband become friends with your (supposed)best friend brokenheart