The thing I hate most about dating online is: I put some effort into my initial contact emails and get nothing. I mean you sit hear and go though all these profiles and read all of her interests put some thought into it. trying to sound confident but not cocky... unless she happens to like cocky. funny but not retarded. intelligent about issues but not politically opinionated. she reads it and nothing... not deleted no reply just read...ummm ok. I'm not trying to be someone else only accentuate the qualities I believe she will find most endearing. one could write about themselves but isn't that what you profile is for. I guess what I'm trying to say is if a guy goes through the effort to write you just give him a little effort back.

And when you do finally come across the right one, she will respond


Don't give up hope

Mingle in my opinion is a forum dating site lol, and sometimes not even that, bad thing is you could be looking at profile for a person who hasnt logged on in a year. I just use this site for entertainment purposes only :)

sometimes things are not meant to beall this place is ..is a gamble you will meet good people as friends on here if nothing else don't get frustrated with it just enjoy it and have fun

Darn it....we were about to start the Tj806 fan club but if you are only here for fun then we can't do it. LOL!!!!!

AHH sorry LOL

Dang, silly women. Even if I'm not interested, if it is a well thought out email that shows the person read my profile I will answer back and at least chat a bit.

Not like the guy with a nearly empty profile last night whose 5 line email said that he wanted to tell me a little about himself yet managed to say absolutely nothing.

Do what I do and just don't give a damn...makes this site a hell of a lot funner and a lot less stressful.

Been on a few dates from this site, so you can get dates...however as experience as my teacher, these dates also come with expectations...don't meet them and you are cut out, meet them and you are cut out. Lose/lose regardless of how hard you try to make it work, so I gave up.

Ummm...you know this is online dating...right??? Do you have a crying session when a woman doesn't want to talk to you in real life??? Shes probably not interested...Who cares...move on and write another one

I'm not trying to cry over spilled milk... I'm just saying it's rude to ignore someone when they talk to you.

I'm sorry...whats her screen name...I'll force her to be nice to you...how rude of her

etrain you're kinda a prick

Yes. Don't ever expect to make friends or socialize here, because that's not what this site is for. It's strictly for dating, nothing else. It's a regular Dating Store.

I'm going to return to the bar scene.

Thats so rude...I'm gonna go cry now Dude...I'm just being realistic here...I'm just saying...move on...write someone else

Doo Dee Doo

Store? Dating Store? No wonder there is no success. I HATE shopping!

i have meet some good people here and had a dates..you just have to be open minded and blunt at the same time

thanks for the sage like advice etrain. I do move on I'm just saying it's rude.

Store? AWSOME I'll take 4 Moondarks, 4 fireofthephoenix's, and a bottle of dom. Paper or platic you say? I'll take plastic :)