Topic: Is it possible
rlynne's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:34 PM
to make someone care about their children?

Totage's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:35 PM
No it's not, I'm learning. flowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:35 PM

to make someone care about their children?


If they have children and don't care about them...there isn't a thing you can do to make them give a sh!t.

scorpio90's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:35 PM
If they don't care to begin with then nothing will make them care I'm sure.

moonandstars's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:37 PM
What's that old saying? "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink".

No you can't make anyone care for their children. You can encourage positive interaction, but ultimately, the choice is theirs.



Atlantis75's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:39 PM

to make someone care about their children?


It's shocking to me. Even bugs and spiders care about their offspring. Coming from this, anyone who doesn't care about their children are below the bugs and spiders on the evolution tree.

rlynne's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:41 PM
alright so explain, why they might care about children they have with their mistress but not about children they have with their wife?

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:42 PM

alright so explain, why they might care about children they have with their mistress but not about children they have with their wife?


Stupidity. Plain and simple.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:42 PM

alright so explain, why they might care about children they have with their mistress but not about children they have with their wife?


They're selfish... They don't care about her children either, they are just pretending for the bootay... Plain and simple...

Dragoness's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:43 PM

to make someone care about their children?


Do you mean making a parent care for their own children? Or making a step care for the children? I am not sure how to answer.

If you are talking to a parent about their children, my best suggestion would be to make it very very clear to them that once the child was born, life is no longer about them, it is about the child or children now. It is a parents job to love, care and nurture a child to become a productive and self sustaining human being. A parent is give 18 years to do it.

Totage's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:43 PM

alright so explain, why they might care about children they have with their mistress but not about children they have with their wife?


I have a hard time trying to comprehend them not caring for their children let alone them being choosy about it.

Winx's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:45 PM

to make someone care about their children?


No.:angry:

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:45 PM

to make someone care about their children?
why wouldnt they its their responsibility

AndyBgood's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:45 PM
well....

maybe the kids and wife are a big disappointment to the man...

maybe he is just a choad and a pecker head....

maybe he is fulfilling a fantasy though another relationship...

maybe his values are normal in another country...

maybe he just likes making his wife miserable...

My question is then why is she putting up with it?

Security?spock

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:47 PM
maybe he just likes making his wife miserable...


This would be my guess.

23mBoredinKilleen's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:47 PM

maybe his values are normal in another country...


This made me. rofl

I'm gonna use that one next time I piss someone off.

On a side note.. You can't make people care. It's best just to say fk em and leave them out of your life.

writer_gurl's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:49 PM

alright so explain, why they might care about children they have with their mistress but not about children they have with their wife?

Because they are Dum-Dums

eileena9's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:50 PM


to make someone care about their children?
why wouldnt they its their responsibility


Because in the case of my ex......responsibility is something that doesn't apply to him and because his girlfriend is jealous of our younger daughter, he wants nothing to do with our 16 yr old.

rlynne's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:50 PM

well....

maybe the kids and wife are a big disappointment to the man...

maybe he is just a choad and a pecker head....

maybe he is fulfilling a fantasy though another relationship...

maybe his values are normal in another country...

maybe he just likes making his wife miserable...

My question is then why is she putting up with it?

Security?spock


there is no toleration for it....however, I do not wish upon any child to not know their father, unless their father puts their welfare in jeopardy

it is in this thought that I wonder how someone could not love and care for their children..are they so self absorbed idiotic or cruel that it truly makes no difference to some people?


Totage's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:52 PM


well....

maybe the kids and wife are a big disappointment to the man...

maybe he is just a choad and a pecker head....

maybe he is fulfilling a fantasy though another relationship...

maybe his values are normal in another country...

maybe he just likes making his wife miserable...

My question is then why is she putting up with it?

Security?spock


there is no toleration for it....however, I do not wish upon any child to not know their father, unless their father puts their welfare in jeopardy

it is in this thought that I wonder how someone could not love and care for their children..are they so self absorbed idiotic or cruel that it truly makes no difference to some people?




Yes, some people are too self absorbed to care for anyone but themself they will even go as far as putting their child and their self in dangerous, abusive relationships just to "feel" happy for the moment.