Ok.... so I had a second date tonight with someone I met on here. We said we we would call each other when he had a good time because we both had to figure out babysitting arrangements. So I text him at 5:00 and asked if we had a plan for tonight. We text alot because we are both at work. No response. Called at 6:30. No answer. I left a message. Text at 7:15 and said "so I assume you are out for tonight. I don't know what changed in a day, but a phone call would have been appreciated so I know what's going on?" If he's not interested, he's just not, I'm ok with that, just let me know.

Do I just move on? We had a fabulous first date and have been texting back and forth since then

Has this happened to any of y'all?

Forget about it all and move on. It's obvious that the spiky-haired metrosexual you made the mistake of going on the date with can't keep track of his appointments, and even THINKING of trying to go for a "mulligan" simply isn't worth it.

You can't give up yet. There could be many reasons why he has not responded. The worst thing you can do is push. Since you have already texted him and tried to call, I would just put the ball in his court and let him come to you now. If he is really interested, then he will get in touch with you. Good luck!

He went poof and disappeared, look for someone else.

Well, wait a while and see what happened if you still don't get anything within a few days, then forget about it.

Move on. It's his loss. You can do better.

Look...I told you already...honest... I ran out of gas. I, I had a flat tire. I didn't have enough money for cab fare. My tux didn't come back from the cleaners. An old friend came in from out of town. Someone stole my car. There was an earthquake. A terrible flood. Locusts. IT WASN'T MY FAULT, I SWEAR TO GOD

you are being played...

Wow.... I feel dumb :(. I guess I just thought since he is a little older, maybe he is through playing stupid games. I guess not.

JMO_ If the guy likes you,he would call, or text you would not have to wonder.......

Yes this has happen to me. I was seeing a guy for about a 2 weeks. We were talking on the phone he was coming over almost ever night. I thought we were getting along really good. I called him on a Friday night and he said that he would call me back and never did so I finally called him. Left a message. Told him I know I didn't do anything to hurt you or offend you but if I did I'm sorry. I told him I would not call him or bother him any more. Had never heard anything back. Thats what I don't understand about a guy why they can't just be upfront and honest. Instead of us wondering if we did something wrong or what. I would tell someone if I'm not interested in them anymore. But I guess thats were women are different then guys are. I don't let me bother me cause I know there is someone even better then he was.

Older doesn't translate into being more "mature". I know because I've dated "ladies" who were older than I am, and they were just as capable of pulling off the dumbest crap in the name of "flakiness" as any twenty-something myspace or facebook slut.

Dunno what else to tell you other than be a little bit more vigilant when it comes to dating.

He is laying in my bed right now

Nekkid

Maybe his cell phone battery died... it happens...

Wow mirror, I didn't know you swung that way! Interesting. At least he went for a good lay, I would have ditched me too! lol

sorry to hear about your bad news, things happen maybe you should wait to hear from him before you move on.

sorry to hear about your bad news, things happen maybe you should wait to hear from him before you move on.

believe it or not it happens to men too.

lmao-funny M2 on the real sweetie-cut it! you let him know where you stand. make him beg you!! go out..talk with friends...do your thing! and like Aaliya says-'age aint nuthin but a number'-that doestn mean maturity. g.l.

Oh I believe it, us women are just plain wrong sometimes. Regardless, it is never fun. A first for me and I am not a happy camper. Back to the search I guess!

agreed.