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| Topic: TELL ME WHAT IS IT A FEMALE REALLY WANTS FROM HER MAN, WHAT | |
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Sorry about your sister Tink, a lot of dudes do suck, but it is partially her fault for staying in that position. Don't make a comfort excuse like "it's not that easy." Well yeah, life changes are always a challenge, but you choose where you stay too. Call me an A-hole all you want but deep down you know it's true. Just be glad she finally got out of that mess. Be glad she died? Um, you might want to rewrite that. I just did, I thought she said "almost". I have edited my posts. |
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My suggestion would be not to generalize all women as cheaters. Most of us do NOT!!!! I can't and won't speak for all women but as for me- if you keep me happy, and I don't mean buy me things or have a "ginormous donkey dong," I am completely monogomous. Have you really looked at who you are as a person? maybe the love does not die but does not grow either. For a relationship to flourish the couple has to grow together. Learn about yourself and what you want in a woman and what kind of relationship you want and when you meet a woman you are interested in.....COMMUNICATE!!!!!!! thats right!!! talk to her- tell her what you want, your hopes, dreams and aspirations. What would make you happy in the relationship. Then ask her what she would want. Love is 100/100 not 50/50- if you are willing to give it your all- she will be too JMO Ok Dr. Ruth hold up. You just said you as long as a man can keep you happy that you will be commited. That implies that if he let you down that you would possibly stray. You also said that not all women are cheaters. What exactly is your point? You obiously can't say that your aren't unfaithful since that is contingent on your happiness level. Yeah, maybe some women are faithful, most aren't. Don't get me wrong. Men are douchebags too. The only difference is that men are more likely to admit an affair. Women take that sh1t with them to the grave. Oh, shut up Arse holes. Yes, yuo may have been cheeted on or seen a woman cheet but, that doesn't mean that we all do. Sue, some of us may suck and we may be brain ninjas sometimes but, so are some of you guys! So take that Dr. Ruth comment and shove it up your arse!! We don't talk like that on here. 
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Edited by
Wacodude
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Sat 01/24/09 04:18 PM
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Look, Mrs. Morals, don't tell me it comes with age. You mean to tell me that a higher standard of living doesn't help decide if people stay or go? I am still friend's with my former father-in-law who is over 60 and he complains about women wanting only one thing. MONEY. No, not straight up cabbage, but they always ask him about retirement, investments, things like that. And this is normally on the first date. Maybe I come accross as brash, but more people need a bite from a reality sandwich. Look, optimism isn't bad when taken in the right dose. Hope for the best, but plan on the worst so you aren't disappointed. The cold hard fact is that fr any given individual 99.9% of the world does not care about them. Also, I think a lot of you are blind to the sarcasm too. Chill out, this is an internet forum, a place to echange ideas. It's not a do or die situation. So sorry about who f$$ked you over Who doesn't have one? That's just life Chica. |
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Look, Mrs. Morals, don't tell me it comes with age. You mean to tell me that a higher standard of living doesn't help decide if people stay or go? I am still friend's with my former father-in-law who is over 60 and he complains about women wanting only one thing. MONEY. No, not straight up cabbage, but they always ask him about retirement, investments, things like that. And this is normally on the first date. Maybe I come accross as brash, but more people need a bite from a reality sandwich. Look, optimism isn't bad when taken in the right dose. Hope for the best, but plan on the worst so you aren't disappointed. The cold hard fact is that fr any given individual 99.9% of the world does not care about them. Also, I think a lot of you are blind to the sarcasm too. Chill out, this is an internet forum, a place to echange ideas. It's not a do or die situation. So sorry about who f$$ked you over Who doesn't have one? That's just Chica. Not all women are that way and there are just as many men as women that are that way.....I have been an earner all my life and had it done to me too but wont let it jade me because not all men are like that and neither are all women |
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Where exactly did I state all women are evil? You almost make it sound like I am portraying men as constant victims. I also stated with all honesty that I would totally marry the women that served me food in highschool if they suddenly had a lot of money and wanted me for a boy toy. I'm just being honest.
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Okay, the man I divorced was verbally and emotionally abusive. made me and our daughter shut-ins.
Gambled away everything I had ever earned, the house I was buying, the cars I owned, our daughter's 529 plan. The man I am currently with would rather sacrifice happiness with me for all eternity just so I can move to Israel to be closer to my daughter. He wants me to be happy first. Then he will be happy. It's not about money, we are both poor bastards. It's not about looks, cause we both are fuglies. It's not about the cars we drive, cause we both drive POS that choose which days they want to start based on some ancient moon cycle. It's about the love we share. It's about the determination to make this work. It's about the long nights just talking and listening to each other breathing as we fall asleep on the phone. It's about the drive to see our relationship succeed where others have failed due to distance. It's about the compromises we have taken to get to where we are. |
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its not hard to find them ,its hard to hold on to them 
Yeah, you keep them until they find a guy with more money than you or a bigger f*ckstick. [/quote Damn. You're awfully cynical. What I dont understand is how men get away with saying "most" women cheat. You dont KNOW most women. And not you personally Waco, cuz I dont know you, but it seems to me that if so many men are having problems with their women straying, after the first couple of times, perhaps the men should see what THEY'RE doing wrong that pushes their women to cheat. |
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My suggestion would be not to generalize all women as cheaters. Most of us do NOT!!!! I can't and won't speak for all women but as for me- if you keep me happy, and I don't mean buy me things or have a "ginormous donkey dong," I am completely monogomous. Have you really looked at who you are as a person? maybe the love does not die but does not grow either. For a relationship to flourish the couple has to grow together. Learn about yourself and what you want in a woman and what kind of relationship you want and when you meet a woman you are interested in.....COMMUNICATE!!!!!!! thats right!!! talk to her- tell her what you want, your hopes, dreams and aspirations. What would make you happy in the relationship. Then ask her what she would want. Love is 100/100 not 50/50- if you are willing to give it your all- she will be too JMO Ok Dr. Ruth hold up. You just said you as long as a man can keep you happy that you will be commited. That implies that if he let you down that you would possibly stray. You also said that not all women are cheaters. What exactly is your point? You obiously can't say that your aren't unfaithful since that is contingent on your happiness level. Yeah, maybe some women are faithful, most aren't. Don't get me wrong. Men are douchebags too. The only difference is that men are more likely to admit an affair. Women take that sh1t with them to the grave. Oh, shut up Arse holes. Yes, yuo may have been cheeted on or seen a woman cheet but, that doesn't mean that we all do. Sue, some of us may suck and we may be brain ninjas sometimes but, so are some of you guys! So take that Dr. Ruth comment and shove it up your arse!! We don't talk like that on here.
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Edited by
Seakolony
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Sat 01/24/09 04:26 PM
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Where exactly did I state all women are evil? You almost make it sound like I am portraying men as constant victims. I also stated with all honesty that I would totally marry the women that served me food in highschool if they suddenly had a lot of money and wanted me for a boy toy. I'm just being honest. Sorry but men want women to foot the bill and you said all women want is...so actually you did say it and here is your copied quote with my former father-in-law who is over 60 and he complains about women wanting only one thing. MONEY. No, not straight up cabbage, but they always ask him about retirement, investments, things like that. And this is normally on the first date. |
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TELL ME WHY ITS SO HARD TO FIND A HONES, LOYAL GIRL WHY DO WOMAN KEEP CHEATING, WHAT IS IT THAT A MAN CAN DO TO KEEP HIS LADY WITH HIM FOREVER, WHY DO PEOPLE GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS AND THEN THEY ALWAYS BREAK UP WHAT IS IT THAT CAUSES LOVE TO DIE, WHAT?????????????/HOW CAN A GOOD MAN FIND A REAL GOOD LADY HOW........... That's a whole lot of difficult questions. Why not try one at a time? Then they could be taken a little more seriously. As it stands, with that whole paragraph of why why why, it's almost like asking how big is the Universe. There IS no clear answer. |
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Okay, the man I divorced was verbally and emotionally abusive. made me and our daughter shut-ins. Gambled away everything I had ever earned, the house I was buying, the cars I owned, our daughter's 529 plan. The man I am currently with would rather sacrifice happiness with me for all eternity just so I can move to Israel to be closer to my daughter. He wants me to be happy first. Then he will be happy. It's not about money, we are both poor bastards. It's not about looks, cause we both are fuglies. It's not about the cars we drive, cause we both drive POS that choose which days they want to start based on some ancient moon cycle. It's about the love we share. It's about the determination to make this work. It's about the long nights just talking and listening to each other breathing as we fall asleep on the phone. It's about the drive to see our relationship succeed where others have failed due to distance. It's about the compromises we have taken to get to where we are. If this is all actually true than congrats and enjoy it as long as you can, Betty Boop, because you are fortunate. |
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If this is all actually true than congrats and enjoy it as long as you can, Betty Boop, because you are fortunate.
Why would it not be true and how did you know my daughter is obsessed with Betty Boop? |
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Where exactly did I state all women are evil? You almost make it sound like I am portraying men as constant victims. I also stated with all honesty that I would totally marry the women that served me food in highschool if they suddenly had a lot of money and wanted me for a boy toy. I'm just being honest. Sorry but men want women to foot the bill and you said all women want is...so actually you did say it and here is your copied quote with my former father-in-law who is over 60 and he complains about women wanting only one thing. MONEY. No, not straight up cabbage, but they always ask him about retirement, investments, things like that. And this is normally on the first date. And you were able to infer that my view is that men want women to pay their way? I was replying to another member's generlization that the midset magicall becomes the polar opposite with age. Honestly, all of you are totally missing what I am saying. I am being as simple and crude as I can because that's a lot easier for most to digest. After your anger fades you will undertand. |
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If this is all actually true than congrats and enjoy it as long as you can, Betty Boop, because you are fortunate.
Why would it not be true and how did you know my daughter is obsessed with Betty Boop? That my dear is the magic of randomness. |
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TELL ME WHY ITS SO HARD TO FIND A HONES, LOYAL GIRL WHY DO WOMAN KEEP CHEATING, WHAT IS IT THAT A MAN CAN DO TO KEEP HIS LADY WITH HIM FOREVER, WHY DO PEOPLE GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS AND THEN THEY ALWAYS BREAK UP WHAT IS IT THAT CAUSES LOVE TO DIE, WHAT?????????????/HOW CAN A GOOD MAN FIND A REAL GOOD LADY HOW........... That's a whole lot of difficult questions. Why not try one at a time? Then they could be taken a little more seriously. As it stands, with that whole paragraph of why why why, it's almost like asking how big is the Universe. There IS no clear answer. The answer is "42". |
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Marry her. Lol. Actually, Just listen to her. Be randomly kind, sweet and loving, generous too. umm... Well. Just be a gentleman. love her. make her feel appreceated. Hold her close when people are looking, and when they aren't. Suprise her with dinner, or a bath, or someing else that isn't really sexual that you both can share. Something that you wouldn't normally do. Spoil her occasionally. When she's in a bad mood, don't argue. Let her vent to you because, whether you are totally listining or not, she really appreciates it. This is (mostly) how I would like to be treated... I'm sure every other woman too. |
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TELL ME WHY ITS SO HARD TO FIND A HONES, LOYAL GIRL WHY DO WOMAN KEEP CHEATING, WHAT IS IT THAT A MAN CAN DO TO KEEP HIS LADY WITH HIM FOREVER, WHY DO PEOPLE GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS AND THEN THEY ALWAYS BREAK UP WHAT IS IT THAT CAUSES LOVE TO DIE, WHAT?????????????/HOW CAN A GOOD MAN FIND A REAL GOOD LADY HOW........... That's a whole lot of difficult questions. Why not try one at a time? Then they could be taken a little more seriously. As it stands, with that whole paragraph of why why why, it's almost like asking how big is the Universe. There IS no clear answer. The answer is "42". Yeah? 42 what? Inches? Feet? Yards? Millimeters? |
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Once you figure that out, you will know. Or, you could just watch or read "The Hitch Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy"...
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Once you figure that out, you will know. Or, you could just watch or read "The Hitch Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy"... I have read and watched. Im still in the dark, but that's ok, I like a little mystery in my life... |
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Sat 01/24/09 04:55 PM
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