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| Topic: TELL ME WHAT IS IT A FEMALE REALLY WANTS FROM HER MAN, WHAT | |
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My suggestion would be not to generalize all women as cheaters. Most of us do NOT!!!! I can't and won't speak for all women but as for me- if you keep me happy, and I don't mean buy me things or have a "ginormous donkey dong," I am completely monogomous. Have you really looked at who you are as a person? maybe the love does not die but does not grow either. For a relationship to flourish the couple has to grow together. Learn about yourself and what you want in a woman and what kind of relationship you want and when you meet a woman you are interested in.....COMMUNICATE!!!!!!! thats right!!! talk to her- tell her what you want, your hopes, dreams and aspirations. What would make you happy in the relationship. Then ask her what she would want. Love is 100/100 not 50/50- if you are willing to give it your all- she will be too JMO Ok Dr. Ruth hold up. You just said you as long as a man can keep you happy that you will be commited. That implies that if he let you down that you would possibly stray. You also said that not all women are cheaters. What exactly is your point? You obiously can't say that your aren't unfaithful since that is contingent on your happiness level. Yeah, maybe some women are faithful, most aren't. Don't get me wrong. Men are douchebags too. The only difference is that men are more likely to admit an affair. Women take that sh1t with them to the grave. |
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MirrorMirror
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TELL ME WHY ITS SO HARD TO FIND A HONES, LOYAL GIRL WHY DO WOMAN KEEP CHEATING, WHAT IS IT THAT A MAN CAN DO TO KEEP HIS LADY WITH HIM FOREVER, WHY DO PEOPLE GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS AND THEN THEY ALWAYS BREAK UP WHAT IS IT THAT CAUSES LOVE TO DIE, WHAT?????????????/HOW CAN A GOOD MAN FIND A REAL GOOD LADY HOW...........  Nice guy alert
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Marry her. Lol. Actually, Just listen to her. Be randomly kind, sweet and loving, generous too. umm... Well. Just be a gentleman. love her. make her feel appreceated. Hold her close when people are looking, and when they aren't. Suprise her with dinner, or a bath, or someing else that isn't really sexual that you both can share. Something that you wouldn't normally do. Spoil her occasionally. When she's in a bad mood, don't argue. Let her vent to you because, whether you are totally listining or not, she really appreciates it. This is (mostly) how I would like to be treated... I'm sure every other woman too.
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The love of the money!
The size of the equipment does not matter nor does the age as long as Daddy got bucks! Paris Hilton could have said no but hell, look at how much she is worth now. A true gold digger's success story. The funny thing is Daddy Warbucks chased after Her a lot. Props to Paris Hilton! |
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1. Come accross a LOT of money. 2. Be born with a ginormous donkey dong 3. Refer to option 1. or 2. Hope this helps.  I think some of the problem...with both men and women is that we look for "hotties" instead of hearts....why don't we start there? Physical attraction is a must...but it shouldn't be the only thing we see when looking at someone.
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Marry her. Lol. Actually, Just listen to her. Be randomly kind, sweet and loving, generous too. umm... Well. Just be a gentleman. love her. make her feel appreceated. Hold her close when people are looking, and when they aren't. Suprise her with dinner, or a bath, or someing else that isn't really sexual that you both can share. Something that you wouldn't normally do. Spoil her occasionally. When she's in a bad mood, don't argue. Let her vent to you because, whether you are totally listining or not, she really appreciates it. This is (mostly) how I would like to be treated... I'm sure every other woman too. So basically you want an emotional punching bag? |
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My suggestion would be not to generalize all women as cheaters. Most of us do NOT!!!! I can't and won't speak for all women but as for me- if you keep me happy, and I don't mean buy me things or have a "ginormous donkey dong," I am completely monogomous. Have you really looked at who you are as a person? maybe the love does not die but does not grow either. For a relationship to flourish the couple has to grow together. Learn about yourself and what you want in a woman and what kind of relationship you want and when you meet a woman you are interested in.....COMMUNICATE!!!!!!! thats right!!! talk to her- tell her what you want, your hopes, dreams and aspirations. What would make you happy in the relationship. Then ask her what she would want. Love is 100/100 not 50/50- if you are willing to give it your all- she will be too JMO Ok Dr. Ruth hold up. You just said you as long as a man can keep you happy that you will be commited. That implies that if he let you down that you would possibly stray. You also said that not all women are cheaters. What exactly is your point? You obiously can't say that your aren't unfaithful since that is contingent on your happiness level. Yeah, maybe some women are faithful, most aren't. Don't get me wrong. Men are douchebags too. The only difference is that men are more likely to admit an affair. Women take that sh1t with them to the grave. |
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My suggestion would be not to generalize all women as cheaters. Most of us do NOT!!!! I can't and won't speak for all women but as for me- if you keep me happy, and I don't mean buy me things or have a "ginormous donkey dong," I am completely monogomous. Have you really looked at who you are as a person? maybe the love does not die but does not grow either. For a relationship to flourish the couple has to grow together. Learn about yourself and what you want in a woman and what kind of relationship you want and when you meet a woman you are interested in.....COMMUNICATE!!!!!!! thats right!!! talk to her- tell her what you want, your hopes, dreams and aspirations. What would make you happy in the relationship. Then ask her what she would want. Love is 100/100 not 50/50- if you are willing to give it your all- she will be too JMO |
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 Tie em up....they like it
Did I hear the TIMEOUT room mentioned 
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My suggestion would be not to generalize all women as cheaters. Most of us do NOT!!!! I can't and won't speak for all women but as for me- if you keep me happy, and I don't mean buy me things or have a "ginormous donkey dong," I am completely monogomous. Have you really looked at who you are as a person? maybe the love does not die but does not grow either. For a relationship to flourish the couple has to grow together. Learn about yourself and what you want in a woman and what kind of relationship you want and when you meet a woman you are interested in.....COMMUNICATE!!!!!!! thats right!!! talk to her- tell her what you want, your hopes, dreams and aspirations. What would make you happy in the relationship. Then ask her what she would want. Love is 100/100 not 50/50- if you are willing to give it your all- she will be too JMO Ok Dr. Ruth hold up. You just said you as long as a man can keep you happy that you will be commited. That implies that if he let you down that you would possibly stray. You also said that not all women are cheaters. What exactly is your point? You obiously can't say that your aren't unfaithful since that is contingent on your happiness level. Yeah, maybe some women are faithful, most aren't. Don't get me wrong. Men are douchebags too. The only difference is that men are more likely to admit an affair. Women take that sh1t with them to the grave. Oh, shut up Arse holes. Yes, yuo may have been cheeted on or seen a woman cheet but, that doesn't mean that we all do. Sue, some of us may suck and we may be brain ninjas sometimes but, so are some of you guys! So take that Dr. Ruth comment and shove it up your arse!! |
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1. Come accross a LOT of money. 2. Be born with a ginormous donkey dong 3. Refer to option 1. or 2. Hope this helps. I think some of the problem...with both men and women is that we look for "hotties" instead of hearts....why don't we start there? Physical attraction is a must...but it shouldn't be the only thing we see when looking at someone.
Totally agree. If a toothless, bearded hag(Jumping Jack Flash!)had a lot of money and wanted to spend it on me, she would totally win my heart. Just being honest Mrs. Moral Detective. |
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My suggestion would be not to generalize all women as cheaters. Most of us do NOT!!!! I can't and won't speak for all women but as for me- if you keep me happy, and I don't mean buy me things or have a "ginormous donkey dong," I am completely monogomous. Have you really looked at who you are as a person? maybe the love does not die but does not grow either. For a relationship to flourish the couple has to grow together. Learn about yourself and what you want in a woman and what kind of relationship you want and when you meet a woman you are interested in.....COMMUNICATE!!!!!!! thats right!!! talk to her- tell her what you want, your hopes, dreams and aspirations. What would make you happy in the relationship. Then ask her what she would want. Love is 100/100 not 50/50- if you are willing to give it your all- she will be too JMO Ok Dr. Ruth hold up. You just said you as long as a man can keep you happy that you will be commited. That implies that if he let you down that you would possibly stray. You also said that not all women are cheaters. What exactly is your point? You obiously can't say that your aren't unfaithful since that is contingent on your happiness level. Yeah, maybe some women are faithful, most aren't. Don't get me wrong. Men are douchebags too. The only difference is that men are more likely to admit an affair. Women take that sh1t with them to the grave. Actually it is sexual advice. How many people complain about "emotional infidelity"? And sure you would tell him... |
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When you find a woman that you fall in love with, you have to tell them "I love you" if you feel they want to hear that, but you have to MEAN IT and not just say it! You have to make them feel they are special, they are needed, they are the only one you see in a crowded room. You can't let romance fade into oblivion. Always show it & feel it! You can't let up, ever, nor should you want to. If you are lucky enough to find that special woman, always let her know that she is special or eventually she will look elsewhere to find one who will let her know she is.
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My suggestion would be not to generalize all women as cheaters. Most of us do NOT!!!! I can't and won't speak for all women but as for me- if you keep me happy, and I don't mean buy me things or have a "ginormous donkey dong," I am completely monogomous. Have you really looked at who you are as a person? maybe the love does not die but does not grow either. For a relationship to flourish the couple has to grow together. Learn about yourself and what you want in a woman and what kind of relationship you want and when you meet a woman you are interested in.....COMMUNICATE!!!!!!! thats right!!! talk to her- tell her what you want, your hopes, dreams and aspirations. What would make you happy in the relationship. Then ask her what she would want. Love is 100/100 not 50/50- if you are willing to give it your all- she will be too JMO Ok Dr. Ruth hold up. You just said you as long as a man can keep you happy that you will be commited. That implies that if he let you down that you would possibly stray. You also said that not all women are cheaters. What exactly is your point? You obiously can't say that your aren't unfaithful since that is contingent on your happiness level. Yeah, maybe some women are faithful, most aren't. Don't get me wrong. Men are douchebags too. The only difference is that men are more likely to admit an affair. Women take that sh1t with them to the grave. Oh, shut up Arse holes. Yes, yuo may have been cheeted on or seen a woman cheet but, that doesn't mean that we all do. Sue, some of us may suck and we may be brain ninjas sometimes but, so are some of you guys! So take that Dr. Ruth comment and shove it up your arse!! 
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Edited by
LilOlMeFromSD
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Sat 01/24/09 03:49 PM
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Ok, BREATHE! Now count to 10...I'll count with ya'...1...2...3...there ya' go...don't forget to breathe...lol.
Honestly, I believe it is in our own choices. So, the women you are choosing may all have that same character flaw (generalizing here because you grouped us all together with your post). Figure out what it is that each of the "cheaters" have in common and by process of elimination, figure out which of those commonalities are negative. Then look for a mate that doesn't have those negative characteristics. Love doesn't die. It is ALWAYS there. Always. Unless you are referring to what some people think love is (sex, control, manipulation, abuse, etc.). When we begin a relationship, our brains produce more of certain hormones which make us "feel good". After being together over a period of time, the production of those hormones slows. It becomes easy for a person to get attention from another source and suddenly, the hormones kick into high gear again. Thus, producing those "feel good" sensations. Many "cheaters" mistakenly credit the 3rd party for 'making them feel good' when in fact, it is the situation (The Chase, attention, etc) that is responsible for stimulating the production of those hormones. It's natural for us to want to feel good so we spend more time with the other source (3rd party). Some call this 'The Chase' and you can call it whatever you desire but it's how the human body works. And, on a final note, it is the "cheaters" choice to act on those feelings. Some of us do not act on them. I wish you the best, Officerdaddy, hope this helps you. **Hope this makes sense, I'm exhausted...lol.** |
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My suggestion would be not to generalize all women as cheaters. Most of us do NOT!!!! I can't and won't speak for all women but as for me- if you keep me happy, and I don't mean buy me things or have a "ginormous donkey dong," I am completely monogomous. Have you really looked at who you are as a person? maybe the love does not die but does not grow either. For a relationship to flourish the couple has to grow together. Learn about yourself and what you want in a woman and what kind of relationship you want and when you meet a woman you are interested in.....COMMUNICATE!!!!!!! thats right!!! talk to her- tell her what you want, your hopes, dreams and aspirations. What would make you happy in the relationship. Then ask her what she would want. Love is 100/100 not 50/50- if you are willing to give it your all- she will be too JMO Ok Dr. Ruth hold up. You just said you as long as a man can keep you happy that you will be commited. That implies that if he let you down that you would possibly stray. You also said that not all women are cheaters. What exactly is your point? You obiously can't say that your aren't unfaithful since that is contingent on your happiness level. Yeah, maybe some women are faithful, most aren't. Don't get me wrong. Men are douchebags too. The only difference is that men are more likely to admit an affair. Women take that sh1t with them to the grave. Oh, shut up Arse holes. Yes, yuo may have been cheeted on or seen a woman cheet but, that doesn't mean that we all do. Sue, some of us may suck and we may be brain ninjas sometimes but, so are some of you guys! So take that Dr. Ruth comment and shove it up your arse!! Sticks and stones Tinkerbell. |
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Marry her. Lol. Actually, Just listen to her. Be randomly kind, sweet and loving, generous too. umm... Well. Just be a gentleman. love her. make her feel appreceated. Hold her close when people are looking, and when they aren't. Suprise her with dinner, or a bath, or someing else that isn't really sexual that you both can share. Something that you wouldn't normally do. Spoil her occasionally. When she's in a bad mood, don't argue. Let her vent to you because, whether you are totally listining or not, she really appreciates it. This is (mostly) how I would like to be treated... I would really appreciate this.. I'm sure every other woman too. So basically you want an emotional punching bag? No, I didn't say "this is what we want" I said "I would really appreciate this" What I didn't say is that if you did some of these things every once in a while, (more often then not) you'll get ****ed by her, garenteed... >_> Gawsh... |
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YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR RIGHT THERE ARE NOT THAT MANY LEFT SO MANY DISAPPOINTMENTS IN LIFE THT SHE CARRIES THOSE OLD MEMORIES WITH HER NEW ONE. WHY CANT YOU WOMAN JUST MOVE ON AND LEAVE THE PAST IN THE PAST AND MOVE FORWARD WHAT DO WOMAN GET OUT OF CHEATING WHAT DOES THE OTHER **** DO DOES IT SING OR PLAY THE PIANO I MEAN ITS ALL THE SAME RIGHT SO WHATS UP WITH THE CHEATING?
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I am not sure I get this..... but I thought the question was.......... well hell, I forgot to copy it first.....
Me? I want EVERYTHING.......... BODY AND SOUL. Let me know when I get it? Still waiting........ Life is as far as I have it, not perfect yet? I am very intense, I do nothing without passion, that means 'in spirit' FIRST and to me, and spirit and passion to me.... equates honesty and total respect and trust. I could go on.... but since I doubt anyone really cares.... just a stupid forum after all.. lol. |
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STOP LOL IM SERIOUS LOL.....HA HA WHY IS IT SO HARD LIKE FOR ME I HAVE A GOOD JOB A GOOD LIFE A GOOD HEART AND I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY ITS WEIRD ALL I EVER WANTED IS THAT SOMEONE SPECIAL TO COME IN MY LIFE BUT OH WELL ILL KEEP WAITING :(
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