HURT ME REALLY BAD BUT I CANT FORFIVE HIM HOW DO I MOVE ON??

Forfiving is a tough thing to do.

If you can't forgive him, then you have answered your own question. Your inability to forgive him means you are willing/capable of moving on.

Radical acceptance

I KNOW

Move on, live well, and eventually the forgiveness may come.

The question should be how do you NOT move on?

Friends hurt each other. You don't "move on." Otherwise, you ain't friends!

A person you called friend hurt you badly enough that you can't forgive and you're wondering how to move on?

OK I GET IT I HAVE MOVED ON

Accept that people are people. Some make mistakes and some are just not good folks. Figure out which applies and look forward, not backward.

I have some friends that I just can't hang with anymore because of bad habits but not any that I can think of that actually screwed me over. Friends don't do that. People that would have, I never let get too close. If I hear someone talking badly about someone behind thier back, know they're cheating, etc..I just don't hang with them. If they'll do it to one they'll do it to you.

Friends have the power to hurt.
That's a given.

Enemies have a rougher time hurting us.

"Watch your enemies, but watch your friends closer..."

THATS WHY I DON'T LIKE GETTING CLOSE TO ANYONE

I'm just an average schmoh, except that I have this wild idea that nothing is going to kill me except the thing that finally kills me.
I will survive everything until I don't survive.
With that attitude, I go directly into the jaws of a problem. And I relish a few scars, inside and outside.
Attack. Dare. Be bold. Take the pain, but also take control of daily destiny.
Ordinarily, I stay miles away from the very idea of getting involved in anything emotionally deep.
but, when I do go deep...
I expect it to hurt like hell.
That keeps me cautious about trusting anybody, especially friends. Even if I do develop trust, it is with readiness for disappointment/pain.
Just being me.