Topic: Too fast?
Tanzkity's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:57 PM


He know he wants to screw you................just trying to get in those pants girl........aint no way in hell someone knows a person that quick.....................grumble


I would think he could find some ass a bit closer to home, we live a bit over one and a half hrs apart.


Not unless he used that same line on people around his town..........your perfect for him.............you are just far enough for you to not question his escapades and for him to screw you without committing to anything............how about you say lets move in together and see where his mind is at...............men will TELL YOU ANYTHING TO GET SOME ACTION.............women need to realize that...........

awolf1010's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:58 PM
Edited by awolf1010 on Sun 01/18/09 06:00 PM
the real question is "how do you feel??"
my parents celebrated 52 yrs....they knew each other 6wks when they got married.
I knew my ex for 4 yrs before we got married......


whos to say whats right or wrong.....

~~JMO~~~

I do find it rather funny that people ask questions like these on a dating site...
kinda like going to the un-employment office and asking wheres a good place to work!!!

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:58 PM


He know he wants to screw you................just trying to get in those pants girl........aint no way in hell someone knows a person that quick.....................grumble


I would think he could find some ass a bit closer to home, we live a bit over one and a half hrs apart.


So that just means it's a bit of a challenge.

_Amanda_'s photo
Sun 01/18/09 06:01 PM
ohwell

the real question is "how do you feel??"
my parents celebrated 52 yrs....they knew each other 6wks when they got married.
I knew my ex for 4 yrs before we got married......


whos to say whats right or wrong.....

~~JMO~~~

I do find it rather funny that people ask questions like these on a dating site...
kinda like going to the un-employment office and asking wheres a good place to work!!!


hey, some people on here kind of know what they're doing...I hope

rlynne's photo
Sun 01/18/09 06:01 PM


would it be vain to wait till after he fixes my car?:tongue:
vain? you mean useing him don't you ask yourself this what if the roles were reversed would you like itfrustrated



even if she waits it out in an honest fashion..in the hopes his misguided direction proves true....he'll more than likely do something even more off setting by the time he does get the car fixed.. if not sooner


either way, whether she intended to do that or not..it may look.feel that way to him...

run run away, ask pat for car advice....there is a fire but it isn't telling you to get closer......

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:03 PM

ok, so here's my scenario:

I've been talking to someone for a bit over a week, we've met twice, and he has told me on numerous occassions already that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.


RUN, don't walk.


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Sun 01/18/09 07:07 PM
well i think the instincts are quite real at times. I beleive in instant attraction and its too fast for him to say it but feel it i dont know. i have had that happen to me, it didnt work out but i was out of control in love with that person so i know its possible, healthy no possible yes.

Adamal29's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:10 PM
It is possible to feel that way that soon. I have been there. He should not say all this stuff though, even if he means it cuz it creeps chics out. He could have perfectly good intentions for all I know.

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Sun 01/18/09 07:13 PM



He know he wants to screw you................just trying to get in those pants girl........aint no way in hell someone knows a person that quick.....................grumble


I would think he could find some ass a bit closer to home, we live a bit over one and a half hrs apart.


Not unless he used that same line on people around his town..........your perfect for him.............you are just far enough for you to not question his escapades and for him to screw you without committing to anything............how about you say lets move in together and see where his mind is at...............men will TELL YOU ANYTHING TO GET SOME ACTION.............women need to realize that...........



this is quite pesamistic dont you think? You also pretend as if this is a one way street which is not reality as well. Women want sex too and pretending that there is only horney men out there is just not true!

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Sun 01/18/09 07:15 PM

ok, so here's my scenario:

I've been talking to someone for a bit over a week, we've met twice, and he has told me on numerous occassions already that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

I'm sitting here telling him to slowww down, and he agrees that it is fast, but says that he's never felt like this before and knows what he wants.

Could someone know that that soon? I know I couldnt.


"Run to the hills, run for your life!" -lyrics from an Iron Maiden song

shades

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Sun 01/18/09 07:16 PM
More likely he is infatuated by you and likes you a lot but he mistakes those feelings for love. Get to know each other more and I hope that his infatuation of the moments turns out in the long run into the love of your life.

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Sun 01/18/09 07:18 PM

would it be vain to wait till after he fixes my car?:tongue:


That wouldn't be vain, it would be a total b!tch move. Using someone you have no interest in? Gee, how cool of you. whoa

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Sun 01/18/09 07:22 PM
you know i have considered this. What is the difference between infatuation and love? is it a different feeling or is it a different reaction? I dont know but how can you really have one without the other? I hear this said but i still have not got a realistic answer, just a stupid hypothesis that makes no sense to me. just a thought, but give me infatuation cause it sure feels good!.......drool

Winx's photo
Sun 01/18/09 08:09 PM

you know i have considered this. What is the difference between infatuation and love? is it a different feeling or is it a different reaction? I dont know but how can you really have one without the other? I hear this said but i still have not got a realistic answer, just a stupid hypothesis that makes no sense to me. just a thought, but give me infatuation cause it sure feels good!.......drool



There is a huge difference between infatuation and love.

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Sun 01/18/09 08:14 PM


you know i have considered this. What is the difference between infatuation and love? is it a different feeling or is it a different reaction? I dont know but how can you really have one without the other? I hear this said but i still have not got a realistic answer, just a stupid hypothesis that makes no sense to me. just a thought, but give me infatuation cause it sure feels good!.......drool



There is a huge difference between infatuation and love.


well you will have to point it out to me because i dont see it! i think they are very similar and in a good relationship you can have both! I also think that infatuation gets a bad rap, it does have to be a negative thing it can be quite positive if not taken for granted.

Krimsa's photo
Sun 01/18/09 08:19 PM

ok, so here's my scenario:

I've been talking to someone for a bit over a week, we've met twice, and he has told me on numerous occassions already that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

I'm sitting here telling him to slowww down, and he agrees that it is fast, but says that he's never felt like this before and knows what he wants.

Could someone know that that soon? I know I couldnt.


That’s creepy and I think MUCH too soon for him to possibly know something like that. He sounds creepy and perhaps a bit unstable? I don’t know. It’s your call but I would be saying back the hell off.

scoundrel's photo
Sun 01/18/09 08:21 PM

ok, so here's my scenario:

I've been talking to someone for a bit over a week, we've met twice, and he has told me on numerous occassions already that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

I'm sitting here telling him to slowww down, and he agrees that it is fast, but says that he's never felt like this before and knows what he wants.

Could someone know that that soon? I know I couldnt.


Look in your mirror, and say, "Even if this is a bad decision, I can squeeze child support out of him for eighteen years, and share custody, and still have a real marriage and a career."

Winx's photo
Sun 01/18/09 08:23 PM



you know i have considered this. What is the difference between infatuation and love? is it a different feeling or is it a different reaction? I dont know but how can you really have one without the other? I hear this said but i still have not got a realistic answer, just a stupid hypothesis that makes no sense to me. just a thought, but give me infatuation cause it sure feels good!.......drool



There is a huge difference between infatuation and love.


well you will have to point it out to me because i dont see it! i think they are very similar and in a good relationship you can have both! I also think that infatuation gets a bad rap, it does have to be a negative thing it can be quite positive if not taken for granted.


infatuation
noun
an object of extravagant short-lived passion.

Fanta46's photo
Sun 01/18/09 08:34 PM


ok, so here's my scenario:

I've been talking to someone for a bit over a week, we've met twice, and he has told me on numerous occassions already that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

I'm sitting here telling him to slowww down, and he agrees that it is fast, but says that he's never felt like this before and knows what he wants.

Could someone know that that soon? I know I couldnt.


Look in your mirror, and say, "Even if this is a bad decision, I can squeeze child support out of him for eighteen years, and share custody, and still have a real marriage and a career."



laugh laugh laugh

Women never know what they want. They'll think a man like this is crazy, then fall head over heels for the bad guy, get pregnant, then ***** about the guy for the rest of their life.laugh laugh laugh
Then instead of learning from their experience they'll do the same thing. Over and over and over and over.
Sometimes ending up with 4 babies and 4 different daddies!noway noway

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Sun 01/18/09 08:36 PM




you know i have considered this. What is the difference between infatuation and love? is it a different feeling or is it a different reaction? I dont know but how can you really have one without the other? I hear this said but i still have not got a realistic answer, just a stupid hypothesis that makes no sense to me. just a thought, but give me infatuation cause it sure feels good!.......drool



There is a huge difference between infatuation and love.


well you will have to point it out to me because i dont see it! i think they are very similar and in a good relationship you can have both! I also think that infatuation gets a bad rap, it does have to be a negative thing it can be quite positive if not taken for granted.


infatuation
noun
an object of extravagant short-lived passion.



well quite frankly then i never knew the proper definition. i never knew it was short-lived. so then your right. i thought it was just extreme passion so go figure i need to study my dictionary!