Would you go for someone you're not physically attracted?

has to be at least some attraction but as they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder

NOOOOOOOO

That first spark is what makes you want to find out more. They might not be attractive to someone else (have had that happen - I think they are/aren't and someone else thinks otherwise) but if they make you look twice, it's game on!

tried that once

epic failure

Nope.

But, what attracts me to another physically could actually be something about their character.

Very well said

I find that I am so much less frequently physically attracted to a person, as a primary or causative factor in desiring to get closer.

The eyes are captivating me, more and more.
The smile.
The tiny lines at the corners of the eyes.
The shape of their lips.

Somehow, strangely, it is as if the bust simply is "in the way" or not really needful.

The pixie waistline makes me worry for their health.

Life has changed me.

I want inside of their mind. I want to look into their eyes, and hear their words, and watch their lips speaking, and soak their existence and spirit into my soul.

And then I may be attracted...physically.

Look's have nothing to do with anything. It's all in the personality. If your interest's start there, you have much more to work with.

...you give me hope

probably not, but chances are I probably won't be physically attracted to someone if their is not a mental attraction...

Sometimes physical attraction grows on someone...I've heard a story like that. But a relationship will be based on a lie if a person is not physically attracted to the other.

And I'm talking about those who are into physical attractions...I'm not talking about it as a fact.

yep, always, wouldn't have it any other way. it's a plus if they have leprosy, and open leaking pustular sores to suck on, as they cough up flem in gobs...and if half the face is torn away, and they are half-smiling, even better. everyone likes a nice smile












i fear i've really done it this time...

Princess, if other men do not say these words as I have, they at least thank me for speaking up for us. We do notice, and cherish.

Call me 'old' here but once I outgrew the breeder/procreation stage, my priorities shifted dramatically. (Sex is still an important part of any healthy, adult, romantic relationship so don't think I don't understand that). It is no longer as important as it once was, in my eyes, to be physically attracted to the degree I required in my younger years.

Don't get me wrong, there is still a level of attraction that must be present or we will never cross the friendship threshold. But, I have adjusted my standards (like many others) as I've matured.

As far as not being attracted to someone at all? Well, no, I would not 'go for' them if that was the case. I think if you do this, you eventually become jaded/bitter towards your S/O thus resulting in a great deal of dysfunction/pain.

absolutely beautifully and gently written

I tried and I cannot go out with another guy who resembles ronald mcdonald again!!!! Its just not kosher!!!

I see blue pills written all over this post!!!!