I have been single for almost 2 years now, not a date, or a nice kiss or anything. For I long time I was wondering what is wrong with me. Wear are all the nice single girls. I meen you would think that they would be around if every one of your friends girlfriends are nice and friendly. Thin it hit me I need to start living life for me, not werying about geting a date. So I started running, and trying to work on my body, and going to school. I want to become succesfull in my landscape business, then I can start on dating. I just hope it won't be to late.

Oh no

Are you a nice guy?

Speaking as a dude who hadn't had a relationship for around four years (until recently- didn't end well), all I can say that it's all a massive crap-shoot. Whether you end up scorin' in a major way with a worthwhile chick is all determined by pure luck and nothing else.

You might get lucky and get back in the game, but you're more-than-likely gonna strike out and be left alone in your home playing your Wii Sports or something.

In the end, it's not worth worrying about.

hey... i been single for a while now also

is it just me or what?

You have a very good point there, Trevor. Work on fulfilling yourself and being good to yourself and loving yourself. You are young and eventually your self-esteem and self-love will be contagious and a lady with the same attributes will come along. Best wishes!!

I wish that I could say things the way that you do.

Hey, feel lucky, okay...I have been single for 5 years...It's really that bad once you get used to it

I can help change that

thats what i was thinking

You're sooo young..you have your whole life to do whatever you want.. I just started living my life again and I'm 66 yr young..

Ladies like guys that got their sh!t together. Watch you spelling.

I poked a dead frog with a stick once

it does get pretty bumming when yo uare talkign too a guy for a long time and all of suddne they stop talking too you thats my problem dont know what i do wrong... latelly guys are really aint some one day and like three days later theyre like totally oppissite no reason just stop talking too me....why do guys do that get your hopes up and then boom shatter you down...then my ex i was finally talking too him agian he asked for another chance .. i called him back one day after like 4 days we hadnt talked he already had a new gf.. iam i missing something here.. that quick he forgot me..he has said i was his everyhting.. i hate guys... there cute but i hate them..

Get use to it.

Some people are ment to have someone others arn't.

Deal with it, get over it, and go on.

Quit looking for something your not sopposed to have and save yourself the pain.

just makes me a bit said i have been isngle foe three years... just frineds but never gets more.. iam not looking for something iam just dissapointed these men io have talked too they are the ones that look for me ... but they end up being assholes

Unlike most self-porclaimed "nice guys", this guy is actually making an effort to work on his life... instead of coming to the forums as a waste of space and whining why he can't get a date.

Congrats man, think you are going about it the right way. Best of luck.

- does calling others "waste of space" make me a bad guy? No, just honest

Just an FYI...I started caring for myself and the rest started falling in place. Even dating. For me it had been MUCH longer, so keep doing what you are doing - just be sure you are doing it for your own best interest and not in order to "catch" someone or for any other ulterior motive.

kewl.
landscaping, you dont have a weed whacker by any chance do you??