I think its funny. As long as I got off first- its funny. I've never been jealous over a bob before. Piece of plastic n batteries.

all good boys and girls end last, its the bad ones that fu%* it up for us nice poeple....

Now post this everytime some guy complains about being a nice guy and not getting any. Heh, heh, I wish you luck in your quest.

Nice girls end up with a clean conscience and bad ones if they care have a guilty one.

THE BAD GIRLS END UP ON SANTAS NAUGHTY LIST

Do you really laugh that much every time you post something?

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I've noticed that as well

Actually nice guys don't finish last, they just run a different race.

Hi

Any what?
I'm not on a quest, I'm not a hobbit. Just a girl looking for a nice cubewano.

How did you come to this conclusion?

Personally I don't believe nice guys finish last, at least not with me. I only made the thread to introduce myself. I figured a chat topic was better than just saying "hi, I want a man."

bad girls finish at Mongo's crib

MONGO!!!!

It's largely a terminology thing.

There have been approximately 42,881 "Why don't girls like nice guys?" threads in the forums -- always posted by a self-proclaimed "nice guy" who can't seem to get anywhere -- in the 2 years I've been here.

The backlash has been that a lot of people have a negative, knee-jerk reaction to the term "nice guy." Since there's never been any sort of clear-cut definition, or explanation of what it really means (let's face it, it's pretty subjective), and because the topic has become so repetitive, the trendy thing has become to equate "nice" with "boring" and "bland" and "totally uninteresting."

It isn't that "nice guys" are bad, or don't deserve attention. It's just that, here, anyway, they have tended to come across as a bit on the whiny and needy side. And I think that's created a bit of a stigma.

Do many women even refer to themselves as nice women? You don't see the "waaah I'm a nice girl and I don't know why I finish last" kind of threads really.

I picked up on that fact the first hour of reading the forum and I've seen the same thing somewhere else. I thought poking fun at the topic would be a way to introduce myself. Next I am going to ask why men don't write anything in their profiles.
I don't know if the topic has been done to death here as it has on "dating site X" (a site I occasionally visit).

"waaah....last"

I was going to make that the title of this thread but I was afraid no one would believe me and I was afraid some would think I was mocking. In truth, I was just trying to get attention in a funny and non threatening or controversial way.

It's a great target for satire -- I do it quite a bit myself. I started a huge thread a few days ago called "Arrogant Narcissistic Conceited Jerks Thread," as a counterpoint to the "nice guy" stuff. I think it was cathartic for any number of people. ("Two" is a number, right?)



Word of warning -- I'm REALLY going to disappoint you on that one....

I don't see the way to search for threads here. Doesn't mingle have a thread title search bar?



I looked and I can't find a smiley that is appropriate or that expresses the amazement I had after clicking your profile.
Maybe this one. ...or this one...

Here's the one I was talking about -- if you like satire with just a hint of brutal honesty and a slice of cynicism on the side, you'll love this one.

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/195514



It's practically a book of its own. Not much of a plot, but you can't have everything....

Thanks for the link Lexfonteyne. You make both long threads and long profiles. I wonder what else ...
...Forget it.


So no thread search function? That's unusual.