Well, a friend asked me to go with her and her man to a movie so I said yes now I can be honest I have big hips and butt and I usually am in a good mood I don't wear clothes wear you have to stuff yourself into and I am humorous, another friend asked me to meet a friend of hers there because he is wanting a friend to watch a movie with I said sure been there done that, I walked up said hello cuz I was taught manners to the sane folks well in line he changed his mine I was ok until she txtx me to say he thought I was a size 4 well hell no when does size matter if you're watching a movie and the snot eater is only 23 hell I could babysit I guess I like friends who are true and can enjoy themselves not on weight hell I am 33!!! And proud to say I don't look it in the face but my bones feel it....lmao...

Who told him you were a size 4 ???

You just weeded out another loser, and quickly I might add too.
He is still a jerk BTW.

Good thing you weeded him out this early. Had the same thing happen not but a week ago. I won't go into details but it ended up the guy was a jerk. Now he can somebody else's jerk.

well hell i like big buts and hips so go figure. If the date was blind i wouldnt care how she looked i would just try and have fun with her. But if i wasnt attracted i would say so politely after the date or the next day. But size four? Thats pretty petite. Besides it really depends on the lady. The only way i would leave a date is if they where rude, then i would leave.

Yeah, who needs that??? The guy seriously needs to get over himself.

btw, was the movie any good?

Your friend should NEVER have told you it had anything to do with your size. She SHOULD have told the 23 y/o to go change his diaper and call back when he grew up!!!

I'm pretty fly for a fat guy

lol!

Thats just rude. Hell, Im 36 and a size 6. Im also short and petite in stature. People should refrain from making others feel bad like that. Its terrible.

Look at the size of Marilyn Monroe's hips and thighs in this photo and she's gorgeous.

yep agreed and i was gonna say a reasonable size too but restrained myself. But even double digit sizes are not too big.

Well size 6 is pretty tiny. Im just saying Im short. Its nothing I work at.

My ex got up to a size 15 at one point. She dropped back down to a size 7. I missed the size 15 sometimes. Even at size 15 i thought she farted sunshine so all that size stuff is just preference.

I think I would be more upset at your friend then the guy. I think your friend was rude by telling you what the guy actually thought. Honestly, what kind of friend do you have? If that would have been my friend...they would have never said anything about it, they would have just dumped him as a friend and told him he was missing out on a hell of a woman.
How did he think you were a size 4 is my question? Did your friend mislead him? I think I would be rechecking your friend, they don't seem much like a friend to me. As far as the guy goes..you don't need someone who bases your quality on your size. He actually did you a favor by leaving, one less loser for you to deal with!!
Good luck

A LOT of men are into bigger females. I’m jealous of them sometimes. People are what they are physically. I would just say that morbid obesity is not a good thing just due to health concerns.

yeah that size thing anyways doesnt really say anything. Its how its packaged together that matters. Some girls just have big buts and they arent heavy at all. But they cant squeeze that but in a small size. I like to watch them try though. I think they are breeding too cause you see a lot more now days...lol! Natural selection!

You weeded out a jerk. Don't sweat it...

I`m a size 16 and happy with it. I`ve got my battle scars. like someone told me last week, only dogs like bones.Don`t sweat the jerk.

I am no swimsuit model myself and do not mind anyone a bit on the larger side, but I do understand if someone isn't into it.

A lot of people are not willing to admit they have preferences as far as looks are concerned, bacause they do not want to be thought of as shallow. The fact is, most of us have certain physical attributes we will NOT go for. For some, it's size.

Personality plays a very big part in determining who I want to be with (as it does for most of us), but I do have some things that turn me off to the point where personality will not overcome them. I am not afraid to be honest about it because I know we pretty much all are like this. I don't mind women from slender to heavy, but I can't see myself with someone whose bones stick out or who is 500lbs. There are studies that suggest there is a biological component to why we like what we do physically.

I will say, however, that the guy from the movie was being stupid. Afterall, it sounded like he wanted someone to just go to the movies with. In that situation, size shouldn't matter. And that friend probably shouldn't have mentioned the reason. This is one time where honesty is not the best policy.

I think the weight thing goes both weighs
I'm not really attracted to men that aren't meaty, although I wont turn them away just because they are skinny...
and Im a meaty girl, men like it or they dont, doesnt bother me.. there will always be someone who does it's just preference

it is ridiculous though to not see a movie or talk cause of it..

yep and when ladies gain weight their boobs swell up and thats always knida fun.