Topic: Would you stay?
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Sun 01/11/09 10:23 AM
Edited by angelindarkness on Sun 01/11/09 10:41 AM

:smile: Would you stay with a man/woman if he/she was addicted to porn?:smile:

Being addicted means it tends to dominate their thinking, making it difficult to work or engage in healthy personal relationships.

In all probability, they might engage in distorted thinking, often rationalizing and justifying their behavior and blaming others for problems. Very likely, they might generally deny they have a problem and make excuses for their actions.

There would most probably be risk-taking; and they might engage in it despite the potential for negative and/or dangerous consequences. In addition to damaging their relationships and interfering with his or her work and social life, the addiction would also put the person at risk for emotional and physical injury.

If they had no motivation or willingness to change, I could not stay....even if it broke my heart. It wouldn't be healthy for me. ....I left at least one relationship because of this, over a year ago.

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Sun 01/11/09 10:28 AM


:smile: Would you stay with a man/woman if he/she was addicted to porn?:smile:

Being addicted means it tends to dominate their thinking, making it difficult to work or engage in healthy personal relationships.

In all probability, they might engage in distorted thinking, often rationalizing and justifying their behavior and blaming others for problems. Very likely, they might generally deny they have a problem and make excuses for their actions.

There would most probably be risk-taking; and they might engage in it despite the potential for negative and/or dangerous consequences. In addition to damaging their relationships and interfering with his or her work and social life, the addiction would also put the person at risk for emotional and physical injury.

If they had no motivation or willingness to change, I could not stay....even if it broke my heart. It wouldn't be healthy for me.


Wow I agree with you and that was very well thought out & written

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Sun 01/11/09 10:33 AM

:smile: Would you stay with a man/woman if he/she was addicted to porn?:smile:


If it helped the relationship why not, if she was so addicted to porn she wanted to join the business and leave me, then no.


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Sun 01/11/09 10:34 AM
Call Dr. Phil.laugh

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Sun 01/11/09 10:34 AM


:smile: Would you stay with a man/woman if he/she was addicted to porn?:smile:


Nope, sure wouldn't.

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Sun 01/11/09 12:38 PM

Call Dr. Phil.laugh


drinker laugh

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Sun 01/11/09 01:30 PM

:smile: Would you stay with a man/woman if he/she was addicted to porn?:smile:

I wouldn't get in involved in the first place so there would be no issue of me staying. Kind of like the 7 up ad.
Only the real thing nothing added... Never had it never will

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Sun 01/11/09 01:39 PM
No. Why would anyone put themselves in that jack-pot? You know going in you are already way down the line in their list of priorities. Addictions are emotional and financial suicide to all involved.

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Sun 01/11/09 01:43 PM

:smile: Would you stay with a man/woman if he/she was addicted to porn?:smile:


Sure, as long as she didn't take it too far. Besides, it might spice things up in the bedroom.

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Mon 01/12/09 09:31 AM
According to my knowledge(not saying I'm all that)porn DESENSITIZES PEOPLE TO THE POINT THAT real HUMANS cannot live up 2 the standards of the very unrealistic material that addicts become so attracted too. Also...like drugs, I have found that porn addicts get board eventually and need to move on to deeper,sometimes illegal activity...bottom line a real woman(man)having flaws, can no longer satisfy their needs.sad comments welcome...luvblu08

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Mon 01/12/09 09:35 AM

According to my knowledge(not saying I'm all that)porn DESENSITIZES PEOPLE TO THE POINT THAT real HUMANS cannot live up 2 the standards of the very unrealistic material that addicts become so attracted too. Also...like drugs, I have found that porn addicts get board eventually and need to move on to deeper,sometimes illegal activity...bottom line a real woman(man)having flaws, can no longer satisfy their needs.sad comments welcome...luvblu08


Nice post, ditto that.

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Mon 01/12/09 09:36 AM
as long as she were addicted to girl on girl porn i would have no problem with it...be seeing you

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Mon 01/12/09 09:36 AM
http://allpsych.com/journal/sexaddiction.html

http://www.flybenji.org/files/ladies5.htm

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Mon 01/12/09 12:19 PM
I like porn laugh

No issue

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Mon 01/12/09 12:23 PM

I like porn laugh

No issue

Read the links if you have time. Pr0n is just one way it manifests. With a very small percentage of males and females, it can get progressively worse, till it gets out of control. It can ruin or even cause you to lose your freedom, sanity, or life.

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Mon 01/12/09 12:25 PM


I like porn laugh

No issue

Read the links if you have time. Pr0n is just one way it manifests. With a very small percentage of males and females, it can get progressively worse, till it gets out of control. It can ruin or even cause you to lose your freedom, sanity, or life.


Oh yeah I don't disagree with you there. If she likes to watch porn here and there, I don't have much of a problem. But yeah..if she's seriously addicted then there's definitely something going on there. No doubt.

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Mon 01/12/09 12:40 PM

:smile: Would you stay with a man/woman if he/she was addicted to porn?:smile:

I haven't seen many healthy things refered as
"addictions", so I'd have to say no.

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Mon 01/12/09 01:10 PM
Edited by brokenwings30 on Mon 01/12/09 01:11 PM
Nothing wrong with a little porn but,probably not if they were "addicted"

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Mon 01/12/09 06:21 PM
NO.................




HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


What the HELL?!?!?!



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Mon 01/12/09 06:56 PM

NO.................




HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


What the HELL?!?!?!



noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway
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