it was a friday nite...u probably should have gone out instead of being online be seeing you

1. Nobody's coming to my door with a gun (and especially not driving that many miles to do)

And how, exactly, would you know if he was or not??

You probably wouldn't have a clue until he actually showed up.

Sorry sweetie. You are just not cautious enough for your own good.

Last night I was speaking to this guy from here for about an hour or so on messenger before he asked me to call him. He seemed harmless enough, but wasn't sure how well we were clicking. I agreed to call, thinking maybe some of our typed conversation was getting lost in translation... maybe I'd like him a little more if I was actually hearing what he was saying instead of reading it.. some people just aren't good at typing...

K, so, I call (forgetting to block my # on the first call like I usually do), and we get along at first. It takes a total of 20 minutes though to decipher that we are just totally incompatible for anything other than friends. Nothing wrong with that in my book, right? Wrong. I told him that "I think you and I could be good friends, but probably nothing more. What do you say we be friends and maybe over time who knows?" He goes OFF saying he has enough friends and was looking for someone to be with and blah blah blah. I listened to his rants for about 5 minutes to be fair to him, but it was all just whining. I told him "I'm going to hang up now, you have a good night." He practically stalks me on messenger for the next half hour and calls me over and over and over and over for about 2 hours. I answered once to tell him to stop calling, and he was freaking me out. So what does he do? Blocks his number when he calls again...lol, like I wouldnt' know who it was? Okay.. just thought it was slightly freaky and funny and thought I'd share my interesting Mingle encounter. Are there any normal people on here?

Oh please

I'm plenty cautious, I'm a little perturbed that you presume to know me so well. Lets come back to reality and think of what the likelihood of that really is. Not very. Its also just as likely that someone you know and trust is plotting to kill you, does that you should assume so? NO!

So just because it's not " likely " that means it won't happen???

Did you not see the news story about the female astronaut who drove across the country to do harm to a rival???

Like I said. There are some very seriously disturbed people out there.

The " It won't happen to me " syndrome is so much a part of our culture these days.

Does he know that THAT'S why he only has "friends" and no one to be with?


I'm thinking his use of the word 'friends' was a stretch.