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So, I'm a very outspoken person. Loud, sometimes obnoxious if I'm drunk, and I love making people laugh.. This all ends about 10 seconds into me talking to a female I'm attracted to. Loss of words, can't think of **** to say.. Kinda sucks, so I figured I would let random people on the internet solve my problem. Should be interesting.
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Do a puppet show with your weenie...you could name it Mr. Pinky!
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I knew I would get some interesting ideas, but I don't think anything else can top that.. Next?
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Do a puppet show with your weenie...you could name it Mr. Pinky! |
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Alcohol. Lots and lots of alcohol.
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Yeh, alcohol works, but I'm looking for something normal so I don't have to be drunk 24/7.. no matter how much fun that would be..
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Do a puppet show with your weenie...you could name it Mr. Pinky! |
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ummmmmmmmmm picture her naked??
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Ask her to "pull your finger".
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ummmmmmmmmm picture her naked?? That could work, I'll have plenty to say, only it probably won't be what she wants to hear if we just met, unless she gets down like that, then its all good I suppose haha. And if she does end up getting down like that, I guess I could use the pinky puppet show on her.. |
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I just say you make you make me nervous. that usally gives the hint and they will cut a little slack cause they are flattered!
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Maybe you could start going after women who talk too much? Then you wouldn't have to say anything, LOL
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Maybe you could start going after women who talk too much? Then you wouldn't have to say anything, LOL |
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i would just be honest...and szy wow...u make me feel a little bit shy and im not sure what to say..i never get like this. and then think of some safe topics to talk about..work, family, school, goals, travel, hobbies..etc
and yes im giving u one of my boyfriends sexy lines. |
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besides once you get past it, it will become easier each time.
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Try realizeing when you are loud obnoxious and drunk they are laughing AT you.
When you are shy, nervouse, and looking like a deer in the headlights you are probably feeling the way she does and you don't have to say a lot except that you want to be near her and not mess it up. If she is the right kind of girl she will like that and give you a chance. If she is not so what you don't care if the wrong kind likes you. |
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lol, only obnoxious sometimes when drunk, depends on the company of friends I have at the time.. but yeh good ideas, guess I never really thought about saying I was nervous, always seemed kinda dumb to do that, never really came up with a reason why.. Don't get married at 17, 6yrs down the road and a divorce, its only after you realize all game you had she took with her along with your cash!
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Just stick with Mr. Pinky...he'll never do you wrong...
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Just stick with Mr. Pinky...he'll never do you wrong... Oh I know, he never has... |
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So, I'm a very outspoken person. Loud, sometimes obnoxious if I'm drunk, and I love making people laugh.. This all ends about 10 seconds into me talking to a female I'm attracted to. Loss of words, can't think of **** to say.. Kinda sucks, so I figured I would let random people on the internet solve my problem. Should be interesting. That's the way you are. Accept that. When you accept it, it may help you to relax more. |
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