Topic: Help me....what do you talk about after meeting someone? | |
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Share something you have in common. A coworker friend of mine is due in ten weeks. Her belly is getting quite large and she is married so sex is really out of the question. But her and another coworker all agreed that we don't like this other coworker. We had no trouble keeping the conversation going.
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I think i found someone that i really connect with. What do you all say to keep the conversation going? What do you start talking about after you have asked them all the basics??? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Is he gone? So often they run off. |
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talk about the wizard of oz and alos good to talk about the elves. i like to talk about the wood elves especially What about the Wood Nymphs??? ooo YAYYYYYYYYYYY and the fairies also. and the beauty of nature...al the things t=you can discover and stuff. is it time for a picnic YET???? Yep. And I know the perfect spot for one. But it's just a wee bit cold right now....lol |
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Be interested in who she is. What inspires her...what is she passionate about...what are her hopes and dreams...
Human beings are incredibly complex ... a lifetime is too short to learn all there is to know... Be curious ... |
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Be interested in who she is. What inspires her...what is she passionate about... You would not believe how often the woman just winds up stammering when asked a question like that. lol |
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Be interested in who she is. What inspires her...what is she passionate about...what are her hopes and dreams... Human beings are incredibly complex ... a lifetime is too short to learn all there is to know... Be curious ... |
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Be interested in who she is. What inspires her...what is she passionate about...what are her hopes and dreams... Human beings are incredibly complex ... a lifetime is too short to learn all there is to know... Be curious ... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Edited by
ArtGurl
on
Fri 01/09/09 09:46 PM
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Be interested in who she is. What inspires her...what is she passionate about... You would not believe how often the woman just winds up stammering when asked a question like that. lol so do the men ... lol I like the question though because often people think it has to be something grand. It does not ... one can be inspired by the textures of rock and bark ... I am all the time ![]() Shoes ![]() Hiya Hawk ![]() ![]() |
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hiya artgal.!
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Wow you people are quick with responses lol. Thanks for the laughs and advice.
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It take's time, understaning and, patience to get to know a person. If one is good hearted, they will take the time to get to know you.
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just relax, be yourself, let it flow and remember .....
comedy is good, but dont force it......if ya can make her laugh naturally, she will be interested in more.....then the rest will just come |
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just relax, be yourself, let it flow and remember ..... comedy is good, but dont force it......if ya can make her laugh naturally, she will be interested in more.....then the rest will just come |
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just relax, be yourself, let it flow and remember ..... comedy is good, but dont force it......if ya can make her laugh naturally, she will be interested in more.....then the rest will just come ![]() ![]() |
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Wow you people are quick with responses lol. Thanks for the laughs and advice. ![]() ![]() |
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Generally when I am trying to get someone talking the most helpful thing is listen/think and try to pick up on something they said. Asking someone to talk about something they know tends to relax people and that helps the conversation keep going.
Most people can tell you about a place they lived, a vacation, a favorite holiday, a movie or tv program they like, a teacher or boss they have had that was interesting, a pet. If you listen you can ask questions and relate similiar experiences. |
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