Topic: Help me....what do you talk about after meeting someone?
RainbowTrout's photo
Fri 01/09/09 09:40 PM
Share something you have in common. A coworker friend of mine is due in ten weeks. Her belly is getting quite large and she is married so sex is really out of the question. But her and another coworker all agreed that we don't like this other coworker. We had no trouble keeping the conversation going.:smile:

shoesmonkey's photo
Fri 01/09/09 09:40 PM







I think i found someone that i really connect with. What do you all say to keep the conversation going? What do you start talking about after you have asked them all the basics???
Try to find a common ground. Something that you both are interested in. Intellect, sport's, reading, activitie's. Eventually , you will meet and find out weather you're arttracted,i.e. connected on whatever level you may have. If so, you can go from there. Good luck for you.
yur sweet.!!!:wink:
Seahawk's! How are you?
im fine hun thnx, that was just sweet what ya posted.with all the jokes the poor guy prob got scared off .laugh laugh flowerforyou
You know this place. We like to give alot of ribbin!
i know i was gonna tell him oh oh, ya just opened a can of worms.!!!laugh laugh laugh
Is he gone? So often they run off.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 01/09/09 09:41 PM



talk about the wizard of oz and alos good to talk about the elves.

i like to talk about the wood elves especially


What about the Wood Nymphs???



ooo YAYYYYYYYYYYY and the fairies also.


and the beauty of nature...al the things t=you can discover and stuff.
is it time for a picnic YET????


Yep. And I know the perfect spot for one. But it's just a wee bit cold right now....lol

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 01/09/09 09:42 PM
Be interested in who she is. What inspires her...what is she passionate about...what are her hopes and dreams...

Human beings are incredibly complex ... a lifetime is too short to learn all there is to know...

Be curious ...

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 01/09/09 09:43 PM

Be interested in who she is. What inspires her...what is she passionate about...


You would not believe how often the woman just winds up stammering when asked a question like that. lol

shoesmonkey's photo
Fri 01/09/09 09:44 PM

Be interested in who she is. What inspires her...what is she passionate about...what are her hopes and dreams...

Human beings are incredibly complex ... a lifetime is too short to learn all there is to know...

Be curious ...
What a incitefull woman you are!

seahawks's photo
Fri 01/09/09 09:45 PM

Be interested in who she is. What inspires her...what is she passionate about...what are her hopes and dreams...

Human beings are incredibly complex ... a lifetime is too short to learn all there is to know...

Be curious ...
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ArtGurl's photo
Fri 01/09/09 09:45 PM
Edited by ArtGurl on Fri 01/09/09 09:46 PM


Be interested in who she is. What inspires her...what is she passionate about...


You would not believe how often the woman just winds up stammering when asked a question like that. lol



so do the men ... lol

I like the question though because often people think it has to be something grand. It does not ... one can be inspired by the textures of rock and bark ... I am all the time bigsmile



Shoes flowerforyou



Hiya Hawk flowerforyou flowerforyou

seahawks's photo
Fri 01/09/09 09:48 PM
hiya artgal.!blushing

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Fri 01/09/09 09:50 PM
Wow you people are quick with responses lol. Thanks for the laughs and advice. shades

shoesmonkey's photo
Fri 01/09/09 09:51 PM
It take's time, understaning and, patience to get to know a person. If one is good hearted, they will take the time to get to know you.flowerforyou It's also a betterment for yourself to do so because, in doing so, you look more deeply into who you are.

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Fri 01/09/09 09:54 PM
just relax, be yourself, let it flow and remember .....

comedy is good, but dont force it......if ya can make her laugh naturally, she will be interested in more.....then the rest will just come

shoesmonkey's photo
Fri 01/09/09 10:00 PM

just relax, be yourself, let it flow and remember .....

comedy is good, but dont force it......if ya can make her laugh naturally, she will be interested in more.....then the rest will just come
Now that is great advice!

Etrain's photo
Fri 01/09/09 10:02 PM
smokin ask her if she likes being handcuffed and if shes ever thought about shaving all her body hair off including her eyebrowssmokin

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Fri 01/09/09 10:03 PM


just relax, be yourself, let it flow and remember .....

comedy is good, but dont force it......if ya can make her laugh naturally, she will be interested in more.....then the rest will just come
Now that is great advice!


bigsmile blushing

shoesmonkey's photo
Fri 01/09/09 10:04 PM

smokin ask her if she likes being handcuffed and if shes ever thought about shaving all her body hair off including her eyebrowssmokin
Eric!!!!!!!!!!!!!Shut up would you allready.:banana:

seahawks's photo
Fri 01/09/09 10:06 PM

Wow you people are quick with responses lol. Thanks for the laughs and advice. shades
cheers mate.! lottsa cool peeps here.!!drinker

seahawks's photo
Fri 01/09/09 10:06 PM


smokin ask her if she likes being handcuffed and if shes ever thought about shaving all her body hair off including her eyebrowssmokin
Eric!!!!!!!!!!!!!Shut up would you allready.:banana:
laugh laugh laugh laugh

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 01/09/09 10:07 PM
Generally when I am trying to get someone talking the most helpful thing is listen/think and try to pick up on something they said. Asking someone to talk about something they know tends to relax people and that helps the conversation keep going.

Most people can tell you about a place they lived, a vacation, a favorite holiday, a movie or tv program they like, a teacher or boss they have had that was interesting, a pet. If you listen you can ask questions and relate similiar experiences.

shoesmonkey's photo
Fri 01/09/09 10:08 PM



smokin ask her if she likes being handcuffed and if shes ever thought about shaving all her body hair off including her eyebrowssmokin
Eric!!!!!!!!!!!!!Shut up would you allready.:banana:
laugh laugh laugh laugh
He is such a bad boy ?
isn't he