Topic: chances are
Derekkye's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:36 AM
Edited by Derekkye on Thu 01/08/09 11:39 AM
we already came across our soul-mate, and one of the two (if not both) screwed up...

SweetnFunny's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:39 AM
scared God I hope not. tongue2

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:40 AM
That's probably true

no photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:41 AM
I don't believe in having just one soul-mate...I mean, the odds would be astronomical that we would ever find them in just one life-time...

Derekkye's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:42 AM

I don't believe in having just one soul-mate...I mean, the odds would be astronomical that we would ever find them in just one life-time...


soul mates are for a reason - i think their paths inevitably cross

rlynne's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:45 AM
that depends on you're definition of soul mate.....I believe that definition to be someone who affects your life in a profound way...if only through the sensation of a remarkable connection

it is my belief that people have many soul mates throughout life

similar to the saying don't be with some one you could live with
be with someone you could not live without

but not the best way of wording it....

no photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:47 AM
I NEED A CLOWN MATE............. FEMALE NOW NOW NOW..................

Derekkye's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:47 AM
Edited by Derekkye on Thu 01/08/09 11:48 AM

that depends on you're definition of soul mate.....I believe that definition to be someone who affects your life in a profound way...if only through the sensation of a remarkable connection

it is my belief that people have many soul mates throughout life

similar to the saying don't be with some one you could live with
be with someone you could not live without

but not the best way of wording it....


as Eve was made for Adam - that kind of soul mate - perhaps connecting with yourself, but in the opposite sex form

no photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:48 AM
So now what do we do??surprised

no photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:50 AM
Wouldn't surprise me, we humans in general are never happy, always think there is something better somewhere and mostly get bored fast so if we have met and gone out with our soulmate it wouldn't surprise me that most let them go for the next flavor of the day.

Derekkye's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:51 AM

So now what do we do??surprised


i'm confident there will be another opportunity to hook up - just follow love - don't settle being with someone if you're not in love

lilith401's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:51 AM
Let's all drink purple kool aide and call it a life.

Derekkye's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:52 AM

Wouldn't surprise me, we humans in general are never happy, always think there is something better somewhere and mostly get bored fast so if we have met and gone out with our soulmate it wouldn't surprise me that most let them go for the next flavor of the day.


yeah, the world kinda supports, or encourages that

rlynne's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:54 AM


that depends on you're definition of soul mate.....I believe that definition to be someone who affects your life in a profound way...if only through the sensation of a remarkable connection

it is my belief that people have many soul mates throughout life

similar to the saying don't be with some one you could live with
be with someone you could not live without

but not the best way of wording it....


as Eve was made for Adam - that kind of soul mate - perhaps connecting with yourself, but in the opposite sex form


Eve was made from Adam..not for him...god probably decided he used too much clay on adam and he could do better.....:wink:

lilith401's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:55 AM
Don't forget about Lilith! laugh

Derekkye's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:56 AM



that depends on you're definition of soul mate.....I believe that definition to be someone who affects your life in a profound way...if only through the sensation of a remarkable connection

it is my belief that people have many soul mates throughout life

similar to the saying don't be with some one you could live with
be with someone you could not live without

but not the best way of wording it....


as Eve was made for Adam - that kind of soul mate - perhaps connecting with yourself, but in the opposite sex form


Eve was made from Adam..not for him...god probably decided he used too much clay on adam and he could do better.....:wink:


from Adam, and for Adam

Goofball73's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:59 AM
I want the purple kool aid Lilith.

rlynne's photo
Thu 01/08/09 12:00 PM
okay fine....
i guess its better (judging by the social nature of humanity)
to believe that we each have someone we are FOR. meant for, made for,

i concede....

Derekkye's photo
Thu 01/08/09 12:02 PM
Edited by Derekkye on Thu 01/08/09 12:03 PM

okay fine....
i guess its better (judging by the social nature of humanity)
to believe that we each have someone we are FOR. meant for, made for,

i concede....


flowerforyou - that's a first :smile:

Goofball73's photo
Thu 01/08/09 12:07 PM
I believe life...and relationships...are what you make of them. Yes, you can meet someone and they can be just as close to perfect for you. Yet, you hear that said all the time ("So and so is perfect for me") and then later on one or both involved in the relationship is looking elsewhere. Obviously, they weren't "as perfect" for one another as each thought.

My point is this. I feel we just make too much of finding that perfect person, that sometimes we "think" someone is, only to find out they really aren't. It's like we project our want and desire for this "perfect" person and we end up mucking it up.