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Talut Joined Fri 12/26/08 Posts: 6	Thu 01/08/09 08:00 AM
Not sure if this has been covered or not, but how much space do you like, or should be given in a relationship? I try to give my wife (used loosely but they law only) as much as she wants. I even tell her to go out and have fun, have a girls night out or just take a drive to relieve the days stresses. Yet when I want to go do something, even if its running up to the store, I get the third degree.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 01/08/09 08:03 AM
Not sure if this has been covered or not, but how much space do you like, or should be given in a relationship? I try to give my wife (used loosely but they law only) as much as she wants. I even tell her to go out and have fun, have a girls night out or just take a drive to relieve the days stresses. Yet when I want to go do something, even if its running up to the store, I get the third degree. Sounds normal

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 01/08/09 08:05 AM
Not sure if this has been covered or not, but how much space do you like, or should be given in a relationship? I try to give my wife (used loosely but they law only) as much as she wants. I even tell her to go out and have fun, have a girls night out or just take a drive to relieve the days stresses. Yet when I want to go do something, even if its running up to the store, I get the third degree. sounds like you are giving her more space than she wants herself... and that she would like a little more time with you... why arent you discussing this with her? remember communication is key...

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Thu 01/08/09 08:07 AM
So this question is really just an excuse to biotch about your wife?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 01/08/09 08:08 AM
So this question is really just an excuse to biotch about your wife?

FallinAngel82 Joined Fri 01/26/07 Posts: 12261	Thu 01/08/09 08:09 AM
i like a little space but i like to spend as much time with my guy as possible everyone needs some ME time every now and again be it having time for just you and no one else or going out with a group of friends to catch up on their lives

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 01/08/09 08:10 AM
So this question is really just an excuse to biotch about your wife? Maybe that's what I should have done when I was married, join a dating site & complain about her

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Thu 01/08/09 08:12 AM
Not sure if this has been covered or not, but how much space do you like, or should be given in a relationship? I try to give my wife (used loosely but they law only) as much as she wants. I even tell her to go out and have fun, have a girls night out or just take a drive to relieve the days stresses. Yet when I want to go do something, even if its running up to the store, I get the third degree. I LOVE my space .. heck you can stay at the store all day if you like

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Thu 01/08/09 08:13 AM
Not sure if this has been covered or not, but how much space do you like, or should be given in a relationship? I try to give my wife (used loosely but they law only) as much as she wants. I even tell her to go out and have fun, have a girls night out or just take a drive to relieve the days stresses. Yet when I want to go do something, even if its running up to the store, I get the third degree. maybe your wife is wishing that you'd want to hang out with her, instead of pushing her out with her friends? ~~~ as far as space, i like my alone time, i always have; however, i'd hate it if my partner didn't at least want to spend as much time together as we could (knowing that, of course, this isn't always possible)

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 01/08/09 08:14 AM
Not sure if this has been covered or not, but how much space do you like, or should be given in a relationship? I try to give my wife (used loosely but they law only) as much as she wants. I even tell her to go out and have fun, have a girls night out or just take a drive to relieve the days stresses. Yet when I want to go do something, even if its running up to the store, I get the third degree. sounds like you are giving her more space than she wants herself... and that she would like a little more time with you... why arent you discussing this with her? remember communication is key... I think you're right, Buttons. He is on here "Looking for Something Different". It sounds like he doesn't want to spend time with her and she's needing more time to make the relationship work.

FallinAngel82 Joined Fri 01/26/07 Posts: 12261	Thu 01/08/09 08:14 AM
i just started seeing someone and now he's in arizona for ait in the army so its gonna be a while before we can see each other again , but once he gets home we are gonna spend as much time together as possible, cause after that he's being deployed .. 6-9 months is plenty space for me

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Thu 01/08/09 08:15 AM
Go read OP's profile.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Thu 01/08/09 08:17 AM
I need space.

heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Thu 01/08/09 08:18 AM
Go read OP's profile. Yeah, I'm thinking maybe that third degree from her is warranted. Dude, get out of the marriage if your unhappy. So not fair to her to be on here looking for "friends" but not letting her go. You can't have it both ways.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 01/08/09 08:19 AM
Not sure if this has been covered or not, but how much space do you like, or should be given in a relationship? I try to give my wife (used loosely but they law only) as much as she wants. I even tell her to go out and have fun, have a girls night out or just take a drive to relieve the days stresses. Yet when I want to go do something, even if its running up to the store, I get the third degree. sounds like you are giving her more space than she wants herself... and that she would like a little more time with you... why arent you discussing this with her? remember communication is key... I think you're right, Buttons. He is on here "Looking for Something Different". It sounds like he doesn't want to spend time with her and she's needing more time to make the relationship work. oops yea just read that..appears cause he doesnt want to spent time with her or communicate.. i say end it..says you like her.. then why would you continue to do hurtful things.. such as get on a dating site"looking for something different" and do everything to not spend time with her...if you like her you would not be doing hurtful things...

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 01/08/09 08:22 AM
Not sure if this has been covered or not, but how much space do you like, or should be given in a relationship? I try to give my wife (used loosely but they law only) as much as she wants. I even tell her to go out and have fun, have a girls night out or just take a drive to relieve the days stresses. Yet when I want to go do something, even if its running up to the store, I get the third degree. sounds like you are giving her more space than she wants herself... and that she would like a little more time with you... why arent you discussing this with her? remember communication is key... I think you're right, Buttons. He is on here "Looking for Something Different". It sounds like he doesn't want to spend time with her and she's needing more time to make the relationship work. oops yea just read that..appears cause he doesnt want to spent time with her or communicate.. i say end it..says you like her.. then why would you continue to do hurtful things.. such as get on a dating site"looking for something different" and do everything to not spend time with her...if you like her you would not be doing hurtful things... Maybe he's getting the third degree because she has a gut feeling about what's going on.