Topic: What must someone do?
sensualsweet's photo
Thu 01/08/09 05:23 PM
Show off by driving recklessly with me in the car.

Or, being obnoxious to the waitstaff.

Or, getting wasted.

sensualsweet's photo
Thu 01/08/09 05:26 PM


Talk about their ex for longer than five minutes.
Text.
Be more than ten minutes late without calling.
Say they do not see their children regularly and/or pay child support.
Tell me they have to be home by ten to take their Seroquel (or any antipsychotic).


and

Spend the evening checking out other women. Please, they'll still be there when the date is over. (Which will be quick if I can maneuver it).

Talk incessantly about how the world is out to get him.

List every single health problem he's ever had, with details.

...the list continues...



I actually went out with a guy who kept watching all the girls as they walked by our table. It was very annoying and disrespectful.

Another one actually sat there telling me how he poached manatees and cooked and ate the meat. They are an endangered species in Florida. I couldn't wait to get that date over with.

JoeW99's photo
Thu 01/08/09 05:29 PM
This a good enough response MM? lol.. post i made after last Saturdays date frustrated

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Ok simple question but i'll tell you why i'm asking.

tonight broke one of my rules and went out on a date with someone that is 21... 13 years younger. My normal standard is no less then 10, but she seemed nice and muture - ok fine she was also cute as hell...

Night started with me waiting an extra 30 minutes while she got ready (her mall trip with her friends went long lol.) no big deal wasn't on a time limit so figure whatever.
Next came the texting though dinner, which she informed me was just her friends asking questions about our date... ok but 50+ texts? Put the blackberry down for a sec.. PLEASE.
Then the movie.. Texting continues but she finally wants to get to know me better in the middle of the movie... so think texting / talking- then came the popcorn fun. For some reason ( to be cute i guess) she kept throwing popcorn at random people and the movie screen- not once but a dozen times or more.
Lastly end of the night and i get the.. so you coming back to my place to hang out? Needless to say i'm home early. Even cute has its limits.

So.. is it the age thing or just me finding out she is not as mature as i thought she was.
Lately dates have been with people 24-31 and havn't ever had these problems.

Stick to 10 year buffer?
Or try again and take my chances?


Edited by JoeW99 on Sun 01/04/09 01:21 AM
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Xer0

Joined Thu 01/01/09
Posts: 60
Sun 01/04/09 01:22 AM
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I'm better now... flowerforyou

njmom05's photo
Thu 01/08/09 05:33 PM

:smile: What must someone do on a first date with you,that you wouldn't go out on a second date with them?:smile:

Not show up for the first date.
laugh :wink:

SweetnFunny's photo
Thu 01/08/09 07:06 PM

Dumping out her 5 different psychotropic medications and counting all the pills during dinner while having a conversation with the voices in their head.


rofl rofl rofl

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Thu 01/08/09 07:41 PM

:smile: What must someone do on a first date with you,that you wouldn't go out on a second date with them?:smile:


Get plotzed and puke in my truck. That's a no-no.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Thu 01/08/09 09:24 PM

Dumping out her 5 different psychotropic medications and counting all the pills during dinner while having a conversation with the voices in their head.


And proudly say, "Our love has cured my mental illness".

Averageguy1964's photo
Thu 01/08/09 09:31 PM

This a good enough response MM? lol.. post i made after last Saturdays date frustrated

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Ok simple question but i'll tell you why i'm asking.

tonight broke one of my rules and went out on a date with someone that is 21... 13 years younger. My normal standard is no less then 10, but she seemed nice and muture - ok fine she was also cute as hell...

Night started with me waiting an extra 30 minutes while she got ready (her mall trip with her friends went long lol.) no big deal wasn't on a time limit so figure whatever.
Next came the texting though dinner, which she




informed me was just her friends asking questions






about our date... ok but 50+ texts? Put the


blackberry down for a sec.. PLEASE.





Then the movie.. Texting continues but she finally wants to get to know me better in the middle of the movie... so think texting / talking-
then came the popcorn fun. For some reason ( to be cute i guess) she kept throwing popcorn at random people and the movie screen- not once but a dozen times or more.
Lastly end of the night and i get the.. so you coming back to my place to hang out? Needless to say i'm home early. Even cute has its limits.

So.. is it the age thing or just me finding out she is not as mature as i thought she was.
Lately dates have been with people 24-31 and havn't ever had these problems.

Stick to 10 year buffer?
Or try again and take my chances?


Edited by JoeW99 on Sun 01/04/09 01:21 AM
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Xer0

Joined Thu 01/01/09
Posts: 60
Sun 01/04/09 01:22 AM
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I'm better now... flowerforyou



May have been a bit uncomfy,,
Try again

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 03/14/09 11:14 AM


This a good enough response MM? lol.. post i made after last Saturdays date frustrated

-------------------------------------------

Ok simple question but i'll tell you why i'm asking.

tonight broke one of my rules and went out on a date with someone that is 21... 13 years younger. My normal standard is no less then 10, but she seemed nice and muture - ok fine she was also cute as hell...

Night started with me waiting an extra 30 minutes while she got ready (her mall trip with her friends went long lol.) no big deal wasn't on a time limit so figure whatever.
Next came the texting though dinner, which she




informed me was just her friends asking questions






about our date... ok but 50+ texts? Put the


blackberry down for a sec.. PLEASE.





Then the movie.. Texting continues but she finally wants to get to know me better in the middle of the movie... so think texting / talking-
then came the popcorn fun. For some reason ( to be cute i guess) she kept throwing popcorn at random people and the movie screen- not once but a dozen times or more.
Lastly end of the night and i get the.. so you coming back to my place to hang out? Needless to say i'm home early. Even cute has its limits.

So.. is it the age thing or just me finding out she is not as mature as i thought she was.
Lately dates have been with people 24-31 and havn't ever had these problems.

Stick to 10 year buffer?
Or try again and take my chances?


Edited by JoeW99 on Sun 01/04/09 01:21 AM
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Xer0

Joined Thu 01/01/09
Posts: 60
Sun 01/04/09 01:22 AM
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I'm better now... flowerforyou



May have been a bit uncomfy,,
Try again




:thumbsup:

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Sat 03/14/09 11:16 AM
Talking about their ex that they supposedly broke up with.......slaphead

Totage's photo
Sat 03/14/09 11:17 AM

:smile: What must someone do on a first date with you,that you wouldn't go out on a second date with them?:smile:


scared Tell me they love me. scared

Theshortelktonman's photo
Sat 03/14/09 11:19 AM
for most women I have dated it is be shorter than they are.

ofdrywit's photo
Sat 03/14/09 11:20 AM

On the phone constantly and repeatedly goes to the restroom. Then admits that she's a drug dealer and she's gotta sell all these bags of weed and that her buyers are meeting her in the bathroom. <--- actually happened to me. I got up and left and went home.

all of this guy's posts have been describing my ideal date laugh drinker

MelodyGirl's photo
Sat 03/14/09 11:22 AM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Sat 03/14/09 11:23 AM
What MUST they do to avoid getting a second date? That makes it seem like they want to sabbotage the date! :wink: drinker

They shouldn't:

- Text or use their phone like a 16 year old girl (yes, this happens a lot). I put my phone away when I am on a date. It's the couteous thing to do.

- Complain about their finances.

- Constantly look around as though they are looking for a way out. Even if the guy isn't into me, he should be mature enough to get through an hour or two date without acting like a jackass.

- Talk sexually. If there is chemistry that will 'come' on subsequent dates (aaaah, double entendre).

- Talk about their ex's.

- Forget their manners towards me or anyone else with whom we come in contact (waitresses, bartenders, etc).

flowerforyou :banana: flowerforyou :banana: flowerforyou :banana:

msmyka's photo
Sat 03/14/09 11:23 AM
I absolutely can not handle guys with anger issues. If he were to get into a fight or do something stupid out of anger I would leave that moment and would definitely not be open to a second date.

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Tue 03/17/09 12:36 PM
WHAT FIRST DATE???????????????????????????????

misstina2's photo
Tue 03/17/09 12:51 PM
flowerforyou non stop fartingflowerforyou

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Tue 03/17/09 12:54 PM

flowerforyou non stop fartingflowerforyou
OK GET A STORAGE TANK, FREE PROPANE

Mac60's photo
Tue 03/17/09 12:59 PM
Use a lot of foul language- especially f-bombs.
Smoke(guess I should have already known about this)

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 03/17/09 06:39 PM
It is really hard for me to say..

Reveal that they are married
Reveal they have a criminal record
Reveal they have a substance problem.
Reveal to me their past loves and losses.
Dump their problems in my lap as if this was a free
counseling session.

Stick me with the entire bill.

Text or use their phone constantly
( calling sitter to check on kiddo's every 2 hours no biggie).

Put the moves in me to have sex on first date.


Oh Yeah not be who they say they are date is over.


I have to decipher out of the foul language what they are saying.