So for the first time in weeks I imed the girl I like, and look what she says to me
"listen i dont kno any other way to put it....before break i asked u if i could have this break without any interruptions from u to think things thru and every week somehow miraculously i get 2-3 IMs, txts, or fb notifications from u...how hard is it to just honor what i asked for?"
Considering before her break all she said is she just wanted to be friends and have time to think about what we were, and I sent her maybe 3 texts.. the week before christmas, the day after and this past Sunday about the Eagles game. I seriously don't know shes so ****ing rude about something she didnt even ask for.. I mean she acted like I imed her everyday I never IM her on aim and barely text her. I don't get why she has such an attitude problem over nothing..

Sounds like shes with someone else.

Sorry.

She doesn't have the attitude problem. You're the one with the problem. She told you not to get in touch with her at all during the break, and you refused to respect her wishes.

I'd be pissed off too if you disrespected me like that.

Crash and burn.

Did you read my post? she NEVER said this.. she said lets just be friends during the break she NEVER said to NOT talk to her.. so yea she DOES have an attitude problem.

She isnt into you. Just give it up dude. Its over

Thats her trying to hint to you that its over bro

Hello, it doesn't take a genius to know that's exactly what she meant!

But I'm guessing you don't take hints too well, huh?

I agree ....That's basically what the " Lets be friends" is

MirrorMirror I already thought she didn't like me for some odd reason, but she could have at least told me that instead of letting me cling onto whatever hope I had. Whatever at this point I'm sick of the drama she brings to my life, and quite frankly I'm not gonna get upset over it.

what hints? she said this TONIGHT she never ONCE told me to not talk to her or interrupt her before TONIGHT. I already told you what she said before hand and there was not ONE implication to leave her alone. Its fine I'm done with her.. I'm just gonna delete her number and screen name and move on with my life without her drama weighing me down, oh and whats funny is she sent me a few texts during the break too, so if she wanted me gone so bad why the hell would she try talking to me? Shes just a confused little girl who needs to stop playing games

Head case! Waste of time! Hell, she can't be that smart. Her grammar is terrible!

I kinda know how you feel. I had a mind game run on me recently and I thought I would NEVER fall victim to that. But when a chick says "just be friends" thats code for "its over". Just forget about her and move on bro. There isnt anyway to fix it.

Andrew,

Do you both go to college together and are home now on break in different cities?

I understand what your saying. I recently learned what it feels like to get "gamed". Its very frustrating (although my situation was a little different than yours)

We're both in college, but different colleges. She lives at her college and thats where we normally hang out (its a 25-30 minute drive from me). She went home for winter break and told me that we couldn't hang out because of where she lives (its like double the distance of her school) and said lets be friends until we can see each other again. She never once told me to leave her alone while she thinks things through because I would have just let it go right then and there.

Honestly, when she said that she needed time to think things through, that means that she doesn't want to hear from you at all until she's ready to hear from you and she initiates the contact.

Sounds like she was hinting around that she wasnt into you but also playing you a little bit. She probably got someone else she is trying to talk to and was keeping you as an option if that didnt work out for her.

if she says something like that right before going home, that means she probably has someone back home. Either it is a new thing or she is seeing him at home and you at school. And keeping it all separate. That means she probably doesn't see you as a long term person anyway.

Hmmm...when I went home on break, I would talk to my bf that I had in college. Not everyday, though, I was busy seeing family and friends.

My gut (just from reading this post) feels that when she said, "Let's be friends until we see each other again", meant that she gave herself permission to see others while on break. There might be someone back home.