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Topic: asking out?
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Wed 01/07/09 08:16 AM
Would it be dumb to ask out someone after you haven't seen them on a month? Of course I'm waiting to see her to ask. Do you guys think its stupid?

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Wed 01/07/09 08:18 AM
Nope, she'll know you were thinking about her.

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Wed 01/07/09 08:20 AM

Would it be dumb to ask out someone after you haven't seen them on a month? Of course I'm waiting to see her to ask. Do you guys think its stupid?



a lot can change in a month, she may no longer be single!

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Wed 01/07/09 08:21 AM
I don't think it's stupid. You'll both get out and maybe have a great time. Maybe you won't feel like pursuing a relationship, but you must already know enough about her to know it wouldn't be a complete train wreck. Go have some fun...if theirs no romance then you got a new friend.

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Wed 01/07/09 08:25 AM
Please clarify...have you dated them in the past & then just stopped contacting them?

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Wed 01/07/09 08:25 AM

Would it be dumb to ask out someone after you haven't seen them on a month? Of course I'm waiting to see her to ask. Do you guys think its stupid?


No, but it'd be a good idea if you're really interested in her to ask more than once a month.

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Wed 01/07/09 08:26 AM
I know there's romance at least for me we've gone out in the past. She's still single I know that much the only reason we haven't hung out is because of break from school. I'm only going to ask out if our night goes well, but every time we've been together its gone well. My only concern is she's very indecisive and I don't know what she wants, but asking will remedy that.

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Wed 01/07/09 08:31 AM
Just get it over with & ask her then...

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Wed 01/07/09 08:32 AM

I know there's romance at least for me we've gone out in the past. She's still single I know that much the only reason we haven't hung out is because of break from school. I'm only going to ask out if our night goes well, but every time we've been together its gone well. My only concern is she's very indecisive and I don't know what she wants, but asking will remedy that.

You both sound indecisive if it's taken a month for you to ask her out again. The worst she'll say is no.

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Wed 01/07/09 08:32 AM

My only concern is she's very indecisive and I don't know what she wants, but asking will remedy that.


I'm guessing she's not the only indecisive one......your on a forum asking if it's dumb to ask her out... DO IT ALREADY.
The world is not going to end if it goes badly, so what are you waiting for?

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Wed 01/07/09 08:33 AM

Just get it over with & ask her then...

well next week I should be able to see her. Then I can ask =)

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Wed 01/07/09 08:35 AM


I know there's romance at least for me we've gone out in the past. She's still single I know that much the only reason we haven't hung out is because of break from school. I'm only going to ask out if our night goes well, but every time we've been together its gone well. My only concern is she's very indecisive and I don't know what she wants, but asking will remedy that.

You both sound indecisive if it's taken a month for you to ask her out again. The worst she'll say is no.

shes home where I can't see her. Trust me I didnt want to wait a month its sucked :(

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Wed 01/07/09 08:44 AM



I know there's romance at least for me we've gone out in the past. She's still single I know that much the only reason we haven't hung out is because of break from school. I'm only going to ask out if our night goes well, but every time we've been together its gone well. My only concern is she's very indecisive and I don't know what she wants, but asking will remedy that.

You both sound indecisive if it's taken a month for you to ask her out again. The worst she'll say is no.

shes home where I can't see her. Trust me I didnt want to wait a month its sucked :(


Hummmmmmmmmm she does have phone service right?

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Wed 01/07/09 08:48 AM
Go ahead make her day.

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Wed 01/07/09 08:51 AM


Just get it over with & ask her then...

well next week I should be able to see her. Then I can ask =)


And get a damn picture, will ya!

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Wed 01/07/09 08:56 AM




I know there's romance at least for me we've gone out in the past. She's still single I know that much the only reason we haven't hung out is because of break from school. I'm only going to ask out if our night goes well, but every time we've been together its gone well. My only concern is she's very indecisive and I don't know what she wants, but asking will remedy that.

You both sound indecisive if it's taken a month for you to ask her out again. The worst she'll say is no.

shes home where I can't see her. Trust me I didnt want to wait a month its sucked :(


Hummmmmmmmmm she does have phone service right?

I don't ask out over phone I'd much rather do it in person and from what ive heard doing it by phone shows you have little confidence?

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Wed 01/07/09 09:01 AM
LOL....you're worried that asking over the phone makes it look like you have low confidence?????? Are you kidding me??

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Wed 01/07/09 09:04 AM





I know there's romance at least for me we've gone out in the past. She's still single I know that much the only reason we haven't hung out is because of break from school. I'm only going to ask out if our night goes well, but every time we've been together its gone well. My only concern is she's very indecisive and I don't know what she wants, but asking will remedy that.

You both sound indecisive if it's taken a month for you to ask her out again. The worst she'll say is no.

shes home where I can't see her. Trust me I didnt want to wait a month its sucked :(


Hummmmmmmmmm she does have phone service right?

I don't ask out over phone I'd much rather do it in person and from what ive heard doing it by phone shows you have little confidence?


Hummmmmmmmm okay well ya do know that is one way in order to keep contact with someone right?

To me if someone did not talk to me in a month I would figure it was nothing but a friendship in the first place. And when we did go places it was only due to the friendship and nothing else.

I would rather someone call me if it was more and ask me that way instead of ignore me for a month.noway laugh

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Wed 01/07/09 09:40 AM

LOL....you're worried that asking over the phone makes it look like you have low confidence?????? Are you kidding me??

whoa whoa whoa whoa

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Wed 01/07/09 09:41 AM



I would rather someone call me if it was more and ask me that way instead of ignore me for a month.noway laugh

Yep, I have to agree with this statement.

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