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Topic: asking out?
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Wed 01/07/09 12:42 PM




I would rather someone call me if it was more and ask me that way instead of ignore me for a month.noway laugh

Yep, I have to agree with this statement.

umm she knows I want more than just friendship she told me we had to wait until we can hang out to continue it anyway. We still talk the same way we did before she went home, when did I say we didnt talk? I just can't hang out with her until next week. Not once did I say we stopped talking oh and I won't call her because her and I don't do phone calls we've only talked on the phone when i tell her i'm coming to see her or i got there and she has to come sign me in we've talked 1 time to actually talk because she wanted to hear my voice before we hung out. Id rather wait because it makes no sense for me to ask her to commit to a relationship when we haven't seen each other in a month, and if I wait until we hang out it'll make a lot more sense and not be completely out of left field.

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Wed 01/07/09 01:26 PM


umm she knows I want more than just friendship she told me we had to wait until we can hang out to continue it anyway. We still talk the same way we did before she went home, when did I say we didnt talk? I just can't hang out with her until next week. Not once did I say we stopped talking oh and I won't call her because her and I don't do phone calls we've only talked on the phone when i tell her i'm coming to see her or i got there and she has to come sign me in we've talked 1 time to actually talk because she wanted to hear my voice before we hung out. Id rather wait because it makes no sense for me to ask her to commit to a relationship when we haven't seen each other in a month, and if I wait until we hang out it'll make a lot more sense and not be completely out of left field.





Well honestly it sounds like to me until you two can see each other on a regular basis it is best to leave going the next step out. It just sounds all to iffy on both sides to me. But that is just how I'm taking it by what little you have actually said about the situation here.

Just sounds like that neither one of ya'll actually knows what they truly want from the other. bigsmile

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Wed 01/07/09 03:31 PM



umm she knows I want more than just friendship she told me we had to wait until we can hang out to continue it anyway. We still talk the same way we did before she went home, when did I say we didnt talk? I just can't hang out with her until next week. Not once did I say we stopped talking oh and I won't call her because her and I don't do phone calls we've only talked on the phone when i tell her i'm coming to see her or i got there and she has to come sign me in we've talked 1 time to actually talk because she wanted to hear my voice before we hung out. Id rather wait because it makes no sense for me to ask her to commit to a relationship when we haven't seen each other in a month, and if I wait until we hang out it'll make a lot more sense and not be completely out of left field.

Ur right I know what I want from her (I want to date her and be with her as much as possible with our busy lives) before she went on break we hung out around once a week which is fine by me. I just want to get it over with (asking her out) and hopefully things go well



Well honestly it sounds like to me until you two can see each other on a regular basis it is best to leave going the next step out. It just sounds all to iffy on both sides to me. But that is just how I'm taking it by what little you have actually said about the situation here.

Just sounds like that neither one of ya'll actually knows what they truly want from the other. bigsmile

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Wed 01/07/09 05:06 PM
No go for it!

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