How does one break up with a girl/guy who has depression issues and suicidal thoughts?

They will do it for you.

Send a "Rest in Peace" wreath???

I was with one who did.and although we are no longer together,she no longer has them.


I helped her through them.

wow. I must say I'm thoroughly appalled by the responses. That's a fairly serious matter, obviously which seems to be taken more as a joke. There needs to be more empathetic people in the world. It tends to bring understanding. Anyways, people who are suicidal and depressed need all the help they can get which isn't saying anything that isn't very obvious. But take it easy and slow. Just ending the relationship could have drastic impacts on both lives and many others. Find someone you wouldn't mind talking to about the issue and seek their full advice. Take it all to heart. You are in a fairly powerful position if that person is dating you. You might be able to convince them to get help. A lot of people don't want to admit the problem and want it to be seen as just a phase, but at the same time want to be taken seriously. My guess is that no one is trying to understand this person becuase the cry for help is continuing. And I'm guessing not improving, maybe even getting worse. See if you can get them to reach out to someone else other than you, like a professional. They won't lock them up and throw away the key. I've been there once myself. They may be suffering from panic disorder which no one is understanding, or bipolar disorder or something else that they just need a simple medication and therapy sessions. Try to help them get to the root of the problem, but put your own health first, don't put yourself at risk too far in this situation. Try and find help immediately.

here's a website that might offer better advice and where you can find someone.

www.psychologytoday.com

also feel free to message me if you need anyone to talk to.

That was nice

I dont take this as a joke

Thank you for sharing that information

That's a great link.

You are not responsible for someone elses behavior. You just have to let go and let them be in charge of their own lives.

yes that may be the easy way out.


but not every one can find there way out.with out help

There you are...Look here...I was depressed and suicidal for years...its in they're hands and the hands of professionals...

I allowed my guilt over "what if he does" to rule me for year with my ex. Realizing that you don't have ownership of someone else's depression/suicidal tendencies is hard but also doesn't mean you wish them ill. Direct them to help...encourage them to get help...then move on if that's what you need to do. You can't "fix" them - they have to do the work. JMO

I'm not sure there is any one easy answer, depending on their personality and circumstances. Do it with compassion, sensitivity, and with love, if at all possible; but, take care of yourself, first. You are hurting and suffering a loss, too. Just remember that they are responsible for their own choices and actions, not you. If you suspect they may be suicidal or they tell you they are, call 911 or ask a friend or family member to take them to the Emergency Department of their closest hospital.

People tend to joke about what they fear most. Or, what they don't understand.

Thank you for giving me that information

Just a reminder, al of these posts are just opinions.
Anyone needing help should seek professional advice.

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Don

Thanks for pointing that out Don