Presenting a situation:

Your standing in a public bathroom at a bar taking care of your business. Someone else walks in and goes to the urnial next to you. You notice that this person is looking at your package. You let it go and brush it off.

As you back away, and zip up your pants, when the other person in the bathroom trys to put their hand down your pants. Your response is to push their hand away and ask them not to do that again.

Later you go outside to smoke, (smoking isn't allowed inside) and the same persoen from the bathroom follows you outside and grabs your a$$. Again you tell them not to do tha, but with a firmer tone in your voice.

The other person respones with "you'll like it if you just try it". You respond with "No, I'm not interested" They laugh and make another grab at your crotch. You knock their hand away and tell them not to touch you. By this time your getting pi$$ed and they arn't backing off.

Thats when they try to slap you in the face. You block them off and tell them not to try it again. They do. You block again and very angerly, tell them not to f^cking try to touch you again.

They try to slap you in the face a third time.

At this point you have two choices:

1. You can block them a third time and calmly walk back in to the bar and let the security, (whom are friends of yours) know whats going on and let them handle it.

OR

2. You an block their arm, grab the wrist, lock them into an arm bar and put them face first into the wall. Use their arm as ledvrage and slam them face down in the pavement, crank on their sholder to let them know your not playing with them, then put you knee in the middle of their back,while still holding their arm and have a talk with them about how trying that $hit again WILL NOT be in their best interest.



Which of the two choices would you go with and why?

Well neither, since I wouldn't be in a mans restroom peeing in a urinal. *shrugs*

Fair enough....

ive actually BEEN in a similar situation to that. i went and got the one security guy i knew personally and he dealt with it. i did get a lil rough with the guy comming onto me but i didnt hurt him at all.

well after thr 2nd attempt of tring to unwanting touch me..I'd have alreday had maced there a*s..then groined them..and called the police about the harrassment...I don't play arounf like that...at all..to many stories..there..

yeah sorry. wouldn't know since i have no junk to pat. ;p

but as a girl.. i would tell security. because its always better to have witnesses and CYA.

cover your a$$

haha but i bet it would be hilarious watching you try!

the minute they looked at me for a "longer time" i'd turn and pee on their leg. if this persisted, or they liked it, i'd ask to shake their hand, and in doing so, violently pull their hand, using their weight against them so i would be in back of them, and very fast, i'd have two fingers ripping their cheek back, painfully so, and very softly whispering in their ear, the torchure and worse, their body is going to go through if they persist.

NICE!!!!!!

it works.....every time. and thanks.

3. It didn't happen because I don't hang out in gay bars.

1.... but I woulda left the bar the first time the jerk "grabbed" me, if I were a guy

hmmm odds are tho? the guy wouldnt try anything else after that first attempt. MOST would just move on instead of becomming total screwups like that. plus no need to ruin your good time just cause of one drunkie. specially if its your regular place where your friends are all at and where you know the security.

Lmao, I would be amazed that any guy let it go that far with out shoving the dude against the wall and letting them know they try that one more time they could in fact be eating their own package in order to get the message across.

Sorry I'm a woman and if another women tried that with me they would be set straight from the very first time it would not take me till the third time to voice my opinion.

Heck no wonder the dude thought they might be gay. But I could almost assure you that the guys that I have known that were gay would never be that forward unless in fact you were in a gay bar to begin with and they were really drunk.

For most gays female/male are more discreet with the way they come on to others. Heck most of them can tell you right off the bat which ones are gay in fact lmao. Shshshs

Yeah dude their forwardness is completely wrong and I would most likely went with option #2 followed by telling security, the only difference though is that I would have went with option #2 at the urinal.

I'm not a guy, but I think a little of both. Make him understand you won't put up with that.

the first one

if a guy grabs my package...well lets just say he'll end up a swiss colony package