Topic: Ladies...Could you ever be the other woman? | |
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You end it when the truth comes out that he's a liar. He is still technically married even if he is separated. |
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If he is cheating on her, with you... what makes you think that he wouldn't cheat on you eventually... a total going no where relationship to say the least... What goes around, comes around... so absolutely not! First of all, I would have asked way before I would let myself "fall deeply in love" if he was married or seeing anyone. If the answer at that time was a lie and things proceeded and I found out later that it was a lie... It would be over. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. |
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If he is cheating on her, with you... what makes you think that he wouldn't cheat on you eventually... a total going no where relationship to say the least... What goes around, comes around... so absolutely not! First of all, I would have asked way before I would let myself "fall deeply in love" if he was married or seeing anyone. If the answer at that time was a lie and things proceeded and I found out later that it was a lie... It would be over. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. |
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You end it when the truth comes out that he's a liar. He is still technically married even if he is separated. What if she was with another man other then her husband? You still wouldn't become involved with him? |
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You end it when the truth comes out that he's a liar. He is still technically married even if he is separated. What if she was with another man other then her husband? You still wouldn't become involved with him? I was separated for 3 years before the loser granted me the divorce. I had several guys tell me that they wouldn't go out because I was technically still married. There was no chance for reconcilation, but they didn't feel comfortable because I hadn't officially gotten divorced yet. |
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If he is cheating on her, with you... what makes you think that he wouldn't cheat on you eventually... a total going no where relationship to say the least... What goes around, comes around... so absolutely not! First of all, I would have asked way before I would let myself "fall deeply in love" if he was married or seeing anyone. If the answer at that time was a lie and things proceeded and I found out later that it was a lie... It would be over. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. Sorry dude... not possible I am not a 17 yr old school girl who is that gullible. Whether in love or not... I have a lot of experience in finding stuff out about people. Enough said... |
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You end it when the truth comes out that he's a liar. He is still technically married even if he is separated. What if she was with another man other then her husband? You still wouldn't become involved with him? I was separated for 3 years before the loser granted me the divorce. I had several guys tell me that they wouldn't go out because I was technically still married. There was no chance for reconcilation, but they didn't feel comfortable because I hadn't officially gotten divorced yet. |
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If he is cheating on her, with you... what makes you think that he wouldn't cheat on you eventually... a total going no where relationship to say the least... What goes around, comes around... so absolutely not! First of all, I would have asked way before I would let myself "fall deeply in love" if he was married or seeing anyone. If the answer at that time was a lie and things proceeded and I found out later that it was a lie... It would be over. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. Sorry dude... not possible I am not a 17 yr old school girl who is that gullible. Whether in love or not... I have a lot of experience in finding stuff out about people. Enough said... |
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I was the other woman.Dumb me fell in love,married the asshole and had a beautiful son and a ****ty marriage.I am divorced now.I got what I deserved for being stupid.
Never again. |
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You end it when the truth comes out that he's a liar. He is still technically married even if he is separated. What if she was with another man other then her husband? You still wouldn't become involved with him? I was separated for 3 years before the loser granted me the divorce. I had several guys tell me that they wouldn't go out because I was technically still married. There was no chance for reconcilation, but they didn't feel comfortable because I hadn't officially gotten divorced yet. I am ashamed to admit that I have dated a married man, but broke it off when he used every excuse in the book as to why he couldn't get a divorce. I got sick of his lies and his nonsense games. I dumped his sorry butt. |
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You end it when the truth comes out that he's a liar. He is still technically married even if he is separated. What if she was with another man other then her husband? You still wouldn't become involved with him? I was separated for 3 years before the loser granted me the divorce. I had several guys tell me that they wouldn't go out because I was technically still married. There was no chance for reconcilation, but they didn't feel comfortable because I hadn't officially gotten divorced yet. I am ashamed to admit that I have dated a married man, but broke it off when he used every excuse in the book as to why he couldn't get a divorce. I got sick of his lies and his nonsense games. I dumped his sorry butt. Awww... Don't be ashamed, you just wanted to be loved and he kept you dangling. You did the right thing and moved on. No shame in that at all. |
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You end it when the truth comes out that he's a liar. He is still technically married even if he is separated. What if she was with another man other then her husband? You still wouldn't become involved with him? I was separated for 3 years before the loser granted me the divorce. I had several guys tell me that they wouldn't go out because I was technically still married. There was no chance for reconcilation, but they didn't feel comfortable because I hadn't officially gotten divorced yet. I am ashamed to admit that I have dated a married man, but broke it off when he used every excuse in the book as to why he couldn't get a divorce. I got sick of his lies and his nonsense games. I dumped his sorry butt. Whats that song?? Stay??? LOL |
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You end it when the truth comes out that he's a liar. He is still technically married even if he is separated. What if she was with another man other then her husband? You still wouldn't become involved with him? I was separated for 3 years before the loser granted me the divorce. I had several guys tell me that they wouldn't go out because I was technically still married. There was no chance for reconcilation, but they didn't feel comfortable because I hadn't officially gotten divorced yet. I am ashamed to admit that I have dated a married man, but broke it off when he used every excuse in the book as to why he couldn't get a divorce. I got sick of his lies and his nonsense games. I dumped his sorry butt. Awww... Don't be ashamed, you just wanted to be loved and he kept you dangling. You did the right thing and moved on. No shame in that at all. Thanks for that. It sucked, but the more I thought about it, if he was cheating on her, what would he do to me in a few years. Once a cheat, always a cheat. |
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I was the other woman once, and yes, I told her when I found out.
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You end it when the truth comes out that he's a liar. He is still technically married even if he is separated. What if she was with another man other then her husband? You still wouldn't become involved with him? I was separated for 3 years before the loser granted me the divorce. I had several guys tell me that they wouldn't go out because I was technically still married. There was no chance for reconcilation, but they didn't feel comfortable because I hadn't officially gotten divorced yet. I am ashamed to admit that I have dated a married man, but broke it off when he used every excuse in the book as to why he couldn't get a divorce. I got sick of his lies and his nonsense games. I dumped his sorry butt. Awww... Don't be ashamed, you just wanted to be loved and he kept you dangling. You did the right thing and moved on. No shame in that at all. Thanks for that. It sucked, but the more I thought about it, if he was cheating on her, what would he do to me in a few years. Once a cheat, always a cheat. Yes, we are always in a perpetual learning phase... |
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You end it when the truth comes out that he's a liar. He is still technically married even if he is separated. What if she was with another man other then her husband? You still wouldn't become involved with him? I was separated for 3 years before the loser granted me the divorce. I had several guys tell me that they wouldn't go out because I was technically still married. There was no chance for reconcilation, but they didn't feel comfortable because I hadn't officially gotten divorced yet. I am ashamed to admit that I have dated a married man, but broke it off when he used every excuse in the book as to why he couldn't get a divorce. I got sick of his lies and his nonsense games. I dumped his sorry butt. Awww... Don't be ashamed, you just wanted to be loved and he kept you dangling. You did the right thing and moved on. No shame in that at all. Thanks for that. It sucked, but the more I thought about it, if he was cheating on her, what would he do to me in a few years. Once a cheat, always a cheat. |
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I was the other woman once, and yes, I told her when I found out. How did she respond to the news? |
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I was the other woman.Dumb me fell in love,married the asshole and had a beautiful son and a ****ty marriage.I am divorced now.I got what I deserved for being stupid. Never again. |
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I've been the other woman...the wife...to the husband who cheated multiple times over, sometimes with women who dined in my home, I thought were my friends. I have always felt women should stick together, treat one another better than this. I would never be a part of putting another woman through the heartache.
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