Ok, so last night, I stayed home with my 5 year old daughter (woo hoo!)

Admitedly felt a bit sorry for myself because I am alone.

Midnite comes my daughter bangs her pots and pans & we are ready for bed...

My phone rings..Its an ex. ..saying how sorry he was and that he loves my daughter and I and he wants us to have a happy new year...(12:10 am)

THEN I get a text from another ex.. .saying "Happy New Year...I miss talking to you." (12:34am)

What is up with that? I could understand if it was 2 am the drunken hype was over and they were thinking of me...but right after midnite?

These men both didnt want to be with me. They both had there own agendas of parties or women or whatever. I stepped out because I dont play second fiddle to anyone other than kids...

I was polite to both of them, wishing them a happy new year as well. But, I hope I dont hear from them again. I dont know how to be B1tchy...I just dont want to start the drama with either one of them again...URGH... Maybe I wont hear from them again, but what if I do...

I know this question must sound so 14...I just really dont know what to do.

Yeah, I got a text from an ex too. I think it's just the moment. And, then it passes.

my Ex didnt call me

I hope so

I did what you did....just replied politely with a Happy New Year. Then there was nothing.

Lucky you...

I didnt mention before but my ex HUSBAND also called 3 times yesterday...

Its not that I am all that...I obviously cant even get a date for New Years...I would never call an ex like that...At mid nite on new years...Why would I want their voice to be the first I hear of the year!?

just remember your not alone in the dating thing,BTW Happy New Year

My ex husband only calls/texts if he is currently broken up with his girlfriend. Some people just don't understand the meaning of the word "no".

Thank you!

Happy New Year to you too!