cattle prod

Leave now and take your dignity with you.... step away from the control freak.

Of course, the cattle prod is a good idea... or a tazer.

drives then nuts to say the least love to see them gobble down their xanax by the hand fulls..

I think that's the best advice I've received all day. Thanx!

They will forever try to run your life, fine if you are a vegtable or weak minded. Most control freaks are that way for a reason and it is best just to avoid them totally and run your own life to your own standard not ty to live up to theirs, which you will NEVER be able to do

You run away as fast as you can, unless you like it.

When they get out out line ZAAAP, then they lay on the floor twitch for a bit and everything is fine. Works well with kids too.

Think maybe being a control freak is a sign of insecurity?

ummmm buh bye

You are spot on!
If you enjoy the play, keep dumping more things for them to control onto them until they crack. Keep coming up with things to divert them from the personal attention and send them on their merry way without them even knowing it.

I tune them out.

They nut up, and go away.

Simple...don't give your power away. Better yet...stay away from them. They can only control you if you let them.

Control freaks will take over your entire life if you let them. Even after you break up with them, they will not hear of it. They can become stalkers.

You have to be hard ass. You have to really mean it when you say NO!

Here are some suggestions:

1. Break up with them or divorce them. GET RID OF THEM.

THEN:

2. Hang up on them when they call you.
3. Don't answer the door when they come knocking.
4. Call the police if they don't go away.
5. Get a restraining order if they persist.
6. Put up a NO TRESSPASSING sign on your front and back gates and doors, and add their name to it saying 'This means you (insert their name here)! If you don't put their name on the sign they will not think it is for them.

If none of this works, there is a plan B, but it may not be legal.


If you are living with them, then you are like the person who let the vampire into your home. They will suck the life out of you until you are DEAD.

Let them know you think they are one, then forget about it and focus on yourself; what your bottom line is to make you happy. If they decide to change it, there's hope. If not?

RUN FOR THE HILLS and NEVER LOOK BACK!

Um, yeah!

So very true....

walk away

k-here's the thing you hookers<just playin>-you can't control a control-freak! that's what we do! besides-its good to be controlled-if you know what i mean hehe btw-if anyone gets offended-sorry-im just playin-its what i do baby seriously-if you care enough-you stick it out and both try to find a medium-be flexible we all have our faults