Topic: Betrayal
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Mon 12/29/08 09:24 AM

HELL YES I DAMN SURE MEANT IT!
remind me to be extra nice to you then...flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

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Mon 12/29/08 09:29 AM
drinker

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Mon 12/29/08 09:37 AM
It all seriously made me question my worth as a person & a woman. To be thrown away like trash in the dumpster. I was very scared about how i was gonna live & support myself alone. & terrorfied about the thought of dating again at my age. Not to mention the nightmareindifferent embarassed sick of a stranger seeing me naked & having sex. OMG!

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Mon 12/29/08 09:42 AM

It all seriously made me question my worth as a person & a woman. To be thrown away like trash in the dumpster. I was very scared about how i was gonna live & support myself alone. & terrorfied about the thought of dating again at my age. Not to mention the nightmareindifferent embarassed sick of a stranger seeing me naked & having sex. OMG!
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Mon 12/29/08 09:46 AM
tears

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 12/29/08 09:49 AM

tears
flowers Dont cryflowers

onceuponatijm's photo
Mon 12/29/08 11:58 AM
is it betrayal? or one's attachment to the image they like best

do we ever really see each other?
do we ever really know?
who has not woken up from this dream ?

it is important first to find out
if one has betrayed themselves
with their illusions and their attachments
and the games of their ego...
if they are even indeed their own authentic selves, and not the manufactured product of the social structure at large

life is non refundable,

we are conditioned and bombarded from birth, even in utero , is that a betrayal?
if we feel betrayed, 'who' is betrayed?
'what' is betrayed?

haven't we learned anything at all from all the wisdom at our fingertips?

one first has to 'believe' in order to be betrayed

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Mon 12/29/08 12:44 PM
It hasn't happened in any of my past relationships, just always parted company as friends, because of comon interest reasons.
In my opinion, there is only one way to deal with a cheater, and that is to write them off, period. That means put them totally out of your mind, and move on with your life.

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Tue 12/30/08 04:20 AM
Yes.

Poorly.

I healed the best I could by going through most of the stages of grieving.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 12/30/08 08:55 PM

Yes.

Poorly.

I healed the best I could by going through most of the stages of grieving.













flowerforyou Thats goodflowerforyou

ladypegasus's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:08 PM
Yes. By te person who was my best friend for 15 years. Hurt like heck but made me a stronger person. And the little white happy pills the doctor prescribed helped too.

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Wed 12/31/08 06:53 PM

Yes. By te person who was my best friend for 15 years. Hurt like heck but made me a stronger person. And the little white happy pills the doctor prescribed helped too.




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Wed 12/31/08 06:55 PM
Yes... very recently, and it broke my heart

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 12/31/08 07:03 PM

Yes... very recently, and it broke my heart





flowers

citygurl's photo
Wed 12/31/08 07:16 PM
Thank you Mirror :)

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/01/09 03:08 PM

Thank you Mirror :)





bigsmile Your welcomeflowerforyou

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Fri 03/27/09 10:08 PM
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Fri 03/27/09 10:39 PM

flowerforyou Have you ever been betrayed by someone that you thought you could trust,and how did you deal with it?flowerforyou


Yes I have been betrayed the small stuff is easy enough to get over I just let it go But there is one that I'm still trying to figure out how to let go

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Fri 03/27/09 10:40 PM

flowerforyou Have you ever been betrayed by someone that you thought you could trust,and how did you deal with it?flowerforyou


yes..my brother and I said goodbye

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Fri 03/27/09 10:54 PM
yes-but I picked myself up and moved on.Sometimes u are stronger than u ever thought you could be:smile: