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Topic: Betrayal
dbh1966 Joined Sun 12/07/08 Posts: 470	Mon 12/29/08 12:32 AM Edited by dbh1966 on Mon 12/29/08 12:34 AM
Then I moved on. Oh and the answer is yes I have been betrayed. That seems to be too nice of word for it though.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/29/08 12:46 AM
Then I moved on. Oh and the answer is yes I have been betrayed. That seems to be too nice of word for it though.

I_need_a_smoke_break Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 393	Mon 12/29/08 12:47 AM
Can violence be a solution? Cuz I just vote to shank the person....

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/29/08 12:53 AM
Can violence be a solution? Cuz I just vote to shank the person.... I wish

dbh1966 Joined Sun 12/07/08 Posts: 470	Mon 12/29/08 01:00 AM
I will vote shank.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/29/08 01:12 AM
I will vote shank.

dbh1966 Joined Sun 12/07/08 Posts: 470	Mon 12/29/08 01:19 AM
Ok... I could never do that. Thats my daughters mother.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/29/08 08:24 AM
Ok... I could never do that. Thats my daughters mother.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 12/29/08 08:25 AM
My ex husband is married to one of my old friends. Double betrayal.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/29/08 08:30 AM
My ex husband is married to one of my old friends. Double betrayal. dang

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Mon 12/29/08 08:35 AM
I can't always do this right away. But I try to remember there are two sides of the knife in betrayal. The one the person who betrays you sharpens in stealth. I can not do as much about me so that is on them. But the one I sharpen in fantasy that I am invincible and such a good person that my love/friendship will overcome is on me. Trust is a metal best tested and validated by hard work and a keen eye. If you can't lay a hammer on the sword then you will eventually find it in your back.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 12/29/08 08:44 AM
Tell me about it.... It's a joy and a thrill to see them. Actually, they are seprated now, going to "counseling". When my ex and I went to counseling, he told me in the one and only session that he wanted a divorce.... he walked home. (I left him there) Only 35 percent of unions survive an extramarital affair. 65 percent of marriages break up because of adultery And the failure rate for second marriages is way higher than 50%.... then add in the failure rate for marriage that start in infidelity... Moral of Story: People get what they deserve.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/29/08 08:45 AM
I can't always do this right away. But I try to remember there are two sides of the knife in betrayal. The one the person who betrays you sharpens in stealth. I can not do as much about me so that is on them. But the one I sharpen in fantasy that I am invincible and such a good person that my love/friendship will overcome is on me. Trust is a metal best tested and validated by hard work and a keen eye. If you can't lay a hammer on the sword then you will eventually find it in your back. So wise

nicenurse64 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 3849	Mon 12/29/08 08:46 AM
MY X! He walked out & didnt come back! I had no car, no job & no money. I went a bit crazy for a few days, but THANKS BE to my cat & both my sons! I had friends who helped me also! At this point i guess i should thank him too, ive become a stronger woman because of it. BUT, you know what they say<"HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED"

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/29/08 08:48 AM
MY X! He walked out & didnt come back! I had no car, no job & no money. I went a bit crazy for a few days, but THANKS BE to my cat & both my sons! I had friends who helped me also! At this point i guess i should thank him too, ive become a stronger woman because of it. BUT, you know what they say<"HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED"

nicenurse64 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 3849	Mon 12/29/08 08:49 AM
TY M+M!

nicenurse64 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 3849	Mon 12/29/08 08:51 AM
its all good now, he just recently found out he has cancer!

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Mon 12/29/08 08:58 AM
its all good now, he just recently found out he has cancer! I am sure your feeings about all that are warrented... but to be glad that he has cancer? you really didn't mean it that way did you? I sure hope not... betrayal or not... and yes I have been betrayed like everyone else.. but I got over it ... she went back to living with her ex husband and is miserable now... thats good enough for me.

nicenurse64 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 3849	Mon 12/29/08 09:04 AM
HELL YES I DAMN SURE MEANT IT!

nicenurse64 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 3849	Mon 12/29/08 09:22 AM
im a Scorpio with Taursus rising! Make me mad you get the stinger & the horns! I take a betrayal very seriously! On the other hand, live in my heart & i will fiercely protect you.