Topic: Would you forgive him? | |
---|---|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
|
|
|
For the last time Lee.......
I am not GAY!!! |
|
|
|
i am one of those children. my father got my mother pregnant long before he met my step mom....who is my best friend.
|
|
|
|
If he had the kid before we met thats fine but while we were married deff not! thats cheating sorry your ass will be kicked to the curb
![]() |
|
|
|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Clarify Mirror ![]() Did this happen while they were together? As for the love of the child, children are never at fault for the failures of the adults around them so loving the child should come completely without prejudice. Of course this would only apply if one chose to stay together after it happened. |
|
|
|
For the last time Lee....... I am not GAY!!! ![]() |
|
|
|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Clarify Mirror ![]() Did this happen while they were together? As for the love of the child, children are never at fault for the failures of the adults around them so loving the child should come completely without prejudice. Of course this would only apply if one chose to stay together after it happened. ![]() ![]() |
|
|
|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Clarify Mirror ![]() Did this happen while they were together? As for the love of the child, children are never at fault for the failures of the adults around them so loving the child should come completely without prejudice. Of course this would only apply if one chose to stay together after it happened. ![]() ![]() Well what I said applies, if you choose to stay with him after it happens, you need to encourage him by any means necessary to be a good father to the child. It will be hard and complicated but it is not the child's fault. |
|
|
|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Clarify Mirror ![]() Did this happen while they were together? As for the love of the child, children are never at fault for the failures of the adults around them so loving the child should come completely without prejudice. Of course this would only apply if one chose to stay together after it happened. ![]() ![]() Well what I said applies, if you choose to stay with him after it happens, you need to encourage him by any means necessary to be a good father to the child. It will be hard and complicated but it is not the child's fault. ![]() ![]() |
|
|
|
If he had the kid before we met thats fine but while we were married deff not! thats cheating sorry your ass will be kicked to the curb ![]() ![]() |
|
|
|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Clarify Mirror ![]() Did this happen while they were together? As for the love of the child, children are never at fault for the failures of the adults around them so loving the child should come completely without prejudice. Of course this would only apply if one chose to stay together after it happened. ![]() ![]() Well what I said applies, if you choose to stay with him after it happens, you need to encourage him by any means necessary to be a good father to the child. It will be hard and complicated but it is not the child's fault. ![]() ![]() i completely agree....plus while i do think cheating is a major offense in a relationship i also think there are exceptions to every rule. which off in another tangent...maybe its a screwed up version of a surrogacy... |
|
|
|
people always need to remember that no matter what an adult should be held responsible for inside or outside of a relationship...the child shouldnt. too many children are victims of their parents indiscretions or unwavering closemindedness or hurt feelings.
|
|
|
|
It would be much easier for me to love the child than to forgive the cheating spouse.
|
|
|