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Topic: How do you tell someone that they are terrible?
durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Thu 01/22/09 09:22 PM
How do you tell someone that they are terrible in bed without hurting their feelings? you are kidding of course? you can't trust me.. I just went through this with someone she knew but we didn't talk about it till it all came to a head... there is no nice way to say something like that to a lady.. wish there was. and btw.. I gave it 6 months of trying to be patient.. each of us experimenting , learning and yes talking about likes and dislike ( sexually).. but in the end it just wasn't good.. we just were not compatible sexually ..it happens..

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Thu 01/22/09 09:23 PM
Im not sure its really even possible for a woman to be "bad in bed". All they really gotta do is show up. So it really doesnt matter if we have a pulse or not too...................just an object to insert another object................wow.......... it matters 2 me!!!! Me too. She has to have a pulse. Or at least still be warm.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 01/22/09 09:39 PM
Let me tell you guys something.......a lady is only as good as the guy in bed. If a guy was all that.....you would know it!!!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 01/22/09 09:54 PM
<-----shakes her butt and walks away!!

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 01/22/09 09:54 PM
What a tease!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 01/22/09 10:10 PM
What a tease! Oh I dont tease!!!!

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 01/22/09 10:10 PM
What a tease! Oh I dont tease!!!! Sure you don't

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 01/22/09 10:16 PM
ok I do!!!

sensualsweet Joined Sun 12/28/08 Posts: 977	Thu 01/22/09 10:24 PM
How do you tell someone that they are terrible in bed without hurting their feelings? You do not suck...really...you don't. Let's see, do not suck, do not blow... I'm confused?

mixmantech Joined Sun 01/11/09 Posts: 1019	Thu 01/22/09 10:27 PM
I DONT THINK WOMEN CAN BE TOO BAD IN BED US GUYS ARE TOO EASY (BUT SOME GIRLS COULD BE THAT BAD) JUST TALK TO THEM DURING SEX AND IN A SEXUAL WAY TELL THEM WHAT YOU LIKE

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 01/24/09 04:51 AM
I DONT THINK WOMEN CAN BE TOO BAD IN BED US GUYS ARE TOO EASY (BUT SOME GIRLS COULD BE THAT BAD) JUST TALK TO THEM DURING SEX AND IN A SEXUAL WAY TELL THEM WHAT YOU LIKE OK

Stephany311 Joined Tue 01/13/09 Posts: 189	Thu 02/05/09 09:48 PM
putting on a show, where you can take care of yourself while he watches (and helps a little) can be sexy and teaches, or sometimes I just take the reins and put him where he needs to be. Theres nothing wrong with you takin the lead

Cristina4fun Joined Fri 01/23/09 Posts: 179	Thu 02/05/09 09:52 PM
Give them a bottle of horny goat weed and a porn video

rickfw Joined Wed 01/21/09 Posts: 542	Thu 02/05/09 09:52 PM
Im not sure its really even possible for a woman to be "bad in bed". All they really gotta do is show up. NNNNOOOO if they are going to be a sack of potatoes i might as well get a blow up doll lol

Dueyz Joined Tue 11/18/08 Posts: 492	Fri 02/06/09 01:18 AM
Communication is key! It always depends on the situation. If it's someone you just randomly did it with, don't plan on doing it again, then its not mandatory to give advice, although the next person they screw will appreciate it lol. If it's someone you are in a relationship with, then open communication is a MUST! Guide their hands, or lips, demonstrate with your own hand, it's not rocket science, but its not always easy! Everyone has their own idea of what is good and not good in bed, and it just takes a little time and patience to figure out what works for you! what she said ;)

thinkingaboutit09 Joined Fri 01/02/09 Posts: 1370	Fri 02/06/09 01:31 AM
well so many scenerios????? Usally the only thing that makes a woman terrible is selfishness.....there are the physical attributes that you cant change and in that case hell i dont what you can do except leave or get real creative!

spkeck Joined Sun 07/22/07 Posts: 606	Sat 02/07/09 07:55 PM
eventually your going to have to hurt them. just be like look, your not particular good lets work on some things to make it better so we can have 2 way enjoyable sex

mixmantech Joined Sun 01/11/09 Posts: 1019	Mon 02/09/09 07:10 PM
i say when that happens. you must take it into your hands and do the work. tell them WHILE your having sex. dont tell what to do just tell them what YOU like. so really your not telling them anything besides how you would like to have sex with them

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 02/09/09 07:21 PM
I could so rock your world

Godwhispers Joined Tue 09/23/08 Posts: 439	Mon 02/09/09 07:22 PM
I have never had "TERRIBLE IN BED" hmmm....