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I can't figure out why guys are so bad in bed because it kind of guarantees it is a one time deal if they are really bad. huh? K so its just not me................       
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 Im not sure its really even possible for a woman to be "bad in bed".  All they really gotta do is show up.
yes, and they don't show, cause i warn em!!! hheee heee tee heee!!!!
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I can't figure out why guys are so bad in bed because it kind of guarantees it is a one time deal if they are really bad. huh? Yes if a guy is really bad in bed the gal is going to move on and what is worse is going to tell her friends so a guy has an even toughter time getting a gal interested. |
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ok, it takes two, if they are bad take control, guide, tell, show them what you want...you should at least be able to do that, i've been with both, some that were bad but after a little while they knew the right buttons, and some that it just came natural to. But if your not willing to teach and then don't expect much, also be willing to learn as well. I think what gets in the way the most is a guys ego...'i'm good' 'let me' 'i know what i'm doing' umm...maybe you might with the LAST girl, but everyone is different.
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Im not sure its really even possible for a woman to be "bad in bed". All they really gotta do is show up.
So it really doesnt matter if we have a pulse or not too...................just an object to insert another object................wow.......... 
it matters 2 me!!!! Me too. She has to have a pulse. 
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ok, it takes two, if they are bad take control, guide, tell, show them what you want...you should at least be able to do that, i've been with both, some that were bad but after a little while they knew the right buttons, and some that it just came natural to. But if your not willing to teach and then don't expect much, also be willing to learn as well. I think what gets in the way the most is a guys ego...'i'm good' 'let me' 'i know what i'm doing' umm...maybe you might with the LAST girl, but everyone is different.  true
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 How do you tell someone that they are terrible in bed without hurting their feelings?
You do not suck...really...you don't. |
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How do you tell someone that they are terrible in bed without hurting their feelings?
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How do you tell someone that they are terrible in bed without hurting their feelings?
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Well that's easy when you date younger like I do, cuz they expect to learn from an older woman anyway
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Omg, ya'll, this thread was SO dang funny I can't stop crying! (Reaching for the tissues).
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Im not sure its really even possible for a woman to be "bad in bed". All they really gotta do is show up.
Dayum 
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Teach them or bring in new techniques that you have been "wanting" to try as not to hurt their feelings. Hopefully they will be willing to try new stuff and/or tell them that you need them to do this and that. Up front and honest are the best way to go. Be tactful about it though.
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Yeah, I agree that tact is key.
But, if they do not ask you what you enjoy or how to please you, most likely they might get their feelings hurt anyway. I tend not to use the first time as the only barometer, as I find the second or third time is more of an accurate reflection of their sexual abilities. Honesty is really the best policy. Sex is important in a relationship, and so is communication. If you can't communicate about sex, how can you communicate about other feelings? I am quite vocal in what I like and do not like....
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Yeah, I agree that tact is key. But, if they do not ask you what you enjoy or how to please you, most likely they might get their feelings hurt anyway. I tend not to use the first time as the only barometer, as I find the second or third time is more of an accurate reflection of their sexual abilities. Honesty is really the best policy. Sex is important in a relationship, and so is communication. If you can't communicate about sex, how can you communicate about other feelings? I am quite vocal in what I like and do not like....
well said
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How do you tell someone that they are terrible in bed without hurting their feelings?
There really isn't a way to break that kind of news to them, as they're gonna feel hurt by whatever you say. |
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dont tell them they are horrible just start showin them stuff you like and they will catch on
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dont tell them they are horrible just start showin them stuff you like and they will catch on thanks for the advice
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Edited by
Gypsy41
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Thu 01/22/09 08:52 PM
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I would just sew my knees together...
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How do you tell someone that they are terrible in bed without hurting their feelings?
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