What do you think went wrong in your last failed relationship/marriage?

she fell outta love *shrug*

abusive tendencies on his part, inability to deal with it on mine...

Ummm....nothing other than the fact that she tried to KILL me!!!

Milage...I would never have another long distance relationship again. If you can't see them and spend time with them, in my eyes..its not going to work!

I was stupid, she held a grudge...both of us were naive.

lack of communication....and different approaches to life re:maturity

His no ambition butt couldn't stand to see me prosper.
I cheated on him with my education he REALLY HONESTLY feels.

dang

Different values & lifestyles, no common interests or goals.

Last guy I was with for 4 years.. I was just content.. he was a nice guy.. but he had a lot of issues.. didn't want to work.. but was able to support himself.. had a temper.. but was sweet to me.. so it was like a toss up.. but then we started talkign about moving in together.. and when he started slowly bringing his things.. I realized I never wanted to live with him.. so it was best to just not continue with it...

He pretty much literally believed that me having my nose up his butt was more important then in the books...

well.. the one last year. he couldnt be emotionally supportive towards me or his ownself. and i knew it wasent ment to be

but before that i was in a 3yr relationship where he was emotionally abusive, and he didnt see that. broke up with him 3 or 4times. he died 2yrs ago he had a good heart but the emotional abusive part had to do with his stepdad and his mom. and he just didnt see that.. my attitude was changing and he insisited for me to see a counselor and i did, and i learned alot, my mom even had said if i had went back to him. the problems would had restarted all over again...

and for what went wrong in my marriage.. everything.. he cheated before during and after.. do i have to say more

my ex and I had a religious conflict

I was a Protestant and she was a b*tch

For lack of a better word it got 'stale'. We were complete opposites (go figure they say they attract). But our hobbies / goals didn't even come close. We both knew it was physical attraction.

She told me to give up the family farm for her, I told her to get lost.

Nothing, other than the fact my ex-husband abused me!!

i HATE that.
it takes .58 seconds to send a damn text message to either say hi, i'm busy. will talk later.

i didnt trust him.
and he didnt trust me because i didnt trust him.

Neglect. Nothing makes a man feel uglier than when his wife refuses his advances. Then when you struggle she refuses to join you in counciling. Makes you wonder if it's worth risking sometimes.