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Topic: one night stand
beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Wed 12/10/08 09:23 PM
I seem to get these guys that email sweet nothings in my ear for a couple days and then WAM BAM...never hear from them again... Is this the online version of a one night stand?

Anothernewwesley Joined Wed 11/12/08 Posts: 6	Wed 12/10/08 09:25 PM
Yes.

traciann85 Joined Mon 11/03/08 Posts: 82	Wed 12/10/08 09:25 PM
yes i think it is, i get those guys too

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Wed 12/10/08 09:26 PM
damn I feel so used

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 12/10/08 09:28 PM
Damn...I am missing out.

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Wed 12/10/08 09:53 PM
I get those all the time too....It gets soooo at times

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 12/10/08 09:54 PM
sorry ladies i'm such a tease i'll stop i promise

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Wed 12/10/08 10:23 PM
OK so what does a guy get out of that? ..the most pathetic one night stand EVER?

memphisboss Joined Tue 11/18/08 Posts: 357	Wed 12/10/08 10:27 PM
MAYBE THEY ARE TRYING TO GET THEIR GAME TOGETHER BECAUSE THEY DONT KNOW HOW TO APPROACH A WOMEN YET. YOU KNOW WORKING ON THEYRE LINES OR WHATEVA. OR THEY JUST LOSE INTREST IN YOU. PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT!!!!! LOL

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Thu 12/11/08 03:49 AM
I seem to get these guys that email sweet nothings in my ear for a couple days and then WAM BAM...never hear from them again... Is this the online version of a one night stand? Just don't look at it so negatively. It is more like it wasn't meant to be and you are probably better off. Another positive remains you are still free to find whomever and whatever your bright future holds. A crossroads is an adventure into the unknown and a chance to shape your life as you see fit.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 12/12/08 06:43 PM
I dont get all hot and bothered after the first few emails...

Jhavez Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 15557	Fri 12/12/08 08:04 PM
You must be talking about the online dating service "players". Why worry about it? Would you really want someone like that anyways?

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Fri 12/12/08 08:09 PM
I'm usually the one that does the one night stand to THEM. OOps.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 12/12/08 08:15 PM
It means they can't choose; always think there is something better around the corner; or, have fears of getting too close with anyone. Sadly, it is themselves they are unsure of and do not know. Their self esteem is lacking....and they are afraid of getting too close either because they think they'll get lost in the other, be eventually abandoned or rejected, or always see something lacking in another because of extreme perfectionism in themselves. Makes for a miserable existence.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Fri 12/12/08 08:19 PM
one night stand? I have two one on each side of my bed

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Fri 12/12/08 08:22 PM
It means they can't choose; always think there is something better around the corner; or, have fears of getting too close with anyone. Sadly, it is themselves they are unsure of and do not know. Their self esteem is lacking....and they are afraid of getting too close either because they think they'll get lost in the other, be eventually abandoned or rejected, or always see something lacking in another because of extreme perfectionism in themselves. Makes for a miserable existence. A little too deep there for emails. I personally usually get bored.

NkdSanta Joined Wed 09/10/08 Posts: 84	Fri 12/12/08 08:24 PM
Not to sound like a jerk but I'm here to meet people who are willing to go on real dates. You know out in the real world and if after a few days of chating they are still not willing to give me a call or text me than yes I lose intrest. This is a good fourm to make first contact but let's face it face to face is the only way to know if there is something there!

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Fri 12/12/08 08:38 PM
there are lots of people on here wanting to go on real dates but most of em have been around long enough to see plenty of internet infatuations flare and fizzle and the drama gets tedious so they take the time get to know people and develop long term relationships and friendships just like in real life, eh?

NkdSanta Joined Wed 09/10/08 Posts: 84	Fri 12/12/08 08:49 PM
Tushay!

SharonM45458 Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 5694	Fri 12/12/08 08:49 PM
It means they can't choose; always think there is something better around the corner; or, have fears of getting too close with anyone. Sadly, it is themselves they are unsure of and do not know. Their self esteem is lacking....and they are afraid of getting too close either because they think they'll get lost in the other, be eventually abandoned or rejected, or always see something lacking in another because of extreme perfectionism in themselves. Makes for a miserable existence. Awesome insight, but I think that applies to anyone that cheats as well.