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Topic: Why do people feel the need to lead on?
challengingmind's photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:18 AM
Sounds like quite a few things could be going on
1) Who made the first move past friendship?
2)Could be using her friend as an excuse not to be romantic with you.
3)Even if her friend was some how involved, she still held hands and kissed ya

Bottom line is she's running scared that you may hurt her emotionally or she's hiding something.

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Wed 12/10/08 10:18 AM
How old are you two?

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Wed 12/10/08 10:23 AM

How old are you two?

she's about to turn 19 in 20

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Wed 12/10/08 10:25 AM
Awww forget all this, then.laugh All that I said. It will only apply after age 25.

Move on. Get used to being lead on for the next 2-5 years. It's NOT personal.

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Wed 12/10/08 10:43 AM
Well If it were me think .....I would'nt worry about her ass anymore because if she supposedly "found out" something that she absolutely did not like about you, then she should have put her big girl panties on and questioned you straight out! So based on what Im gathering, now shes still not even clear on anything huh ....until she talks with you of course...& then try to pick up where she left off :heart: . Fukc the games man! frustrated

But best of luck with whatever you decide.

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Wed 12/10/08 10:45 AM

A lot of people really have no idea what they want and/or don't want. They shift with the breeze.


I KNOW WHAT I WANT! SUCKS THERE IS NO ONE WHO WANTS IT WITH ME ohwell

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Wed 12/10/08 10:47 AM


well i found out why she doesnt like me... I signed on my aim and got this message from her
"we need to talk asap....one of my friends took my computer and said **** and lied to me about u and thats y i didnt answer my cell to u...we need to clear **** up!"
well hope you get things cleared up good luck mandrinker


Sounds like a bunch of made up bull**** to me. Believe it if you wish.....

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Wed 12/10/08 10:50 AM
Edited by Bushidobillyclub on Wed 12/10/08 10:51 AM
Why ask why? Just move on.


Think about this . . . if there is already this much drama . . . .

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Wed 12/10/08 11:29 AM
Edited by TakingitSlowwithyou on Wed 12/10/08 11:32 AM


testing to see if i got it...

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