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would you date anyone that has a disability? if you do have a disability how do you go about telling someone you have one?? tell them on the first date or wait for awhile
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I would date someone with a disability. I think that you should be told before the first meeting.
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Sure I would - and I too would like to know before the first date.
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Edited by
Queene123
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Sun 12/07/08 05:43 PM
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would you date anyone that has a disability? if you do have a disability how do you go about telling someone you have one?? tell them on the first date or wait for awhile i have a disabily and i would tell the person right off the bat and besides that the info is right in my profile i met someone on here a month ago and the day before we met i email him and mention that i wore a hearing aid, and he responded back saying if your trying to scare me its not working.. well no i wasent i was just telling before hand.. we went to the state falls about 2weeks ago and he never been there before.. some people dont know how to deal with my issue, and the guy that i had went out with had no problem(he accepts me for me which i found awsome) and yes i have dated someone that had a disabilty my daughter dad was considered legally blind.even though he could see a little from one eye |
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Don't care, my only disability is some psychosis...just a minute, the voices are talking and I should listen...they sound quite adament this time around...
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I would and have dated someone with a disability. I would like to be told from the start, but it wouldn't stop me from wanting to get to know the person on the inside.
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Yes I would date someone that had a disability. A disability doesn't define who a person is.
I think people need to be up front about things. That being said, you aren't going to know everything about someone before you meet them or even on the first date/meeting. If the disability is one that would be noticeable, it would be wise to devulge the information ahead of time. Wouldn't want someone to be caught off-guard and not be able to really get to know you as a person because they are wondering why they weren't informed before hand. |
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im mentally disabled. i got neuro sensors that dont always work right. causes weird sensations and psht. not fun.
honestly depends on the disablity..and level of functioning/awareness in another person. oo your talking about jsut a date..sure I would hang with a person regardless of anything. im kewl like that. |
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I think the only reason I wouldn't date someone with a disability is if they lied to me about it. If it's something thats going to effect our life together I deserve to know about and decide whether or not I want to move forward. If you lie to me about it then that goes to your character, thats not the kind of character I want to be around.
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Edited by
quiet_2008
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Sun 12/07/08 06:03 PM
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eeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww no way
I would never date someone with a disability |
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and I'm not sure I could date someone with a disability that meant I would never get to have sex again
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and I'm not sure I could date someone with a disability that meant I would never get to have sex again just because they have a disabilty doesnt stop them from having a life... were all human with feelings my disabilty doesnt stop me from enjoying things im just like anyone else. |
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eeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww no way I would never date someone with a disability someone with no heart |
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eeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww no way I would never date someone with a disability someone with no heart and no kidneys |
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eeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww no way I would never date someone with a disability someone with no heart and no kidneys Like the sarcasm didn't sream from Quiet's post.... |
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sream?
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I have Lupus and I make sure people know right up front. It is a chronic condition that can interfere with life and was a contributing factor to my marriage failing. So, I get it out there right away.
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sream? Yes, sream... noun, to yell without raising one's voice. Guess you see my disability huh??? |
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and I'm not sure I could date someone with a disability that meant I would never get to have sex again just because they have a disabilty doesnt stop them from having a life... were all human with feelings my disabilty doesnt stop me from enjoying things im just like anyone else. |
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sream? isnt that a movie? |
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