I know that I am still hung up on my ex (that has moved on), and I want to do the same, how do you not give a guy the wrong impression of myself, if you want to move a little faster, if you know what I mean?

firstly...in MY opinion.....it sounds like you want to "move faster" with this new guy, simply because your ex has moved on......you admit still bein "hung up" still with your ex.....and by moving faster with a NEW guy is NOT gonna get you OVER your ex!!!!! I think you need to truly BE OVER your ex, in order for a new relationship to even WORK!!!!!!!! are you trying to get into a new relationship in order to make your ex jealous?????? if so, thats not gonna happen, & you'll hurt the new guy in the process by simply USING him!!!!

Well, I haven't found anyone that I would like to have anyway, I just wonder how to come across without him thinking I'm a slut or something. I have only been with one man, and that was my ex. Maybe, I am just doing this to get back at my ex, and maybe I am not but I don't think he would care if I was to drop dead right not. He wouldn't care. He did hurt me, and he did betray my trust, but I can move on too, just like he did. I am the farther thing away from his mind. Really

im sorry.....betrayal really sucks, & yes it hurts!!!!!
just BE YOURSELF with anyone you meet!!!!! dont say anything that you really dont mean, or do!!!! Be up front!!!!!! and mostly....good luck!!!!
also....your ex will ALWAYS be in your mind, AND heart.....just dont let it control YOU!!!!!

Put it out there right away what your intentions are. If you're just looking to have some fun... let him know! Managing expectations is the best way to handle anything in the start of a relationship. If you're just looking to hook up... let him know! If not, let him know.

But getting laid won't help you get over your ex (husband?). You need to heal your heart first. If you're in to trying something new, do a search for the Huna tradition of Ho'oponopono. I do this with men and women all the time so that they can find peace in their life, forgive their ex for the pain that was caused, and can finally start the next chapter of their life on a positive note.

OG

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