If you are seeing someone and you find out that person is carrying on an online flirting relationship with some other person 500 miles away is that cheating? If your dating partner doesnt get sexual but just keeps the flirting to the forums does that make a difference in whether or not its cheating? If cows could fly would you have to scrape cottage cheese off your car after parking under a tree?

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All right Im going to add more to this op question.
I travel a lot and I have a couple of boyfriends that are far away. We met in person while I was traveling not on a dating site. I am curious if I flirt with guys on mingle forums if my boyfriends might get offended. Should I tell them I an here? I am afraid they would make an account and start drama. Is online forum flirting even real?

Yes.

yes

I'm an Equal Opportunity Flirter...but I mainly keep it on the Forums...out in the open & with both sexes...

It's the sneaky lil flirt sessions that go on in private that I would be looking out for...JMO

ok

My ex-gf was on the site for awhile, and there were a few women here who flirted with me senselessly (I was going to say "shamelessly," but I think "senselessly" is actually more accurate!) anyway. She didn't care. She knew that everyone who was flirting with me was 897,000 miles away anyway, and it's not like I was ever going to get out of this chair and go do anything about it.

could hurt the other person if you are secretive about it. if you want to do that, i'd share it with your partner first.

I don't consider it cheating if my man is flirting, and it is 500 miles away....but there is a line and that line shouldn't be crossed!


No web cams for cyber sex!
No conversations that are kept secret from me!
No handing out phone numbers!
Be respectful and do NOT ever string someone along!

I flirt alot here and I always keep my man informed of what was said and done.... But then we both have alot of trust in each other.JMO

HERE HERE

You said ex so Im guessing it wasnt your online flirting that caused her to be your ex? Thats good to know.

Yes, it is.

No, she was never the possessive type. I never cheated on her any of the times we were dating (which has been on and off for nine years) and I never would. The breakup occurred because I'm simply too good at fixing people's problems.

First...I have a question about your Part 2 Question: Do all your boyfriends know about eachother?

I say NO!
Nuthin wrong with HARMLESS flirting.....!

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Should I tell them I an here? I am afraid they would make an account and start drama. Is online forum flirting even real?

If you're asking, then you know it's wrong

I don't think it is if your spouse knows what you're up to and they don't have a problem with it.

Only 2 boyfriends. One guy knows because he is all laid back. The other guy doesnt know anything. I guess I better not tell him about the forums then. I only see the guys a few times a year when I travel to them or they travel to me. Im not ready to settle down with one guy right now because there are way too many guys out there in the world that I might like.

I wouldn't do it, and I wouldn't want a girlfriend who would do it.............








I'm on these forums because I'm NOT in a relationship.........

Not true. I dont ask questions when I already know the answer except for those rhetorical questions girls ask when they know their boyfriend did something.

Burnt like toast kid,





but hey whatever floats your boat,

it is what it is,