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Someone I know here is thinking about proposing it to someone. I wrote an "indecent proposal" letter for someone once and she got what she wanted.
SOOOOO ... Have you ever come right out and asked someone for such an arrangement - by email OR verbally? Try to keep it clean ... but help me convince her to "just do it!" |
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Someone I know here is thinking about proposing it to someone. I wrote an "indecent proposal" letter for someone once and she got what she wanted. SOOOOO ... Have you ever come right out and asked someone for such an arrangement - by email OR verbally? Try to keep it clean ... but help me convince her to "just do it!" CB< just forward the letter to her!!!!! And for the lucky lady about to discover the "benefits" it is a great idea....but make sure that neither of you are going to loose site of the Friends part of it! |
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I sent her the letters already Tazzy .. She has two from which to choose.
Where's Gloria Steinem when you need her? |
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it didn't work out so well for me. i had one arrangement like that and because we were friends, he felt like he'd hurt my feelings if he told me he'd found someone he was genuinely interested in. in turn, i lost a friend.
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I sent her the letters already Tazzy .. She has two from which to choose. Where's Gloria Steinem when you need her? There's always Dr. Ruth!!! |
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I understand they don't work out always and it sucks. I'm trying to find out about the circumstances in which people ASKED for it. (ie: Was there rejection, success, awkwardness, what?)
I think to do an FWB, you need to pick an occasional sort of friend on your periphery and not someone central to your life. This way, if you lose him/her, it won't be AS painful. |
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Is it too late for you and I Tazz??
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Is it too late for you and I Tazz?? You would have to mud wrestle (naked) with Salmonstalker and then I may have to decide afterwards! |
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Friends with benefits can be a good arrangement as long as both parties are on the same page....it is especieally useful when your friend will approach a potential love on your behalf and encourage the hook up......Helped my good friend get married that way....in turn she got me more *ss while out clubbing than should be allowed!
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Friends With Benefits
sounds like something high school/college age people do |
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Friends With Benefits sounds like something high school/college age people do I'm thinking everyone who has posted is out of high school and college. I don't have anything to add to this though, cause I've never asked someone about this kind of situation. |
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Friends With Benefits sounds like something high school/college age people do I agree. I don't want to grow up, I'm a Toys 'R Us kid. |
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AW CB....
I wanted to do FWB with Cowboy Cop....and I am usually so opposed to it. |
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I am still waiting for someone to offer me one million dollars for one night with me.
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Like Robert Redford?
You do like blondes now... okay.... |
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Ive done it once is that you want to hear?
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Edited by
CleanBathroom
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Wed 11/26/08 11:22 AM
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AW CB.... I wanted to do FWB with Cowboy Cop....and I am usually so opposed to it. We need an entirely autonomous forum to address your issues Lilith! Want IM sex or is it too early there? GOOF: Will ya' take a check? |
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I am still waiting for someone to offer me one million dollars for one night with me. I have a post dated check.... |
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I'm on EST silly....
But at work for the next ten minutes then heading out... |
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I'm on EST silly.... But at work for the next ten minutes then heading out... I know. I was being facetious. So that's a yes I guess? |
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