Topic: I NEED HELP!
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Wed 11/26/08 11:22 AM
Theres this guy that i like, but i get really nervous around guys, so i dont know what to do. help me please.

ljcc1964's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:24 AM
That is entirely up to you.

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:25 AM
Edited by SimplyElla on Wed 11/26/08 11:25 AM
Got to get over your nervousness around guys Lonely.

Why do you get so nervous around them anyhow?

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Wed 11/26/08 11:26 AM
talk to him and tell him how u feel. if he is a real man he will understnad how u feel and would probably go out with u. just be confident and talk to him.

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Wed 11/26/08 11:27 AM
Got to get over your nervousness around guys Lonely. Why do you get so nervous around them anyhow?
I dont know why. my frends say its because i have a low self esteem.

Tj806's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:27 AM
Half the battle is initiating communication. After that its all down hill :) Good Luck and take a leap of faith!

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:27 AM
takes 7 seconds to make a first impression

gg22's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:28 AM
hi my advice for u is just be ur self and relax he wont bite u unless u do it first ok? and u have get rid of that nervous or u wont be normal, enjoy the moment there u will be relaxed and peaceful and start to smile,, bye try it aja!:wink:

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Wed 11/26/08 11:29 AM
I concur with R-Dubz. Be yourself and if he likes ya your good to go

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Wed 11/26/08 11:29 AM
just be yourself, if nervous is who you are then be nervous. or try to figure out why you are nervous, its a reaction to something, a secondary response emotion and then deal with the cause directly. "treat the cause not the symptom"

That or realize that everyone has to take a dump, girls guys whomever.
thats always worked for me, knocked everyone down to the same level... TMI i know.

and a little nervousness can be a good thing, maybe embrace it.




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Wed 11/26/08 11:32 AM

Got to get over your nervousness around guys Lonely. Why do you get so nervous around them anyhow?
I dont know why. my frends say its because i have a low self esteem.


No need to be shy or nervous all you have to do is really be yourself. You cant be nervous or mess up if you're being you
you have to be confident in yourself.

Best advice I can give you..... be yourself no matter what!

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Wed 11/26/08 11:37 AM
Focus on a guy that your not nervous around while touching 2 fingers together w/ your eyes closed for a few minutes. Then, talk to this guy you like. If you start to feel nervous again, say I've got to answer this and go "take the call". Focus on the none nervous guy w/ the fingers touch again, then go back. After a few times you will beable to touch your fingers not be nervous at all. Tell the guy your popular and usually get several calls that you always answer before you see him. Jason Bulsa