Topic: Nerdy/Geeky guys.
Jill298's photo
Wed 11/26/08 07:52 AM
If you've asked that many girls out and they've all declined than you are asking the wrong type of girls. Though it may be hard for you to meet girls interested in what you are, you only have 2 viable options. 1... you can try new things, try to be a lil more outgoing and spend a little less time at home in front of the TV. You can't really expect any woman to have ALL of the same interests that you do. Or 2... you can keep doing what you're doing and keep getting declined. I'm not suggesting you change your personality or your likes / dislikes. Don't change who you really are. Just be more open minded. You really need to meet a girl that is interested in video games and prime time TV. Just keep looking.

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 11/26/08 07:54 AM
Man...theres someone out there for everybody. I mean look at me....I have my foot in my mouth. So its not like im the coolest guy in the room.

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Wed 11/26/08 07:55 AM



And spider, how are we a threat to your life?


Nerds saw me naked!



Ooookay...


Jocks only think about sports, nerds only think about sex.

Jill298's photo
Wed 11/26/08 07:55 AM

Man...theres someone out there for everybody. I mean look at me....I have my foot in my mouth. So its not like im the coolest guy in the room.
laugh laugh laugh you do know that at any given time there's approx 3 trillion germs on your feet laugh :wink: drinker

Jill298's photo
Wed 11/26/08 07:58 AM
the problem is that if there is a girl who's main interests are video games and TV... the chances of you meeting here is slim to none since she'll be at home watching TV and playing video games laugh flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 07:59 AM
My last serious BF was and is a geek. He would get so into his work (programmer) that he was animated when discussing it. That was hawt.... He is talented and driven, funny and esocteric. He played RPG's and I didn't even care.... he was attentive and kind and I adored him.
Unfortunately, he is the adult child of two addicts and has communication issues, mother co-dependency issues.... and was just not the guy for me in the end. We are great friends and talk often. But dating geeks? Of course, as long as they have social skills.

I am not so un-geeky myself. I've seen all the sTar Wars movies in the theater after all...:tongue:

ZenthForbias's photo
Wed 11/26/08 07:59 AM

If you've asked that many girls out and they've all declined than you are asking the wrong type of girls. Though it may be hard for you to meet girls interested in what you are, you only have 2 viable options. 1... you can try new things, try to be a lil more outgoing and spend a little less time at home in front of the TV. You can't really expect any woman to have ALL of the same interests that you do. Or 2... you can keep doing what you're doing and keep getting declined. I'm not suggesting you change your personality or your likes / dislikes. Don't change who you really are. Just be more open minded. You really need to meet a girl that is interested in video games and prime time TV. Just keep looking.


It goes beyond then just trying to find someone that has my same interests. Let's just say I'm not like every other guy my age. I refuse to drink and go out partying. I refuse to have pre-marital sex, and more often than not girls my age are looking for the party type of guy that wants to have also not just a emotional relationship, but a sexual relationship as well.

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 08:00 AM

the problem is that if there is a girl who's main interests are video games and TV... the chances of you meeting here is slim to none since she'll be at home watching TV and playing video games laugh flowerforyou


Maybe they could meet on Wow? laugh

ZenthForbias's photo
Wed 11/26/08 08:03 AM


the problem is that if there is a girl who's main interests are video games and TV... the chances of you meeting here is slim to none since she'll be at home watching TV and playing video games laugh flowerforyou


Maybe they could meet on Wow? laugh


Except I don't play WoW anymore.

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 11/26/08 08:04 AM


the problem is that if there is a girl who's main interests are video games and TV... the chances of you meeting here is slim to none since she'll be at home watching TV and playing video games laugh flowerforyou


Maybe they could meet on Wow? laugh


I wasnt gonna go there....but you did, lol!!

Haloheldbyhorns's photo
Wed 11/26/08 08:04 AM


the problem is that if there is a girl who's main interests are video games and TV... the chances of you meeting here is slim to none since she'll be at home watching TV and playing video games laugh flowerforyou


Maybe they could meet on Wow? laugh

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Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 11/26/08 08:05 AM


Man...theres someone out there for everybody. I mean look at me....I have my foot in my mouth. So its not like im the coolest guy in the room.
laugh laugh laugh you do know that at any given time there's approx 3 trillion germs on your feet laugh :wink: drinker


Sure....and whats worse...is that I work at a waste water treatment plant. So theres probably a ton more than that.

....you dont see me sick.

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 08:05 AM
Okay, Call of Duty then....

ZenthForbias's photo
Wed 11/26/08 08:06 AM

Okay, Call of Duty then....


The only girls I've ever come across playing CoD are girlfriends or wives of the people I'm playing with.

Jill298's photo
Wed 11/26/08 08:06 AM


If you've asked that many girls out and they've all declined than you are asking the wrong type of girls. Though it may be hard for you to meet girls interested in what you are, you only have 2 viable options. 1... you can try new things, try to be a lil more outgoing and spend a little less time at home in front of the TV. You can't really expect any woman to have ALL of the same interests that you do. Or 2... you can keep doing what you're doing and keep getting declined. I'm not suggesting you change your personality or your likes / dislikes. Don't change who you really are. Just be more open minded. You really need to meet a girl that is interested in video games and prime time TV. Just keep looking.


It goes beyond then just trying to find someone that has my same interests. Let's just say I'm not like every other guy my age. I refuse to drink and go out partying. I refuse to have pre-marital sex, and more often than not girls my age are looking for the party type of guy that wants to have also not just a emotional relationship, but a sexual relationship as well.
There's nothing wrong with that. It does go back to finding someone with the same interests as you. You stated in your profile that you're a Christian above all else. So are you involved in a church? Any activities with a church you can attend, and maybe meet someone NOT looking for sex? There really is someone for you, you just need to find her.

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 11/26/08 08:07 AM


Okay, Call of Duty then....


The only girls I've ever come across playing CoD are girlfriends or wives of the people I'm playing with.


Nothing wrong with CoD...I play that shyt like a mofo. Along with SoCom as well.

Video Gamers Unite!!!

tngxl65's photo
Wed 11/26/08 08:08 AM
Edited by tngxl65 on Wed 11/26/08 08:09 AM

Man...theres someone out there for everybody. I mean look at me....I have my foot in my mouth. So its not like im the coolest guy in the room.


And do we need to note that you're single... :tongue: :tongue:

LOL..just read your profile... you're not!

So.. I say, everyone suck on their toes!


alisha07's photo
Wed 11/26/08 08:08 AM



Okay, Call of Duty then....


The only girls I've ever come across playing CoD are girlfriends or wives of the people I'm playing with.


Nothing wrong with CoD...I play that shyt like a mofo. Along with SoCom as well.

Video Gamers Unite!!!


what is SoCom?

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 08:09 AM

There's nothing wrong with that. It does go back to finding someone with the same interests as you. You stated in your profile that you're a Christian above all else. So are you involved in a church? Any activities with a church you can attend, and maybe meet someone NOT looking for sex? There really is someone for you, you just need to find her.


Listen to Jill, OP. This is a super, fantastic, and dead-on awesome idea.

ZenthForbias's photo
Wed 11/26/08 08:09 AM



If you've asked that many girls out and they've all declined than you are asking the wrong type of girls. Though it may be hard for you to meet girls interested in what you are, you only have 2 viable options. 1... you can try new things, try to be a lil more outgoing and spend a little less time at home in front of the TV. You can't really expect any woman to have ALL of the same interests that you do. Or 2... you can keep doing what you're doing and keep getting declined. I'm not suggesting you change your personality or your likes / dislikes. Don't change who you really are. Just be more open minded. You really need to meet a girl that is interested in video games and prime time TV. Just keep looking.


It goes beyond then just trying to find someone that has my same interests. Let's just say I'm not like every other guy my age. I refuse to drink and go out partying. I refuse to have pre-marital sex, and more often than not girls my age are looking for the party type of guy that wants to have also not just a emotional relationship, but a sexual relationship as well.
There's nothing wrong with that. It does go back to finding someone with the same interests as you. You stated in your profile that you're a Christian above all else. So are you involved in a church? Any activities with a church you can attend, and maybe meet someone NOT looking for sex? There really is someone for you, you just need to find her.


That's the problem... I don't have a car right now, so I have my parents dragging me around everywhere so, I can't really go to the church that I want to go to. There's a church with like 50+ girls my age, but it's 30 minutes away. The church that I do go to with my parents consists of no girls my age. The closest age to me is 15 and that's a red flag...