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Wed 11/19/08 07:00 AM

I'm just saying that, in the scenario as originally presented, I see enough warning signs that I would make an immediate and permanent exit. You don't have to know every single detail in order to know that a situation isn't right for you.



Nah, you're right, sorry! I know your stance on drinking and kids and respect it. Nice to know of someone who knows what works for them and owns that decision with no apologies. flowerforyou

I was just making the point, for others, that this situation, for the young woman in question, may not be as it appears.

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Wed 11/19/08 07:01 AM


I'm just saying that, in the scenario as originally presented, I see enough warning signs that I would make an immediate and permanent exit. You don't have to know every single detail in order to know that a situation isn't right for you.



And, that is a valid and responsible choice. So, you would not consider "hitting and quitting it" on your way out the door?

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Wed 11/19/08 07:02 AM

hahaha. whatever. id rather put myself in the hospital.


Keep "playing" women and you just might run into one that will put you there! laugh

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Wed 11/19/08 07:03 AM

hahaha. whatever. id rather put myself in the hospital.


It would save the taxpayers the expense of a trial. So, if it makes you happy...........

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Wed 11/19/08 07:05 AM



I'm just saying that, in the scenario as originally presented, I see enough warning signs that I would make an immediate and permanent exit. You don't have to know every single detail in order to know that a situation isn't right for you.



And, that is a valid and responsible choice. So, you would not consider "hitting and quitting it" on your way out the door?


No. In my own personal ethic, that would be wrong. I might have done that sort of thing 15 years ago, in that situation, I'll admit. Not now.

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Wed 11/19/08 07:07 AM


No. In my own personal ethic, that would be wrong. I might have done that sort of thing 15 years ago, in that situation, I'll admit. Not now.


flowerforyou

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Wed 11/19/08 07:09 AM
WOW...it is threads like this and the jerk who started it that drag down the intellectual level of this site...

It is guys like him that make it so difficult for decent men to get past the bad perceptions left by idiots like Mr. Wonderful here...

keep the fire burning ladies...WE good guys are out here......

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Wed 11/19/08 07:10 AM

WOW...it is threads like this and the jerk who started it that drag down the intellectual level of this site...

It is guys like him that make it so difficult for decent men to get past the bad perceptions left by idiots like Mr. Wonderful here...

keep the fire burning ladies...WE good guys are out here......


The good thing is, most of us know that, thankfully, most men are NOT like the OP. flowerforyou

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Wed 11/19/08 08:02 AM
The fact that you are having second thoughts at just the mention of her having a child is bad news. Your either good with it or your not....your not. If it was just you and her I would say there is no harm in exploring a relationship, but not throwing a kid in the mix. This is going to sound stupid, but maybe you should start out being friends. That way you can get a little exposure to the kid and find out if it rubs you the wrong way or not.

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