honestly ladies am a a bad looking guy? i have been told i am good looking i just want to get a few more truthful answers on it. please don't hold back be open and honest ladies. thank you

Its always reassuring to hear it strait from the ladies mouth. Although, not unlike you, I have an unfortunate wall in my brain that doesn't allow me to let compliments sink in haha.

I don't believe I have ever had any ladies tell me I am attractive at all.

I think you are handsome. But you asked for honesty. Looks aren't everything mind you. If you find the right girl, she will love you for all that you are. But in this day and age men and women alike don't just look at the face but the body. If they see a woman or a man(and this isnt everybody) who doesnt take care of themselves, how are they to take of the other person. maybe if you put up some full body pics, in a nice pair of jeans and a button down shirt or something.. the ones you have up make you look like a trucker. if your looking for the right one like i said .. she will love you no matter what but if your lookin to find her on here.. put up some better pics. maybe add more to your profile. i hope i didnt offend you but i am one of those who likes to give my opinion.. have a nice day and good luck.

It goes both ways... I've had women tell me I'm ugly, But alot more tell me that I'm attractive.

These unconfident post are unattractive.

Confidence in a man is attractive.
Confidence can't make you look like some super sexy movie start but it can make you seem more physically attractive than you are.

The way you dress and walk and carry yourself helps. I see some business guys come into the diner where I work all dressed up in a suit and walking all self assured and they look hot. They would be average looking laying on a beach maybe but their suit and confidence really makes them seem hot.

your not bad looking however your self esteem isnt all that attractive... to have to ask that question that is... anyhow your profile writings remind me of when i was a kid and when someone asked me how old i would reply 10...... and a half!

I need more body pics to show off my manlyness, and also on your topic, bro its all good some ladies havnt different pref's you just worry about the one that YOU like not everyone else's rating system on how you should look. Just my two cents

here we go again about physical attraction which is important, but most people it seems to be the MOST important..noone wants to look at someones heart anymore..tired of the bull****..thats y i'm single..men r too damn picky..u gotta have it ALL for a guy to date u..hmmmm, thats prob y i havent dated in over a year and i'm fine with it..being single is great!!! who needs a man? not me

If I could actually see what you look like in that picture....I could answer that question.

Just be confident about yourself, bro, don't let what other people think shape how you perceive yourself. If you go with what others tell you, then you're just following the mob, and thats never good.

roflmao yea you got me and i think u are hot inside<as in the heart> and out

I have to agree with the others... Confidence is #1 when it comes to attraction. You could be a good looking guy, but if you're dull/bland... Women won't even go as far as to see what you look like. Oh yeah, If you feel sorry for yourself?... You might as well have an extra arm, or a hunchback. Decent men, and women both hate inconfidence.

Just be happy being you.

You got perty lips there mister. LOL!

MM makes a good point here. When you get to the point when you stop caring about what other people think about you, you become more attractive IMHO

I happened to see your post and felt a need to reply. I would not say you're a bad looking guy. But with saying that you need to take this into consideration. This is a dating site, "site/sight" being the operative word here. When women and men are looking at profiles they are not sitting in front of the person learning their personality, they are flipping through profiles looking at pictures first, therefore visual first impressions are what make an impact.

Is that shallow, in a real world setting yes, but this is the cyber world and in cyberland everything is visually based first. So with saying that here are a few suggestions to you and to all guys who may read this.....

You want to grab the womans attention and for most women seeing a man who is dressed decent is one of the first things that catch our eyes, you don't have to be in a 3 piece suit but rather casual dress clothes are nice or even a nice pair of jeans and a clean pull over or sporty sweatshirt is good too.

If the pictures you have posted show you in stained, old, torn up shirts, or hunting clothing after you've just offed Bambi, that is going to be an instant turn off for most women.

Good hygiene and grooming is the next thing that catches our eye. So make sure you post a picture of yourself without hat hair or bed head. A good haircut/style will do wonders for a guys appearance and NO COMBOVERS are ever ok, if you're thinning on top then trim all your hair down to even it out.

If you're not trying to grow a beard then make sure the picture you have up shows that you do know how to use a razor or trimmers.

If you wear contacts, then don't have all your pictures posted with you in your glasses, we like to see your eyes as they are the next thing that that attracts most women. Glasses can be very attractive on a man you just want to make sure that the ones you wear didn't go out of style in 1970.

And finally....SMILE!! A smile says so much about a person, a smile is inviting, it says "Hi, come talk to me"!

Good luck in your search for true love, its out there for you somewhere! :)

It isn't my place to judge since I don't know you personally...

But I agree with MindyMindy...Confidence in a manis attractive. woman would want a self conscious guy nor a self centered one either. If people say ur attractive go with it and say, " Thank you."

Double post

How did that happen?

I'll erase this one