TammyJo71

Wow TammyJo71. This was your first post on the forums and it's a great one. I am going to quote it so the guys see it again.

I agree with her. On a dating site it's HOW you present what you have more than WHAT you actually have. I get too many messages from guys that look like they didn't even try looking nice for their pictures. I even get messages from guys wearing their pants so they are showing their underwear (mostly from my age group).

Present yourself well.....it matters.

It isn't my place to judge since I don't know you personally...

But I agree with MindyMindy...Confidence in a manis attractive. noway woman would want a self conscious guy nor a self centered one either. If people say ur attractive go with it and say, " Thank you."smile


Hey could you point me to the manis store? jk


I have no problem with the fact that I am a total badass. It's just teh fact that every female in my life past or present has never given me any sort of credit for my looks or accomplishments. I grew up like that unfortunately. Even to this day I can shred on guitar and my family not once has even so much as asked how it was going or if I had wrote anything. I'm not out to please people but I would expect more from a family/girlfriend.

P.S. Theres no way in hell im giving up on women though, way to perfect for me to ride the pine and wait. On top of that I am a VERY sexually active partner so maybe too much sex ran all my old ladies away haha.

You think the hockey gear helps?

NOPE! Not bad looking...! But its what your personality is like that's more important to MEE!

Yes, good points.

You're a handsome guy. Wear what you want, dress how you want. You'll attract the kind of woman YOU want by being yourself. And for gosh sakes, quit asking if your cute......who cares what we think? Good Luck and go get em!

I am going to preface this with you asked for honest feed back and that is not always easy to hear everything. I am going to start with your strengths because you do have some. Really a remarkable amount.

Your height and body structure is normal even though you could loose probably fifty pounds. (That is only a pound a week if you just set your mind to it you could easily do it in a year.) If you need tips write me and I will be glad to give you doable ideas and support.

Your features are masculine and semetrical. You have really good overall face. Great jaw line and chin.

Your ears are good porportion and set in the side of your face well.

Your neck is not real long but with weight loss it will appear longer. My guess is you have a heavy beard but that is not a problem if you shave and use an exfoliant.

You appear to have fantastic skin and coloring that many men would die for. You really would benifit from someone telling you what colors you could wear to make that pop.

You have knock dead eyes. I don't know that the glasses are the most flattering porportion or style; kind of have a Santa Claus theme going on that is amplifying your weight. But like so many guys it doesn't appear you have dark circles, or acne problems, or scars. LUCKY YOU! If you spring for a nice shirt and professional photos that don't glare on the glass your responses will double on that alone.

And guy; count your blessings shoulders that a woman would swoon over if you replaced mass with muscle.

I can't tell about your lower body because it isn't all that evident in your pictures but I assume you have good posture from the one picture. And relatively straight legs. In a picture you can't tell alot about grace but you might want to think about position when someone is taking your picture. Slouching back in a recliner is passive; be active lean forward, wave, offer a toast, and SMILE!!!

I don't think your pictures are that complimentary.

BDU is fine if you want to hunt pheasant, deer, or guys to hang out with but not a lot of women are going to consider that high on their list. Gun photos will make your responses drop off radically.

Overalls? Honey they were a short lived fad 30 years ago. They make you look huge. If you are out in the shop, garden, or someplace they are approriate that makes sense but you might want to pick photo's that catch you in something flattering.

Underwear wheather it is t-shirts or thermals is not the best to be photographed in.

I understand short hair is a low maintenace style but you might want to think of something that flatters your face. It doesn't have to be long but work with a good stylist for something that looks like you spend a little on your appearance. If you don't on yours women can pretty well conclude you won't allow them to spend any on theirs.

You are probably not going to like this but face hair is NOT something that most women find attractive. The proof is in the result. Go to a bar or mall or any place single people are. How many of the guys who are single and getting action have whiskers. Yea guys with wives but not single guys. Yours is trimmed nicely in your photos but it doesn't matter. Many women don't want to kiss whiskers. They don't want whiskers rubbed on their face, body, or private parts because it is abrasive. If you have to have wiskers to be yourself then you have to accept the consequences.

You have to keep in mind what else is in your pictures. Is it appeeling or does it suggest a sloppy, sedentary, depressing lifestyle?

You haven't asked for comments on your profile but you could be knock dead georgeous and the text will shoot you down.

And it is not because I think you are a bad guy. It how you present the information. Sorry would like to give you a pass because I know you are trying but this is hurting you. Try again and it will get better.

YUM YUM

I agree.

It just takes some common sense.

ya got to be careful of these..."what do ya think of me" posts because
there some kind people out there, and there are some not so kind people out there.
what exactly r u looking for in a woman...an elk hunter type?

find a forum u like, and then do some small time chit chat..why not a hunting forum...what do u hunt? say elk for instance...does anyone know anything about roosevelt elk which are all over the place...?
or some such question.

i have been burned at the stake on this site, and then again, i have some loyal followers. well, i guess i never asked them if they liked my looks or not. i just assumed they didn't and said who the hell cares what i look like. it is my heart that counts. what does your heart look like?