Topic: Nice Guys finish last
KoolAidWoman's photo
Tue 11/18/08 02:42 PM
Edited by KoolAidWoman on Tue 11/18/08 02:43 PM
Hi everyone in the sound of this Hellooooooo!.
Mr your race in life has just begun mine to.
The word [nice] is to general!.Look at yourself and
Say im in the race for my life!. to gain great friends here!and in your work place church][ if your a beliver!. soul search
And turn aroud and look at your friends in your life and only then be counted.some people don't think friends are #1 but they count with me more then family this is JMO,Koolaidwoman thanks for your thread]Of course Koolaid have some good days!.flowersGod loves you!

horsegirl55's photo
Tue 11/18/08 03:08 PM
frustrated
I think you need to keep trying. There is someone out there waiting for you.

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Tue 11/18/08 05:01 PM
I have to agree that no matter how much you have been through, if you try to think positive it helps you get through life.

What's your real reason for being here? This is a friendly, welcoming group. If you're looking to meet people and make friends, you're going to have to set your anger aside. Afterall, we aren't the ones who hurt you.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:04 PM
This is for music man 1957!I put a thread on here.
About a week or so ago about to the saying of the one that slips though your finger's and was laughed at to they even had a song to the effect I had jus lost? someone? and realy
Din't need the mockery but people just don't think
I almost did not post here anymore! matter of fact they don't own this place God is good we have arrived
In more ways than just myself!Thank God there going to be some changes in America nuff said!
Hang tuff Music!Its get's Better!Koolaidwoman
Thanks to those who E-Mailed me! Thank-you!
Im doing a little better!shades flowers

euphoriaholic's photo
Wed 11/19/08 12:56 AM
You are so right oldsage we all have our "trigger points", usually for me it's a bag of oreos and a glass of milk, I just lose all control and go bonkers :smile:

tfa1957's photo
Thu 11/20/08 10:39 AM
Edited by tfa1957 on Thu 11/20/08 10:43 AM
This is just my two cents worth, I personally think some people provide a self fulfilling prophecy. If they think a certain way, be it negative, or positive, then it makes all the difference in the world to them and certainly all the people around them. I am guessing we are all here in the hopes of finding the partner they have longed for in their dreams. All that means nothing if you have your head hanging down, because while you mope and are looking at the ground, the perfect partner just pasts by. If you hope to add and be added to a persons' life, they need to know your contributing just as much as they are and it has to be emotionally worthwhile. No more, no less. So, even though you've have some failed relationships, maybe you should look at that as learning opportunies, and pay attention to the gut, pay attention to red flags. If your 2 past ex's were cheating, there is no way there were not some red flags somewhere along the line. In order to not repeat the past, you need to figure those things out first or your doomed to repeat them. Maybe that was my 5 cents worth.

flame1cutie's photo
Thu 11/20/08 07:29 PM

This is just my two cents worth, I personally think some people provide a self fulfilling prophecy. If they think a certain way, be it negative, or positive, then it makes all the difference in the world to them and certainly all the people around them. I am guessing we are all here in the hopes of finding the partner they have longed for in their dreams. All that means nothing if you have your head hanging down, because while you mope and are looking at the ground, the perfect partner just pasts by. If you hope to add and be added to a persons' life, they need to know your contributing just as much as they are and it has to be emotionally worthwhile. No more, no less. So, even though you've have some failed relationships, maybe you should look at that as learning opportunies, and pay attention to the gut, pay attention to red flags. If your 2 past ex's were cheating, there is no way there were not some red flags somewhere along the line. In order to not repeat the past, you need to figure those things out first or your doomed to repeat them. Maybe that was my 5 cents worth.
Very excellent write tfa1957

euphoriaholic's photo
Thu 11/20/08 10:41 PM
I would have to add tfa1957 that that advice is worth more than 5 cents, I'd pay a quarter for it.

Greyhound's photo
Fri 11/21/08 01:59 AM
I'd put in a dollar for tfa1957's advice:smile:

horsegirl55's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:15 AM
I'll up the bid to 1.25.

Greyhound's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:20 AM
I'll up the bid to 1.30

horsegirl55's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:34 AM
I up the bid again to 1.35.

Greyhound's photo
Fri 11/21/08 03:28 AM
I'll up your bit a dime more 1.45 and I'm off to work. I hope other people will come on and keep this thing going.laugh
Have a great day!waving

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Fri 11/21/08 04:40 AM
I'm going to 1.50:wink:

mssilverfox's photo
Fri 11/21/08 05:02 AM

This is just my two cents worth, I personally think some people provide a self fulfilling prophecy. If they think a certain way, be it negative, or positive, then it makes all the difference in the world to them and certainly all the people around them. I am guessing we are all here in the hopes of finding the partner they have longed for in their dreams. All that means nothing if you have your head hanging down, because while you mope and are looking at the ground, the perfect partner just pasts by. If you hope to add and be added to a persons' life, they need to know your contributing just as much as they are and it has to be emotionally worthwhile. No more, no less. So, even though you've have some failed relationships, maybe you should look at that as learning opportunies, and pay attention to the gut, pay attention to red flags. If your 2 past ex's were cheating, there is no way there were not some red flags somewhere along the line. In order to not repeat the past, you need to figure those things out first or your doomed to repeat them. Maybe that was my 5 cents worth.





Very good write tfa, and very interesting flowerforyou

oldsage's photo
Fri 11/21/08 05:20 AM
Tfa, great write. Need you to come around more.
You show alot of character with that post.

mssilverfox's photo
Fri 11/21/08 05:24 AM
Morning everyone, I'll be away so hope you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving flowers flowers flowers flowers

horsegirl55's photo
Fri 11/21/08 06:36 AM

I'm going to 1.50:wink:

I'll up it a nickel -- 1.55laugh

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Fri 11/21/08 06:38 AM
I outdo you: 1.60tongue2

oldsage's photo
Fri 11/21/08 06:40 AM
OHHHH HECK.....$2.00