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Topic: Nice Guys finish last
music_man_1957's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:23 AM
I believe I'm a kind caring man that always finishes last or sometimes never make it to the finish line.
I would walk on glass or hot coals for the right woman to come into my life.
Married twice, they both lied, cheated and abused me and was always the last to know...
I get disturbed when I see and have met men that got the nicest women they don't deserve and somehow keep them!

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Tue 11/18/08 09:27 AM
so don't be a "nice guy"

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Tue 11/18/08 09:27 AM
Sorry that happened to you, man!! sad

oldsage's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:29 AM
Guess as a "Nice Guy", I just haven't finished.

I don't believe in quitting.

music_man_1957's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:33 AM
Maybe I'm cursed & it wasn't ment to be...tears brokenheart

ljcc1964's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:34 AM
The thing is....you can SAY that you'll walk on glass or through fire....but when the chips are down, will you really?

music_man_1957's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:36 AM
Indeed I do & did!
Read my profile & you'll see the difference between me & most men!
again.... I'm always the last to know!
brokenheart

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Tue 11/18/08 09:41 AM
Nice guys who believe they finish last do finish last.

There are always two sides of a story. Perhaps look into yourself to see what needs to be changed to achieve better results with friendships and relationships.

I wish you the best of luck in your search.:smile:

music_man_1957's photo
Tue 11/18/08 10:06 AM
I won't tollerate the hurt & abuse from the last response!
It's been reported & hopefully their membership will be canceled for the cagey way to insult & intimidate ME! then wish me the best of luck?
Nomore forums for me!
I been through this episode before with the hurtful comments!

music_man_1957's photo
Tue 11/18/08 10:08 AM
In fact!
this coward doesn't have the guts to provide his own picture!
there's a clue!

music_man_1957's photo
Tue 11/18/08 10:13 AM
Furthermore!
This snotnosed 33 yr old KID don't belong here!
It's for 50 & older!

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Tue 11/18/08 10:27 AM

I won't tollerate the hurt & abuse from the last response!
It's been reported & hopefully their membership will be canceled for the cagey way to insult & intimidate ME! then wish me the best of luck?
Nomore forums for me!
I been through this episode before with the hurtful comments!


I don't think he wanted to insult you.
He just pointed out that with a negative attitude you get negative results.
A bit of optimism doesn't do any harm, and we have to find it in ourselves.
As to the picture: A lot of us don't post our real pictures, just because it is fun to have all kinds of things up.
And any thread in any forum is open to everybody. No one has a right to exclude anybody for any reason.
Nobody stops you from going to the younger forums, you can post anywhere you like.

Don't be so angry, try to be positive.
When one door closes, others will open.
Love and light to you

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Tue 11/18/08 10:27 AM

I won't tollerate the hurt & abuse from the last response!
It's been reported & hopefully their membership will be canceled for the cagey way to insult & intimidate ME! then wish me the best of luck?
Nomore forums for me!
I been through this episode before with the hurtful comments!


I don't guess I see the hurt and abuse there

you're kinda freakin out over something that isnt there. That sorta tells me something

polypeasant's photo
Tue 11/18/08 10:50 AM
Take a deep breath and let the anger go.

Nice gals get hurt also.

Try, try, again. There will be someone who appeciates you when the time is right.

Cheers and keep the faith!

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Tue 11/18/08 11:13 AM
I waited awhile to wait for the "RESCUERS" to defend this 33 yr old Know it all KID!
I bet None of you who replied in this KIDS defense cared to view BOTH our profiles before judging your comments.
If you notice, this KID at 33 yrs of age still plays video games and most likely still lives home with his parents and doesn't have a clue to the topic I started because he isn't old enough or mature enough to have the experience or go through what people older than him has!
Again, this KID is in the WRONG ROOM at 33 to give advise to an elder also belongs with his OWN age group!
For those of you who cannot read or just ignorant to to instigate, "SO BE IT"
My final appearence and comments are VAILD & shows WISDOM!
I'm not angry to the fact of my situation but the way this KID answered me as if he spent more time on this earth knowing more than I and comes off as a physcologist!
NEWSFLASH!!!
I been breathing longer & been through more!
Case Closed!
Nomore Forums for me!
Find another vulnerable sucker to pull this on!
It ain't gonna be ME!
Atio's!!!!!!!!waving

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Tue 11/18/08 11:21 AM
wow

you don't seem such a nice guy anymore

maybe the anger and venom you answered a simple post with reflects the way you handle your relationships?

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Tue 11/18/08 11:25 AM
Heavens, somebody carries a lot of anger.ohwell

And only because he is older he thinks he has the claim to famefrown

euphoriaholic's photo
Tue 11/18/08 12:21 PM
Can you say anger management? Wow someone offers you advise and you go off on them. Maybe you're not such a nice guy after all?

oldsage's photo
Tue 11/18/08 12:36 PM
We all have our trigger points.
Sorry Music man took things this way.
Hope he reconsiders & gets to know folks better.

Greyhound's photo
Tue 11/18/08 02:23 PM
noway Wow... INTERESTING

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