He was asked what he was telling people. Not what other people were telling him.

Ahhhh, I misunderstood.


oops.

No.......

Bob, George, Mac, King ????
Never mind I have to leave now.

or STDs... Now that i would like a lady to let me know first... even than not on the first few chatting. I guess it depends on how you see sex or something..

not asking about posting sent messages just what he says.

No, his banana doesn't dance... or this is what we are asking.


Gallatan, Oh yes, he is maybe telling them he has an STD... like herpes or gential warts.

So, are there any here that do like to meet right away? If so, is there a reason for meeting very quickly?

I like to wait a little to meet too and the first meeting is always coffee or something casual like that. That way it is still just chatting only face to face.

I wonder if the reason why some of these of these people are so eager is because they are frustrated - we the posts about it all the time. I'll go ahead and say "slow down." If he's got good intentions he usually understands.

As for talking about sex right away, it looks like you are just trying to protect yourself Trout, but most women are trying to do the same thing. Bringing up sex that early is usually a good indicator that we are dealing with a pervert.

I've met people fast, and others waited. It just depends on the vibe, the level of communication.... my schedule. On average, I mail/chat about a week before meeting a person. The further away they live the more time I spend. And I'll never meet someone I did not talk to on the phone.

I'm a person to person sort of person.

I always request a public place for a first meeting and I wont drink alcohol because I need to keep my wits about me. I ask that we meet someplace and arrive in separate vehicles. Thats just precautionary but I would recommend that EVERYONE do this, male or female. Granted women can be at greater risk but you never know who you are talking to necessarily online so men need to watch it also.

A week isn't so bad. If the person is willing to chat/talk on the phone during that week.

If they aren't, well, why? If they are interested they will talk, right?

If they refuse to speak with you on the phone, then all bets are off. They are hiding something then. Either they are married or an 8 year old boy or what not.

I see what you are saying, Angie. I just thought it was funny that this one email I got with this one lady. I had been writing very long emails back and forth with her. Then I wrote the word 'sex' in the email. Of everything I wrote to her she must have read that one word. I thought I should have wrote it in the very first email and saved myself a lot of writing because that is all that caught her attention.

No idea. The guy who emailed me earlier said he had no time for chatting. And that he had a life. Apparently that was supposed to make me want to meet him tomorrow.

You said you were bringing up sex right away. How are you bringing it up?

Well dont be silly. It was probably the context in which you used the word "sex". Did you tell her you were a sexual sadist? Did you mention that you enjoy dressing like a woman? No one can really know what you are talking about here unless you are a little more specific.

Sing, what a cad. No time to chat? Well, it must be a nice life....


I once had a guy send me a mail that said he worked M-F 7-5, worked out from 6-9 and then on the weekends worked out for four hours and did X, Y, and Z.

I told him I was tired from reading about his highly regimented and rigid schedule and wished him all the best...

Nope. I was marked and branded from that moment on. I must be a pervert from her point of view.

I think (my perception) is that they feel if they dont act quickly enough the potential for a relationship expires

kinda like a gallon of milk

Dont understand the rush, but then again, I am not easily rushable