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from here or any other site like this, do you usually meet quickly? As in that day or the next? Or, do you chat a bit, then decide if you want to meet? I'm just curious, because the local guys I receive emails from are in such a rush to meet. Almost all of them are the same. I see no harm in waiting a week or two in order to chat a bit first. Most local guys seem to think differently, though. My friend Mindsi and I met up at Taco Shop for lunch. I think we had chatted and texted for about 3 days before we hung out. That was back in, whew!, I can't remember... We've been friends ever since and go to 'gaming' night together and stuff... Then for a while I had a good friend in Dodge, but he let his new girlfriend become his obsession and I just don't like watching friends hit a downward spiral. I met HMonanta for coffee, but then we went to a Mediterranean Grill that was AWESOME! (by the way, HM, I got some fresh homemade pita for you!) it's really up to you. Just make sure you do it in a public place, okay? |
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It helped me. I was being myself and talked her just like any of my friends. Your right. I got a response back like I was a pervert. It showed me right there that she was fake. So, a woman who isn't into talking about sex with you from the start is fake? Exactly. WTH IS WRONG WITH YOU? No the question is "WTF, WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU" |
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from here or any other site like this, do you usually meet quickly? As in that day or the next? Or, do you chat a bit, then decide if you want to meet? I'm just curious, because the local guys I receive emails from are in such a rush to meet. Almost all of them are the same. I see no harm in waiting a week or two in order to chat a bit first. Most local guys seem to think differently, though. I've encountered this, too and I don't understand the big rush. I really don't understand the anger after I tell them that's not my thing and I'm more comfortable with first e-mails, then phone, then meeting. I don't see anything wrong with chatting for a while first. In fact I see it as a very smart move. What if he only wants to meet for sex? Or worse, wants a punching bag? I'd rather play it safe. 
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It helped me. I was being myself and talked her just like any of my friends. Your right. I got a response back like I was a pervert. It showed me right there that she was fake. So, a woman who isn't into talking about sex with you from the start is fake? Exactly. Wow. I totally don't agree. |
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I'm convinced some guys have never even spoken to a woman without giving out their credit card number first. I will generally demand a major credit card before a first date.  
Do you take Visa? |
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Nothing is wrong with me. If they can't handle the truth then they must have something to hide.
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from here or any other site like this, do you usually meet quickly? As in that day or the next? Or, do you chat a bit, then decide if you want to meet? I'm just curious, because the local guys I receive emails from are in such a rush to meet. Almost all of them are the same. I see no harm in waiting a week or two in order to chat a bit first. Most local guys seem to think differently, though. My friend Mindsi and I met up at Taco Shop for lunch. I think we had chatted and texted for about 3 days before we hung out. That was back in, whew!, I can't remember... We've been friends ever since and go to 'gaming' night together and stuff... Then for a while I had a good friend in Dodge, but he let his new girlfriend become his obsession and I just don't like watching friends hit a downward spiral. I met HMonanta for coffee, but then we went to a Mediterranean Grill that was AWESOME! (by the way, HM, I got some fresh homemade pita for you!) it's really up to you. Just make sure you do it in a public place, okay? I've met people in the past (not from this site) with no issues. I'm just seeing a ton of emails from people who are like I described earlier and found it rather strange. |
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Nothing is wrong with me. If they can't handle the truth then they must have something to hide. You're not making any sense. |
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Nothing is wrong with me. If they can't handle the truth then they must have something to hide. They can't handle the truth? What, that you have no couth? That you can't take the time to get to know a person or build rapport before you start talking about your dork? |
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Hmm i am curious to what you say on your first email RainbowTrout? Will be interesting to see if some of the ladies here think on those messages.
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Hmm i am curious to what you say on your first email RainbowTrout? Will be interesting to see if some of the ladies here think on those messages. I'm also wondering now how he brings it up. |
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I was contacted by somebody on another site in the middle of October. We are on the phone or messenger almost daily for hours. At the end of this month we will finally meet, but by then we will know quite a lot about each other, even little tweaks, likes and dislikes.
I have been the one drawing it out for so long, and he has been patient enough to wait until I was ready for it. I do think that this way we can enjoy it much better. |
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It helped me. I was being myself and talked her just like any of my friends. Your right. I got a response back like I was a pervert. It showed me right there that she was fake. So, a woman who isn't into talking about sex with you from the start is fake? Exactly. WTH IS WRONG WITH YOU? No the question is "WTF, WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU" No not you Lilith401, to the Trout |
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No not you Lilith401, to the Trout Yes, I know... I thought about the WTF versus WTH.... but then I remembered.... if I said WTF I was talking about sex too....
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Nothing is wrong with me. If they can't handle the truth then they must have something to hide. Do you have a medical condition that effects you sexually? Something like that I could understand that you might need to address it right away with a woman. Does your penis function properly? That I would not hold against you. |
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No not you Lilith401, to the Trout Yes, I know... I thought about the WTF versus WTH.... but then I remembered.... if I said WTF I was talking about sex too....
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Nothing is wrong with me. If they can't handle the truth then they must have something to hide. Do you have a medical condition that effects you sexually? Something like that I could understand that you might need to address it right away with a woman. Does your penis function properly? That I would not hold against you. LMFAO!!!! Yeah, is it ED? |
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Hmm i am curious to what you say on your first email RainbowTrout? Will be interesting to see if some of the ladies here think on those messages. You are not allowed to repost private messages here. If you see someone doing so, you need to report them. Private messages are just that, private. |
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Nothing is wrong with me. If they can't handle the truth then they must have something to hide. Do you have a medical condition that effects you sexually? Something like that I could understand that you might need to address it right away with a woman. Does your penis function properly? That I would not hold against you. LMFAO!!!! Yeah, is it ED? Wait, wait, wait. Are you telling me he named his penis "ED", and tells women this in his first email??? |
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Hmm i am curious to what you say on your first email RainbowTrout? Will be interesting to see if some of the ladies here think on those messages. You are not allowed to repost private messages here. If you see someone doing so, you need to report them. Private messages are just that, private. Do you understand he was asked to describe what sorts of things he sends, not to post actual sent messages? 
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