Sorry you were insulted like that. I stay out of the games for that reason too.

There are lots of good people on here, so don't give up on the site. Takes a little time to weed out the bad ones, but it is worth it. Hope your week gets better. Take care.

If I had a quarter for everytime someone called me a creepy, ugly, old man. Keep solstice in realizing that, that selfish little twit won't get much for dates because she's a meanie. She didn't just disrespect you. She does it to everyone. But that L on her forehead usually catches up with those types.

Well at least all the crappy comments got removed already and you all have been so kind.
Like i said most times it rolls off me...just some days it still stabs me. I suppose even scar tissue bleeds.

Marie- Thank you I am working on that weeding out right now

SolitaryMan- it matters little what the "issue" is people will always find one to harp on you for I suppose

misKim- Your fire and passion are second to none, be proud of those features

buttons- hell yea (btw love the pic)

Lily- Hi lily don't worry you're talking to the king of blunt and tactless land!

thanks just found it after being on here 2 yrs lol I like your pic too

No No that's longhairbiker...but you can be his apprentice...

I however am the Queen all must bow before me... none do, but I like to think they debate it in their heads before not doing it...

kaysler i know exactly how you feel. i used to get comments like that all the time. but the way i see it, if i based my self esteem on what others thought of me i would have none. just hang in there and you will meet plenty of cool people on here.

I love fat people. Fat trannies especially, don't even get me started..

I was at the movies with a now ex, and we saw this HUGE black dude walking out of the movie alone. We were walking behind him, and I totally wanted to tackle hug him, but I didn't because I don't touch strangers and it would have weirded out my boyfriend.

Ah, the reason the internet invented the blacklist/block/permanently offline functions.

The long of it is some people lack the upper brain function to talk to people different than them without being derogatory. It is also a well-known fact the internet is apparently filled with makebelieve people who exist only for a cheap thrill for that particular second so they were born and came to the same little corner of the web you're in just so you could say something childish. Lastly, that same person is in the top 5 attractive people of all time without a single physical or mental flaw. All of these things are obvious.

Only one of those sentences is true and it's the first one. The rest of that flawed thinking is why a lot of the more patronized websites need to be taken down or better moderated.

My best friend has 190 pounds on me and I don't happen to judge anyone based on skin deep things because some of the best people I have known and still know are not perfect. Neither am I for that matter (no one is) so if they can cope with me I can cope with them and if there is someone out there who can't cope with you the odds are there is a button for you to use that'll help you cope in a little while.

Report for violation/block user or whatever have you. That's the idea because some people just do not care and before anyone suggests trying to reason with them it just has too low of a success rate to justify doing it too often. Believe me I've tried.

Tolerance, tolerance, tolerance, BLOCK, tolerance...that's my take on it.

Based on the way you've expressed yourself here, I'd have to say you're far too good a person for them anyway.

I always say this -- the world is full of idiots, and they're either on dating sites or driving the car in front of me.

I'm sorry this happened to you. You deserve better. There are lots of great people here on this site, and some of us are going to totally understand and sympathize with your feelings on the subject.

And not everybody is a superficial jerk. Rumor has it there are still some good ones out there....

Wow...how horrible that someone would say something like that to you...

I've never understood how the majority of people put SO MUCH importance on physical appearances.

At any moment anyone could be in a car accident or have something happen to them where their "looks" are forever changed. The 'outside' changes for every single person throughout life...the inside is where the best part of anyone is seen. -- I used to be 120 pounds heavier than I am now...and the heart of me is still the same. (at least I hope it is)

So please don't let anything like that get you down again -- feel sorry for them instead....-only someone with serious self-esteem issues needs to try to knock others down to make themselves feel better. That's pathetic.

Hope the rest of your day was better.
Dawn

i feel ya hon.

i have a frenemy (she sucks rocks) who chuckles as she dishes insults as if she were smooth enough to insult in between kindness. its gotten to the point where i laugh and call her out about it at the same time.

today she called me fat as she always does and just to make myself giggle (which i do not recommend doing!!!) i asked her how her new weave was in front of a very good looking patient.

i grinned and she just stood there...

don't do what i did.. but damn it felt good. lol

Not that it will erase the negative things that were said, but there is my opinion:

1. You have sexy eyes. Not only are they pretty, but I can really see the warmth of your personality in them.

2. I've said it before, but I think that red goatee is hot!

3. IMO, larger guys tend to be more fun!

WHY CAN'T PEOPLE JUST REMEMBER, IF YOU CAN'T SAY SOMETHING NICE DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL?!?!

Me too

just want to add one thing...I totally agree with Dawn. it must be nice to be as perfect as some people think they are.

brandynicole wrote

Oh they have a reason. It makes them feel better about themselves when they put others down.

Small people make fun of others. Those with confidence in who they are need not put others down to feel good about themselves.

When someone insults me in a cruel way I know they are really saying about themselves........"I am a small little person and I can only feel good about myself if I insult you."

kaysler....Just think of all the issues the person who insulted you must have. The person is probably living a miserable existence and we should pity them.

awwwwwwwww.....i wuv ya Kaysler!!!!!!!!
YES, there are MANY people on here that THINK they are sooooooooooo much better than the rest of us!!!!!!! they dont hesitate to say mean things, and its BS!!!!! They need to grow up.....theyre NOT ALL THAT!!!!! dont let them get to you so bad!!! your a good guy!!

If everyone were deeper than you, then you'd be pretty shallow so be thankful there are shallow people to make you deep

I just can't say this enough THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU ALL

I was NOT expecting such an outpouring. For the little scratch to my ego that person caused me you all have more than repaired it ...Awe hallmark moment I feel loved =p

yea bro i get ya i wasnt popular wen i was young like 15 an people dont realiz it hurts hang in there man they have to look at htemselves in the mirror to an trust me they no theyre ugly